Why Are The Bg3 Romances Ranked From Best To Worst So Controversial?

After sinking a bunch of hours into 'Star Wars: The Old Republic', I can say this cleanly: your character's species does not unlock special companion romances. The romance system in 'Star Wars: The Old Republic' is driven almost entirely by your class story, your faction (Republic vs. Imperial), and the gender choices tied to particular companion relationships. In short, picking Mirialan, Chiss, Human, Twi'lek, or whatever you want is primarily about aesthetics and roleplay flavor rather than opening hidden romance paths that only certain races can access. What matters most for who you can romance are the companions tied to your class and the decisions you make during your interactions with them. The game steers romance through scripted story beats, influence or affection mechanics, and key dialogue choices, not through race tags. There are also faction and class exclusives — some companions are exclusive to the Jedi Knight storyline, others to the Sith Warrior, the Smuggler, the Bounty Hunter, and so on — but again, that exclusivity is about class/faction, not species. You might notice small flavor bits where NPCs comment on your species (and companions may have banter lines that react if you share a species or background), but those are cosmetic and atmosphere-building rather than gatekeepers to a romance arc. Because race doesn't gate romances, the best way to make sure you can pursue a romance you like is to choose the class and gender that align with that companion’s programming. Some companions are gender-locked (originally many romances were written as heterosexual pairings), and over time there have been updates and additional companion options, but none of those updates made specific species a requirement for romance. So if you want a particular companion romance, pick the class that gets that companion and play through their companion questlines making the choices that build intimacy. If you want to roleplay a specific species romance vibe, you can always create a character of the species you love and play the romance-compatible class — visuals first, mechanics second. Personally, I always pick my race for vibes and story roleplay: the way a Chiss looks against Imperial architecture, or a Togruta's montrals flashing in a Republic cantina, sells the story more to me than mechanical bonuses ever could. Romance-wise, I focus on the companion’s personality and their arc, not my character’s species. That way I get the visual fantasy I want and the relationship arc I’m chasing — a win-win that makes exploration and replayability feel fresh every time.

Walking into the 'House of Grief' in 'Baldur's Gate 3' hits the party in a way that's part mechanical, part deeply personal. The place radiates sorrow in the story beats — eerie echoes, tragic vignettes, and choices that tug at companion histories — and that translates into immediate morale pressure. Practically, you'll see this as companions getting shaken, dialogue options that change tone, and some companions reacting strongly to certain revelations or cruelties. Those emotional hits can cascade: a companion who already distrusts you might withdraw or lash out after a grim scene, while someone who's on the mend could be pushed back toward cynicism if you handle things insensitively. On the gameplay side, think of it like two layers. The first is status and combat impact: there are environmental hazards, fear or horror-themed effects, and encounters that sap resources and health, which implicitly lowers the party's readiness and confidence for battles to come. The second is relational: approval and rapport shifts. Compassionate responses, private camp conversations, or saving an NPC can shore up morale; cruel or dismissive choices drive approval down, making party-wide cohesion shakier. That cohesion matters — lower trust often means fewer coordinated actions, rougher negotiations, and the risk of a companion leaving or refusing to follow in later, high-stakes moments. If you want to manage outcomes in the 'House of Grief', slow down. Use camp time for honest check-ins, pick dialogue that acknowledges grief rather than brushing it off, and spend resources on short rests or remedies so teammates aren’t exhausted going into the next skirmish. Some companions respond to blunt pragmatism while others need empathy, so tailor your approach — and remember that even small kindnesses can flip a bad morale spiral into one where people feel seen and stay invested. Bottom line: it’s one of those sections where roleplay choices and resource management blend, and I love how it forces you to care about the people in your party rather than treating them like tools.

A messy romance can grab me by the throat and refuse to let go, and I think that’s the first secret: intensity. In manga, emotion is amplified by art—the way a panel zooms on trembling hands or a rain-soaked face makes every small moment feel catastrophic. That heightened theatricality turns interpersonal chaos into spectacle, and I adore how artists use that to explore human flaws without pretending they’re neat. Beyond the visuals, there’s the pull of complexity. People in these stories hurt each other, try to fix each other, and sometimes break in the process. That creates narrative stake in a way neat, polite romances rarely do. When I read 'Goodnight Punpun' or 'Scum's Wish', I’m not just witnessing melodrama; I’m watching characters confront trauma, self-deception, and the messy work of wanting someone who can’t or won’t love you back. I also think fandom plays a role: shipping, fan art, and essays turn dysfunctional arcs into communal experiences. We discuss the ethics, replay key scenes, and sometimes find solace in the honesty of broken characters. For me, these stories are a risky kind of comfort—painful, but arrestingly honest, and I keep coming back because they feel real.

Cozy fantasy romance books have a magical quality that traditional romances often lack. In cozy fantasy, you're not just investing in a potential relationship; you're diving into an entire world filled with whimsical elements, mystical creatures, and often a sense of community that nurtures the romance. For instance, I recently read 'The House in the Cerulean Sea,' which masterfully blends the feel-good vibes of a heartfelt tale with enchanting characters that make you want to hug your book tightly. Unlike traditional romances that might focus primarily on the couple's chemistry, cozy fantasy often incorporates subplots involving friendships and local charm. Characters in these stories tend to be more relatable, each with their own quirks and dreams, making their romantic arcs feel like a natural extension of a greater narrative. It’s about the cozy atmosphere—the bakery, the magical bookstore, or the enchanted garden—that invites you to stay a while. Another major difference lies in the pacing. Traditional romances can sometimes rush through the development of relationships to get to the 'big moment.' In cozy fantasy, everything unfolds more slowly, allowing readers to savor the emotions, the tension, and the growth of the characters. You not only root for the couple, but you also fall in love with their surroundings. It's a delightful escape into a world where love is woven with magic, and that’s perhaps the biggest charm of cozy fantasy romance.

Romantic films that capture the essence of fall often have this cozy, intimate vibe that feels just right as the leaves change. One film that springs to mind is 'When Harry Met Sally.' The charm lies in its witty dialogue and the journey of friendship blossoming into romance. Set against a backdrop of fall in New York City, those beautiful autumn scenes of Central Park are just breathtaking! The dynamic between Harry and Sally is relatable, and their evolving relationship perfectly mirrors those changes in nature around them. Another lovely pick is 'Pride and Prejudice.' Even though it’s not traditionally about autumn, the mood it sets feels so fitting for fall with its stunning visuals of the English countryside and the weary, yet romantic atmosphere. Watching Elizabeth Bennett and Mr. Darcy navigate their complex feelings amidst the dropping leaves and cooling air adds a deeper layer of emotion to their story. The tension and release throughout the seasons parallel the ups and downs of their romance in such a delightful way. Then there's 'Autumn in New York'—a film that literally carries fall in its title! The beautiful scenes of New York and the intense romance between Richard Gere and Winona Ryder are so evocative. There's a kind of bittersweet magic about a love story set during a season known for change and transition, mirroring their experiences. The way fall creates this canvas of deep colors and emotional reflections really makes the romance stand out. Each of these films, in their own unique ways, captures the warmth and melancholy of love as it coincides with the lovely transformations of the fall season. It’s hard not to get swept up in that feeling of connection and nostalgia during this time of year!

Fall romances often bring a cozy atmosphere filled with warmth and nostalgia. One prominent theme in these stories is transformation—characters frequently undergo emotional or personal growth. For instance, think about 'Your Name.'; the exchange of body and soul between the two main characters reveals their hidden desires and past traumas, leading to a deeper understanding of themselves. Romantic stories set during autumn also play with the idea of fleeting moments. The falling leaves and shorter days symbolize how love, like the seasons, can be both beautiful and ephemeral. This theme resonates in stories like 'Toradora!', where relationships blossom against the backdrop of a fleeting school year, reminding us that not all love lasts, but its impact can be profound. Another theme that pervades popular fall romances is the aspect of connection. Characters often come together in unexpected ways—like strangers meeting at a coffee shop or old friends reuniting during a school festival. In 'Fruits Basket', we see Tohru’s connection with the Sohma family grow through shared experiences and challenges, reflecting how love can build through camaraderie and understanding. Additionally, food often symbolizes love in these tales. Fall brings in harvest season and comforting treats. Stories like 'Kimi ni Todoke' emphasize shared meals as bonding experiences, highlighting how characters connect through their cultural legacies and home-cooked meals, symbolizing warmth and security. Lastly, the theme of new beginnings and second chances is prevalent in autumn romances. This aligns perfectly with the season itself, as it serves as a transition before winter, a time for reflection and letting go. Take 'Clannad: After Story'; it showcases how characters face their past while looking toward a hopeful future. These narratives emphasize that love can re-emerge even after heartache, reminding us that life is cyclical, much like the changing seasons.

I got totally hooked the moment I stumbled into this bit in 'Baldur's Gate 3' — the Iron Throne location in Act 2 practically screams stealthy rooftop shenanigans and shady deals. In plain terms: you find it in Baldur's Gate proper, down in the Lower City near the docks/harbor area. The Iron Throne's spot is tucked into a large warehouse/office building on the waterfront side; it’s the kind of place that looks innocuous from the street but has a lot going on once you get inside. Getting there usually means threading through alleys or dropping into the sewers that feed up into the Lower City. If you like sneaking, you can approach on the rooftops and pick a window or an unlocked hatch. If you prefer blunt force, there’s a front entrance with guards and potential negotiation routes if you want to avoid a full brawl. Once inside you’ll run into guards, a few locked doors and one or two nice loot opportunities — lockpicks, containers, and a named office that serves as the heart of the Iron Throne presence. I love how the design rewards different playstyles: if you’re curious, take high Perception and a thief companion; if you’re loud, bring companions who can start a fight and deal with reinforcements. Either way, it feels like one of those classic city infiltration beats that makes Act 2 click for me, and I always leave grinning if I got to the loot or had a clever dialogue trick up my sleeve.

I get a little giddy thinking about nobles and backstabbing, so here’s my long-winded take: in 'Baldur\'s Gate 3' the companions who could plausibly lay claim to the Iron Throne are the ones with a mix of ambition, a power base, and the right story beats. Astarion is an obvious candidate — charming, ruthless, and used to aristocratic games. If you steer him toward embracing his vampiric heritage and cut a deal with the right factions, he has the personality to seize power and keep it. Shadowheart is less flashy but quietly dangerous. She has divine connections and secrets that could be leveraged into political control; with the right choices she could become a puppet-master ruler, using shadow and faith to consolidate authority. Lae\'zel brings the military muscle and uncompromising will; she wouldn\'t rule like a courtly monarch, but she could conquer and command — and the Githyanki angle gives her an outside force to back her. Gale or Wyll could plausibly become civic leaders rather than tyrants: Gale with arcane legitimacy and scholarly prestige, Wyll with heroic popularity among the people. Karlach and Halsin are less likely to seek the throne for themselves — Karlach values her friends and freedom, Halsin values nature — but both could become kingmakers or stabilizing regents if events push them that way. Minthara, if she\'s in your party or you ally with her, is a darker path: a full-blown power grab that can place a ruthless commander on the seat. This isn\'t a mechanical checklist so much as a roleplay spectrum: pick the companion whose motives and methods match the kind of rulership you want, nudge the story toward alliances and betrayals that give them the leverage, and you can plausibly crown anyone with enough ambition and backing. My favorite would still be Astarion on a gilded, scheming throne — deliciously chaotic.