What Books Are Similar To 'You'Ll Miss Me When I'M Gone'?

I’ve read recently – with much pleasure – The Pisces by Melissa Broder. As I said earlier, Notes on Heartbreak is a deeply emotional read and whilst The Pisces is a vastly different book, it also deals with the depths of heartbreak and the journey of the person left to pick up the pieces after. The book is wild and crazy and at times surreal, but it’s also very real and is a very humorous take on the typical heartbreak stories that we read about. Annie Lord is another author who tackles tough subject matters with honesty and Unflinching courage in her writing. For an even more twisted take on relationships, you have to read Exciting Times by Naoise Dolan. The book is a smart and quirky dissection of the stresses of dating in your 30s and follows a protagonist as conflicted and as stuck in limbo as the narrator of Notes on Heartbreak. It’s fun and often laugh-out-loud and the dry humor has got me reading passages aloud to my flatmates to get their take. Even more, though, it’s good to have this sort of relatable take on a series of relationships, whole from the really bad to the just plain stumped. If you are looking for something a little more lyrical but equally painful, I highly recommend Graham Greene’s classic The End of the Affair. The story is of a man whose obsessive love of a woman that ended in an affair culminates in her unexpected death, and in the years that follow, he struggles with his jealousy, anger and conflicts with his Christian faith. As with Notes on Heartbreak, the novel is intense and leaves its reader shaken. It is a stunning exploration of love, and is written with incredible precision and beauty. Finally, I picked How to Love a Jamaican by Alexia Arthurs because it’s different but also explores themes of love. This is a collection of short stories that follow a variety of characters, all dealing with love and relationships in different ways, from identities of families and cultures to how people are dealing with being diasporic. I find that this book is similar to Notes on Heartbreak in that the emotional range of the stories goes from extreme love to extreme hate, and in between there is a lot of love and it is so beautiful and relatable that it will make you feel all the emotions and hopefully see a little bit of yourself in the characters. Like with Notes on Heartbreak, reading How to Love a Jamaican will leave you feeling wrecked but better in the end.

You might have hidden it accidentally. Some library software has a ‘Hide’ or ‘Remove from View’ option which removes a book from view in your library list but doesn’t actually delete the book. You can look for a ‘View Hidden Items’ or ‘Archived’ option in your library settings. On the Nook app for example, you can have to go into ‘Filter by’ and select ‘All’ from the filter icon instead of ‘Downloaded’. Also check if you have any searches or filters active and if you searched for something before and didn’t clear it, the library may be showing results of that search only. The screens are so small it’s easy to hit the wrong thing by mistake, which is why I can spend hours trawling through my collection thinking that a particular book has disappeared when in fact it’s been hidden by my own mistake. The apps’ user interfaces are beautifully designed but for functionality they fall short on many occasions. Check all the tabs and screens within your library settings for your missing book, I guarantee you’ll find it after hours of searching!

Sometimes you can find similar things in totally different media. The podcast “Scene on Radio” had a series of episodes called “Seeing White”, a really in depth and philosophical exploration of the construction of whiteness. For me, those episodes of “Scene on Radio” had the same feeling of having a hidden mechanism of society explained as the Soyinka poem. Or the song “Strange Fruit” by Billie Holiday, a really powerful and lyrical song about lynching that uses the poetic imagery to force the listener to look at the atrocity described in the song. The strategies of art to expose uncomfortable truths are different in these cases, but the end is the same. So don’t limit yourself to books on the topic. Follow the feeling to music, to podcasts, to documentaries on the subject.

The fanfiction world is full of amazing novel-length stories, including many that are coffee shop AUs or artist AUs of existing characters. I talked about building a small business and slow-burn romance in those. You can find a lot of these stories on sites like Archive of Our Own. They have lots of filters, so you can search for your favorite fandom and then add tags like ‘fluff’ or ‘slice of life’ or ‘bakery AU’ or ‘bookshop AU’. I find some of the best character-driven, low-conflict storytelling on Archive of Our Own, and it’s all free.

For readers who fell for the unapologetic messiness of Sour Heart, a new-to-you book might be Freshwater by Akwaeke Emezi, a wild ride that follows a Nigerian woman who is host to multiple spirits. Although immigrant-centric in theme, the book’s fragmented, visceral prose and its exploration of a disjointed identity are going to speak to fans of Zhang’s unflinching work. Also recommended is The Book of Joan by Lidia Yuknavitch, a dystopian novel written in raw, bodily prose by a fierce rebel of a writer. Zhang’s book isn’t easily matchable, but these two are offbeat enough to feel like kindred spirits.

Most references to missing books of the Bible are couched in terms that suggest that at some point in history the church either censored the Bible or even corrupted it. While this is how many people understand the situation of the so-called Apocryphal books (the so-called deuterocanonical books) not all scholars understand the situation in the same way. The KJV translators worked from a canon that had been previously established, even if that establishment was long and contentious in the early centuries of the church. When the KJV translators were picking and choosing what books to include in their translation they worked from a defined list of twenty-seven New Testament books as determined by the 16th-century Protestant reformers. The Apocryphal books, those considered to be outside of the canon, were the object of suspicion for centuries before the KJV was translated. Jerome even had reservations about including some of them in the Vulgate. In the end, the KJV is merely a snapshot in time of the on-going discussion of the early Christian church regarding the boundaries of Scripture. There was no stealing of books in the dead of night, only a long publicly-debated process of the church working out its theological convictions.

Every Last Word by Tamara Ireland Stone is another amazing story of mental health and finding your people, all in a really moving way. Another book that deals with personal struggles in the face of really big issues for society is The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas. While very different from It Happens All the Time in terms of story, the personal struggles are balanced with the bigger issues of the story in a really similar way to this book. If you want something with a little bit of a thriller twist, Sadie by Courtney Summers is amazing. It’s part of mystery and part of podcast, basically a heart breaking story of a girl and her experience with trauma and how she deals with it. I Have Lost My Way by Gayle Forman is also a great book and very similar to the emotional depth that it provides to its readers. It’s about three strangers whose lives intersect with each other in unexpected ways. Together, these books can evoke emotions of anger, sadness, and hope.

Otaku no Video is an older OVA that is sort of a documentary on the rise of the “otaku king.” Of course it would be all celebratory towards the end, but the “interviews” with live-action, 80s-shaded “real” otaku in the thing have that same cringeworthy, uncompromising authenticity that was the hallmark of Dorkin’s comic. The stories that make up the main body of the thing are sort of triumphant in hindsight, but the general take is that the main character’s an obsessive outcast, and the thing looks like a sort of time capsule of Eltingville-style intense fandom viewed by outsiders with revulsion and disgust.

'The Institute' by King is a children facing extreme horror story, albeit without Pennywise. It’s interesting to note how a group of kids can form relationships under duress, much like the Losers Club. The children in the story are simply laboratory subjects, and how the system can attempt to break their spirits is real and deadly. That fire extinguisher from Chapter 1 still haunts me to this day, months after I read the book.

He may also find similar work from writers from the same geographic literary circles. From the “Southern fiction” section of an independent bookstore, for example, the stories of Ron Rash (Serena, The Cove) or Wiley Cash’s A Land More Kind Than Home (a small-town mystery involving a crime and a disturbed family member) offer a darker and more literate take on similar subject matter. Often, the best “similar” work comes from the mainstream’s vernacular rather than its current bestseller.