Is How Not To Hate Your Husband After Kids A Good Novel?

What a neat bit of film trivia to dig into — the score for the Swedish film 'Men Who Hate Women' was composed by Jacob Groth. He’s the guy behind the moody, Nordic string textures and the chilly, minimalist cues that give that movie its distinctive atmosphere. The film is the Swedish adaptation of Stieg Larsson's novel, released under the original title 'Män som hatar kvinnor' in 2009, and Groth’s music really leans into the bleak Scandinavian vibe while still supporting the thriller’s tension. I’ve always loved how Groth balances melody and ambience: there are moments that feel classically cinematic and others that are almost ambient soundscapes, which suit the book’s cold, investigative mood. If you’re comparing versions, it’s worth noting that the 2011 American remake, titled 'The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo', went a completely different direction — that score was created by Trent Reznor and Atticus Ross, and it’s much more industrial and electronic. I often listen to Groth when I want something more orchestral and melancholic, and Reznor/Ross when I want a darker, edgier soundtrack. All in all, Jacob Groth’s music for 'Men Who Hate Women' captures that Nordic melancholy in a way that still lingers with me — it’s a score I reach for when I want to revisit that cold, rain-slick world on a quiet evening.

Wildly enough, the way Laura Ingraham met her husband feels like something out of a quietly memorable evening rather than a headline-grabbing meet-cute. From what I’ve read and heard pieced together from profiles and interviews, it was a simple introduction at a social gathering in Washington — a dinner or small party hosted by mutual friends where conversation naturally drifted toward shared interests. They apparently hit it off over talk, not spectacle: politics and books and the kind of things that keep people talking late into the night. They took things private after that initial spark. The early days, at least in public accounts, weren’t a media circus; instead it was a gradual, low-key courtship. That privacy makes sense — she’s spent a lot of her career in the spotlight and seems to value keeping personal life away from the cameras. Over time the relationship deepened, they married, and chose to navigate public life with intentional discretion. I like picturing that first evening: two people introduced by friends, connecting over conversation rather than dramatic gestures. For all the noise around public figures, sometimes the most lasting relationships begin in very ordinary ways, and that groundedness is oddly comforting to me.

Quick take: Yolo nail polish brands that are marketed for kids usually advertise themselves as 'non-toxic' and water-based, but that label isn't a guarantee of being completely risk-free. In my experience with kiddie craft nights and the occasional at-home manicure session with my niece, the big safety wins are what the product leaves out — things like toluene, formaldehyde, and dibutyl phthalate (DBP) are the usual red flags in adult polishes that many kid-focused ones avoid. Water-based formulations cut down on solvent fumes, which is great for tiny lungs and cluttered living rooms. That said, 'non-toxic' can be vague. Kids are notorious for putting everything in their mouths, and if a bottle spills or a child ingests a mouthful of polish, it can upset their stomach or cause irritation. Skin reactions are possible too, especially with sensitive skin or if there's an allergy to an ingredient or to the glitter/adhesive used. My rule of thumb: read the ingredient list, do a small patch test on the inner wrist or behind the ear, supervise the whole time, and keep polish and remover out of reach. If someone swallows a significant amount or shows dizziness, vomiting, or breathing trouble, I don't hesitate to call poison control; in the US the number is 1-800-222-1222. Practical tips I use: choose clearly labeled water-based or 'peel-off' kid formulas, ventilate the room, use minimal coats, avoid glitter that flakes off, and never let toddlers handle bottles alone. For very young kids I often skip polish altogether and go for stickers or temporary tattoos — they get the fun without the risk. Overall, these products tend to be low-risk when used sensibly, but respect the label and supervise, and you'll sleep easier.

Back in the summer of 2013 I had the radio on more than usual, partly to hear her voice and partly because everyone kept mentioning the wedding — yes, Edith Bowman tied the knot with her long-term partner Tom Smith in July 2013. I remember the online chatter: a low-key celebration, lots of warm messages from colleagues, and that feeling fans get when someone you’ve followed for years reaches a happy milestone. I was that person who clipped the magazine piece and saved screenshots of congratulatory tweets, partly because she’d been such a constant on the airwaves. That July wedding felt like a nice, private moment for two people who’d lived much of their lives in the public eye. It made me smile then, and it still does now whenever I hear her name on the schedule — glad they found their day of peace amid busy careers.

I get drawn into celebrity social feeds way too easily, and with Edith Bowman I'm pretty protective of how she keeps her private life private. From what I've seen, her husband does pop up now and then on her Instagram and in stories, but it's extremely low-key — usually a blurred-in-the-background smile, a holiday snap where faces are half-turned, or a warm family moment she clearly chose to share. She seems to pick her moments deliberately rather than turning her relationship into daily content. I really appreciate that balance. It feels respectful: fans get glimpses that humanize her, while the couple keeps most intimate stuff offline. That approach matches what a lot of public-facing people do when they want to have a normal home life alongside a visible career. Personally, I enjoy the occasional candid she posts; it makes social media feel more real without oversharing, and I like seeing that gentle boundary she maintains.

Grab a pencil and a scrap of paper — I like starting super small and simple. Begin by drawing a circle for the head and an oval for the body; that tiny scaffold will make everything else feel doable. Put a light guideline across the head so the eyes sit evenly, then add a small sideways oval or rectangle for the snout. For ears, use triangles or floppy rounded shapes depending on the breed you want. Legs are just long rectangles or cylinders, and the tail is a curved line or a tapered teardrop. Keep your lines loose and faint at first — these are guides, not the final lines. Next, connect and refine. Turn the head circle into a dog’s face by drawing the snout out from the circle and placing a little triangular nose at the tip. Add two dots or rounded eyes on the guideline and a smiling mouth line under the snout. Join the head and body with simple neck curves, then shape the legs by adding little ovals for paws. Erase extra construction lines and redraw the silhouette smoother. Practice proportions: for a cartoon puppy, make the head almost as big as the body; for a lanky adult dog, lengthen the body and legs. I like to practice by doing quick drills: sketch twenty tiny dogs in ten minutes using only circle, oval, rectangle rules, change ear and tail types, then pick one and flesh it out with fur lines and shading. Try different postures — sitting, running, sleeping — by rotating those basic shapes. It keeps things fun, and I always feel proud when a goofy little shape actually looks like a dog at the end.

I dug into this because her story stuck with me from 'In Order to Live' and a bunch of talks she’s given over the years. From what I’ve seen, her husband has been supportive publicly — liking posts, appearing beside her at some events, and offering encouragement in interviews — but he hasn’t been the one retelling the escape in detail. Yeonmi herself is the primary narrator: her book, speeches, and interviews are where the full escape account lives. There have been rounds of media scrutiny and fact-checking about specific elements of her story, and during those moments people close to her have offered backing. That backing tends to look like public statements of support rather than a separate, independent walk-through of the crossing, the trafficking, or the time in China and Mongolia. If you want the full timeline and emotional weight, Yeonmi’s own interviews and written work are still the place to go. Personally, I find it meaningful that she carries that narrative forward herself — it feels honest when survivors take the lead in telling their own history.

Try this simple grid trick I use when I'm doodling with younger kids — it makes proportions feel less scary and more like a puzzle. Start by drawing a tall rectangle about twice as tall as it is wide. Divide it into four horizontal bands. The top band is ear space, the second is head, the third is body, and the bottom is feet. That way the ears get emphasized without overwhelming the whole figure. For the head, I make an oval that fills most of the second band, and then add a smaller oval for the snout that pokes into the third band. Eyes sit halfway down the face, pretty wide and round; the cheeks are chunky, which is a big part of that bunny charm. The ears should be nearly as tall as the top two bands combined — long and slightly tapered. Hands are mitten-like, larger than you'd expect, and feet are chunky ovals about half the height of the bottom band. If I want an even simpler kid-friendly version, I shrink the body to one band and make the head closer to half of the total height to get a cute, chibi vibe. I always tell kids to exaggerate ears and cheeks — those are the features that sell the bunny personality for quick sketches.