Don't forget the novellas! 'The Christmas Promise' and others are shorter, holiday-themed stories. If it's near December, starting with a Christmas novella is a perfect, low-commitment trial. They contain all his hallmarks—love, loss, redemption—in a condensed, festive package. If you enjoy it, you'll know you're ready for the full-length novels. If not, you've only invested an afternoon.
Honestly, the library's website just has them listed alphabetically. That's how I've been picking them. Started with 'A Bend in the Road,' then 'Dear John.' It's as good a system as any. Sometimes you just have to embrace the chaos of chance. The stories are self-contained, so there's no penalty for random selection. It's oddly liberating. Throw a dart at the list. Let the universe (or the library catalog) decide your next heartstring tug. This method removes all pressure to optimize the experience. The right book finds you at the right time.
Okay, here's a theory: they're all stories being told on the porch of the same retirement home. Noah Calhoun is old in 'The Notebook', right? Maybe he overheard these other stories from his neighbors. Totally unfounded, but a fun headcanon to make them connect in a 'Canterbury Tales' way.
I'm just sitting here trying to remember which one had the cello player. Or was it a violin? See, this is my problem. After a while, the plots and professions of the protagonists just merge together because they came out so regularly. The timeline is clear, but the emotional landmarks of each book get foggy unless it was one of the huge movie ones.