“Should we go? I don’t want to keep you any longer” Gabriel says standing he takes a large gulp of the rest of his drink. I look at him a little confused, his emotions switch up so much he’s starting to give me whiplash. He walks behind my chair and gently pulls it out gently as I stand up, I reach for my purse and stand next to him. I lean back so I can see his face and I am instantly reminded of how tall this man is. I am wearing the tallest stilettos I own and they are tall and he still makes me look tiny. My eyes go from his eyes to his mouth and for a moment I want to kiss him and I can tell he’s waiting for me to but I chicken out.
“I should go, if I want to function at work tomorrow,” I say more to myself than to him. Being around him is confusing to say the least but I like his vibe, there’s something about being around him that makes sense to me. Right here standing next to him I suddenly understand what he meant when he said he’s drawn to me. I can feel the light zap of electricity between us but deep down I know stuff like this never works. It feels good and the idea of it is intriguing and exciting even but it never works. There is just so many things to consider that it’s not worth even getting into. Even for a night.
He smiles and shakes his head slightly as if clearing his head. I smile back at him because when he smiles I want to smile too. He offers me his hand and I look at it and then at him for a short moment. He waits saying nothing and I look back at his hand and place mine in his. Then he starts walking in front of me and we make our way through the tables filled with people. He occasionally looks back at me to see if I’m alright. At one moment I see him looking at my feet, at the stilettos I am wearing. I want to tell him I’m alright, I can run a mile in these things but I don’t; all I do is smile and hope he takes that as a sign that I’m okay. We make our way to the front of the restaurant and he stops in front of the cash register and hands the attendee his card.
“You good?” he says to me while we wait. I nod and say nothing further. After he’s done paying the bill he offers me his hand again and we walk out of the restaurant.
“Where are you parked?” He asks when we step out into the cool night. I point to the right in the parking lot and we start walking in that general direction in silence. I look up at the stars. I haven’t been out past 7 in so long I had forgotten how magical the night can be. Tonight the stars are out shining brightly, which is odd because in Gauteng the stars are never this bright. Too many street lights, cars and pollution but today the stars are bright.
“What a beautiful night,” I say out loud and his hand tightens around mine but he says nothing. His touch says so much it scares me that I can feel that much from him. I push away my thoughts and start walking in the direction of my car, I let go of his hand and start fishing for my car keys in my purse. I find them unlock my car and walk to the door. I open it and place my purse on the seat, I turn around and look up at him.
“Thank you for allowing me to spend time with you, doubts and all,” he says smiling.
“I’m glad I came, I had fun and I needed to get out so thank you for inviting me,” I say smiling back at him, his contagious smiling doing its magic again.
“It was my pleasure and thank you for trusting me; it means a lot,” he says as he leans in for a hug, I hug him back. We stay like that for a minute and say nothing. Then he let’s go and steps back, I turn open my car door get in and then open the window . He steps closer, and closes the door.
“Goodbye for now,” he says and steps back, I start the car, put my seat belt on, and put the car in reverse. I drive away feeling so torn, I don’t want to leave but I know I have to. How can I feel such a connection to him? I don’t know him. I just know him as Gabe, Zan’s childhood friend. He was always that guy who came to our house and never spoke to his best friend’s kid sisters. I was never on his radar, I was always too young to hang out with the older kids anyway. I played alone and the older I got I found my own way alone. So this is all so confusing for me. Not so much that he’s interested in me but the fact that spending a few hours with him over drinks makes me feel like I have been missing so much by not spending time with him.
I think I have a problem, I need to speak to someone. I don’t attach to people and I can feel myself attaching to a man I don’t know. I instantly decide to stay away from him, I was brave tonight and had a night to remember and nothing happened. He didn’t even touch me. That is confusing even more but I want nothing further from him. I hate doing that to people but for my sanity and well-being I’ll tell him I don’t want to see him anymore and he’ll understand. He’s a big boy he’ll be fine and I’m a big girl I know what’s best for me.
“I’m not seeing him again,” I say out loud so I can hear it
One year later “Gabriel what do you have planned tonight?” I ask my husband when he leads me into the garden in my pyjamas. It’s a Friday night and in our household, it means an adventure is due. We work hard during the week so that we can take time out on the weekends and have fun. We’ve been having these epic weekends since the day we got married. Gabriel and I have taking turns planning incredible dates. It can be a weekend long affair or just one night. As long as we show the love we have for each other; we have created so many memories together. It feesl like I’m living s dream. Gabriel is the ultimate romantic, he comes up with these incredible and thoughtful dates. I’m good at planning a great night but this man takes my breath away every time. Sometimes it’s not even about what we do, he has a knack for knowing what I need at the right moment. “I thought we would have a simple night in. I heard that tonight would be a good night to stargaze.” He says leading me into the gar
“Ryan baby, wake up.” Gabriel says kissing me. I slowly come out of sleep. I blink looking at him confused. He’s sitting next to me on the bed. He’s fully dressed in sweats and t-shirt. Why isn’t he naked? We went to sleep butt naked last night.“What time is it?”I ask looking out the window, it’s still dark. Am I missing something? Today is Sunday, we have nowhere to go. So why do we need to wake up early?“5:59.” He says touching my face softly. I lean into his touch closing my eyes, feeling sleep come back slowly. I don’t want to get out of bed, it’s so comfortable here.“I want to show you something.” He says and I groan. Can’t it wait? I don’t want to go anywhere.“Right now?” I ask and he chuckles softly, I open my eyes looking at him. He’s not budging; he really wants me to get out of bed. I sit up slowly and stretch. He looks at my nak
Johannesburg “You look incredible.” Says to me as we walk into a dinner party hosted at the Levelthree in Joburg. He asked me to be his plus one tonight and I had to come through for my man. It’s a networking event for South Africa’s most rich and influential. The event is hosted by one of Gabriel’s friend a young business woman named Maite, she owns one of the biggest beauty brands in South Africa.I am obsessed with her, she has one of the most incredible minds. She started her beauty business out of her university dorm and now she is one of the richest women in Africa. My mind is blown being here; I am doing my best to contain my excitement. Maite is legendary and I feel so grateful for Gabriel, he’s the reason I’m here.On a normal day I could have gotten a ticket to get in here and interact with the people here at arm’s length but being here with him is so much
I spent the whole morning with Gabriel’s parents. His father gave me a tour of the whole farm; we spent the morning going through his daily chores. Gabriel had a full day of work so I had to do my own thing today. His dad was more than happy to spend the day with me. I got to see what it really takes to run a fully functioning farm.It’s amazing to see where Gabriel gets his work ethic. They both love what they do, they treat their employees with so much respect and they are always so eager to share information with others. I enjoyed my time with him, he’s a cool dude.Now I’m making lunch with his mom. She’s her husband’s complete opposite, where he’s talkative and smiley. She’s quiet and reserved. Now that I spent more than a few hours with his parents I can tell Gabriel us the perfect blend of the two of them. He took his father’s work ethic and commanding presence and his mother’s calm. &ldqu
It’s late evening; I’m with my parents in the kitchen. My father is washing the dishes, I’m drying and my mother is putting them away. Washing the dishes is my least favourite thing to do. I should really call Gabriel tonight, I miss him. I think it’s time I went back home. I can’t spend another week without him. I’m sure he misses me too. “I have a special delivery.” Zan says when he walks into my parent’s kitchen. My parents and I turn around to look at him. He’s been gone since morning, I did wonder if he would come home tonight. He’s well known for his disappearing acts. I was worried he left without saying goodbye. I have fears that he’ll leave home and I won’t see him again. Our new found understanding is fairly new so I worry that as soon as we go back tour normal lives we’ll fall back to old habits. I know I have to be patient and trust that we can work this whole thing out but I get scared sometimes. He’s my brother and I love him. He moves away from the doorway and loo
“This place is amazing.” Zan says looking out at the view in front of us. We’re in my parent’s backyard, looking at my father’s berry field. He hasn’t been here in a long time; I first brought him here when I bought the property. It was just a field then; now it’s a fully functioning farm. He’s seeing this view for the first time; I’ve seen it so many times. But seeing the look of awe on his face makes me see appreciate it more. It’s breath taking. It really is.” I say realizing that it’s so easy to take things for granted. I realize I took our friendship for granted once. Knowing that it’s on the line right now makes me rethink everything I have in my life. When he called me a week ago to say he’s coming back home and we should meet, I was happy. This is a chance to mend broken trust. I don’t know if he’ll be open to that but when I saw him drive up today he seemed different, even now standing next to him he seems resigned. I could be jumping the gun here but I have to be hopeful.