Siapa Yang Menulis Emotional Intelligence Buku Terkemuka?

2025-10-14 15:57:57 144

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Noah
Noah
2025-10-15 08:07:30
Kalau bicara tentang buku yang sering disebut sebagai buku terobosan tentang kecerdasan emosional, nama Daniel Goleman langsung muncul di banyak percakapan. Saya pertama kali menemukan 'Emotional Intelligence' (judul lengkap dalam terjemahan sering menjadi 'Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ') di rak perpustakaan kampus, dan dari situ saya mulai melihat bagaimana ide-ide ini menempel ke hampir semua bidang — psikologi populer, manajemen, pendidikan, sampai budaya populer. Goleman bukanlah orang yang menciptakan istilah itu; yang memperkenalkan konsep kecerdasan emosional secara akademis adalah Peter Salovey dan John D. Mayer lewat artikel mereka tahun 1990. Tapi Goleman-lah yang membuat konsep itu meledak ke publik umum dengan gaya penulisan yang mudah dicerna, banyak contoh, dan koneksi ke penelitian otak, sehingga orang biasa merasa relevan dan bisa menerapkannya.

Goleman menulis dengan nada yang sangat komunikatif: dia merangkum studi-studi ilmiah, menambahkan anekdot, dan menyodorkan model seperti keterampilan pengenalan emosi, pengaturan diri, motivasi, empati, dan keterampilan sosial. Setelah 'Emotional Intelligence' muncul, saya perhatikan banyak program pelatihan di tempat kerja dan sekolah mulai menaruh fokus pada hal-hal seperti regulasi emosi, komunikasi non-reaktif, dan kepemimpinan empatik. Ada juga kritik, tentu — sebagian peneliti menganggap pembingkaian Goleman terlalu luas atau menyatukan konsep yang sebenarnya masih divergen di literatur ilmiah. Meski begitu, pengaruhnya nyata: buku itu mengubah bahasa diskusi dari sekadar 'IQ' ke spektrum kemampuan yang lebih luas.

Secara pribadi, saya suka betapa buku ini membuat topik psikologi terasa berguna sehari-hari. Setelah membaca, saya jadi lebih sering memperhatikan reaksi emosional sendiri dan orang di sekitar saya, lalu mencoba strategi sederhana untuk mengelolanya — napas sejenak, memberi nama emosi, atau bicara dengan lebih tenang saat suasana panas. Kalau kamu suka menggali lebih dalam, baca juga tulisan asli Salovey dan Mayer untuk konteks akademiknya, atau buku lanjutan Goleman seperti 'Working with Emotional Intelligence' untuk aplikasi di dunia kerja. Bagi saya buku itu tetap terasa relevan dan membuka pintu ke cara berpikir yang lebih manusiawi tentang kecerdasan.
Priscilla
Priscilla
2025-10-17 06:13:19
Nama penulis yang paling sering disebut untuk buku populer tentang kecerdasan emosional adalah Daniel Goleman. Saya biasanya kasih jawaban singkat dulu kalau sedang ngobrol santai: Goleman menulis buku berjudul 'Emotional Intelligence' yang membuat konsep itu jadi populer di kalangan umum. Kalau mau konteksnya sedikit lebih dalam, istilah 'emotional intelligence' awalnya muncul di literatur akademis oleh Peter Salovey dan John D. Mayer sekitar 1990, tapi karya Goleman pada pertengahan 1990-an yang memasyarakatkannya.

Saya pribadi cenderung merekomendasikan dua hal: baca Goleman kalau kamu ingin gambaran luas dan aplikasi praktis—dia ringan tapi berisi—dan baca jurnal Salovey & Mayer kalau kamu penasaran soal definisi dan bukti empiris awal. Kadang saya kasih dua opsi itu ke teman yang nanya; beberapa orang butuh cerita-cerita dan contoh, beberapa lagi suka bukti-demi-bukti. Buat saya, Goleman tetap menarik karena dia membuat gagasan teknis jadi terasa bermanfaat sehari-hari, dan itu yang bikin banyak orang akhirnya mau mencoba mengasah kecerdasan emosional mereka.
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