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“Tell me what you want from me.” * * * | Athena Hendrix | The Spades are the second highest ranking mafia. As daughter of the mafia's leader, Athena Hendrix is nothing less than the most skilled in the mafia. She is usually sent on solo or duo missions, her father knowing she doesn't need anyone else. | Callum H. Rivers | The youngest man to ever take over a mafia, let alone the highest ranking mafia. As leader of The Skulls, Callum H. Rivers is brutal and ruthless. With his nickname "Hades," this man kills anyone who gets in his way. | The Spades Vs. The Skulls | As two of the highest ranking mafias, these rivals reek of nothing but hatred for each other. They are enemies; nothing more, nothing less. What happens when these two meet? * * * TW: mentions of violence, self-harm, etc.

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After Five Years

"I know I don’t deserve a second chance. I know I’ve hurt you in the cruelest way. But I regret it, truly regret it. I've spent five years searching for you, hoping to atone for my mistakes. I... I still love you." My heart raced. Part of me wanted to believe him, wanted to surrender to the words I had longed for. But I couldn’t just forget how he had shattered me. "Love?" I let out a small laugh. "You’re talking about love after what you did to me? After you made me feel like nothing more than a replacement? I’ve moved past the days when I cried over you, when I questioned my self-worth just because you chose another woman. You want me back? But what if one day you find another reason to leave me?" "No!"

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Mia's Five Alphas

"Come here." His tone was extremely gentle, as if I was his most precious treasure. He tightened his grip and rubbed against my waist with one of his big hands affectionately.The heat seeping through my clothes set my body on fire."Don't resist,” he ordered as he kissed me.I closed my eyes, kissing him back, wanting more."Say you choose me…" he whispered in my ear, sending chills down my spine.I couldn’t help but tremble in desire.However, all I could do in response was push him away.“I’m sorry, but I can’t…”***Ever since Mia was born, misfortune haunted her. Nothing worked out in her life. She was desperate for a way out when two powerful and unbelievably gorgeous alphas saved her from her misery. Since then, handsome men kept popping up around her, and her problems had vanished one by one.However, was this really a dream come true, or just the beginning of a more sinister nightmare?***Mia's Five Alphas is created by A.B Elwin, an eGlobal Creative Publishing Signed Author.

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CLAIMED BY FIVE ALPHAS?

Zoe was never meant to obey. Born to power and raised in chaos, she and her notorious Shadow Gang ruled Diamond Ville with pranks, secrets, and strength. But one explosive mistake lands them in Asheville Academy—a brutal school for the supernatural elite where silver fences bite and trust is a liability. When Zoe discovers she’s fated to five powerful, unpredictable mates—each from rival packs—the stakes become deadly. Love was never part of the plan. Neither was betrayal. Now the Shadow Gang must survive training rooms that break bones, enemies who play nice with knives, and a prophecy that could end everything. Zoe’s heart might not survive five fates. But the world won’t survive what happens if she rejects them. Witty, wild, and addictive—every encounter with the Alphas is where danger kisses destiny.

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Five Years of Silence

My boyfriend's childhood sweetheart, Janine Swettenham, returned to the pack, alone and heavily pregnant. To protect her reputation, Aiden Monroe decided to mark her. I asked him in disbelief, "What about me? What about our baby?" He just shrugged and said, "Janine’s not like you. I’m the only family she has left. She can’t handle the gossip. Just wait for me. Once she has the baby, I’ll mark you." However, Aiden forgot that I don’t have any family either. While the entire pack mocked and slandered me for being pregnant out of wedlock, Aiden was by Janine’s side, holding her hand through every hospital visit. That’s when I finally understood that some favoritism didn’t need a reason. I left in fury. Then, the accident happened. I lost the baby. Broken and numb, I chose to walk away from it all. I left both him and the pack, vanishing from his world completely. Five years later, I returned, accompanying my mate on a business trip to the Silverglade Pack. Craving the taste of old memories, I went to the pack restaurant alone. I never expected to run into Aiden again. He looked at me with that same cold gaze and said, "You’ve caused enough trouble, haven’t you? The kid must be four by now. Bring him back. He can grow up alongside Janine’s child."

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Five Times Too Many

For eight years in a marriage devoid of light, I had abortions five times. Every time, Sam would grip my hand when I woke up, his eyes red, and promise to find the best doctors to help me recover. After the third miscarriage, he finally hired a team of top-tier nutritionists, ensuring that every single meal was planned perfectly. He always comforted me, "Don't worry, Penny. We're still young, so we can have another baby!" When I found out I was pregnant again, snowflakes were dancing outside my window. I wrapped my fur coat tightly around my body and rushed to the company, only to hear Wren's furious voice outside the VIP suite, "Are you insane? Those five babies were your own flesh and blood!" Sam replied coldly, "Nicole needs specimen for her experiments. All I'm doing is providing her with the materials she needs." His words dug into my heart like icy spikes, and I could even hear my own bones cracking. "As for Penelope…" He chuckled. "Do you think that our marriage certificate is the real deal?" Snowflakes stung my face like needles, and I finally found out the truth about our marriage. From the very beginning, I was nothing more than a living test subject for the woman he truly loved. Sam was right. Those unborn children never even had legal identities, and were worth less than a piece of paper, just like my so-called marriage. Glass shattered from inside the room, and I could hear Wren cursing, but I turned and walked towards the elevator. Since Sam's priority was Nicole and nothing else, I was hell-bent on making him pay the price.

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How Do The Five Love Language Show Up In Friendships?

3 Answers2025-08-24 20:41:46

I get excited whenever this topic comes up because the five love languages feel like cheat codes for making friendships actually work. For me, Words of Affirmation shows up as those little check-in messages and inside jokes — the friend who leaves a sticky note on my laptop or texts, "You’ve got this," before a presentation. It’s not grand, but it fills my tank. I notice it most when someone remembers a throwaway compliment from months ago and brings it up; it makes me feel seen.

Quality Time is the glue in my closest friendships. It’s the friend who calls just to walk together, who schedules a weekly gaming night, or who shows up early so we have that ten-minute chat before a movie. These friends value presence over presents. Receiving Gifts is less about price and more about thought: a snack from a trip, a photocopy of a comic I loved, or a playlist made for a rough week. I keep those stashes like tiny reliquaries.

Acts of Service turns up as favors — helping me move, fixing a glitch on my phone, or running errands when my schedule is chaos. It’s practical affection. Physical Touch is the one that varies most by comfort: a squeeze of the shoulder, an arm around my back in a crowded concert, or a tight hug after hard news. I pay attention to consent here and match the other person’s boundaries.

If your languages don’t match, it’s not doom. I’ve learned to ask, try small swaps, and say what I need directly. Sometimes I give a friend a handwritten note if I can’t do coffee; sometimes they text me words of praise when time is short. Little experiments taught me more than one long conversation ever did, and they changed how my friendships feel.

Can The Five Love Language Change After Marriage?

3 Answers2025-08-24 14:50:17

A few years into marriage things started feeling less like a rom-com and more like a warm, weird sitcom with unexpected plot twists — and one of the biggest twists for us was that the ways we gave and wanted love kept changing. I used to think someone's love language was a fixed label, something you find in 'The Five Love Languages' and stick on the fridge. But living with someone full-time taught me it's way more fluid: stress, job changes, a newborn, illness, or just personal growth can tilt your needs from one expression to another.

For example, when my partner was deep in a demanding job they wanted more 'quality time' — even short, focused evenings felt nourishing. After our kid arrived, words and gifts felt more meaningful because sleep-deprived parents crave small concrete reassurances. Later, during a rough patch, physical touch became a grounding thing again. I learned to pay attention to tiny cues: what they ask for, what calms them, what they praise in other people. We treated this like a silly experiment sometimes — a 'language swap' week where we tried the other's typical method — and it really revealed shifts.

If you suspect change, talk about it more than once, and in small check-ins rather than grand declarations. Keep it playful: read 'The Five Love Languages' together, but treat it as a map, not a cage. I find the most honest moments are when we admit, "I don't feel loved right now," and then try something new. It keeps marriage interesting, and frankly, gives us new material for our ongoing home sitcom.

What Gifts Suit The Five Love Language For Anniversaries?

3 Answers2025-08-24 15:52:26

When an anniversary sneaks up on me, I like to think of it as a little personality puzzle where each piece is one of the five love languages. For 'Words of Affirmation', I lean into things that can be read and reread: a handwritten letter tucked into a book they love, a framed page of my favorite lines about us, or a short book I wrote myself with quotes and tiny anecdotes. Once I once left sticky notes in the pockets of a jacket they’d just bought — silly, tiny affirmations that turned into a scavenger hunt. If they’re into media, I’ll pair the note with a copy of 'The Notebook' or a mixtape of songs with lyrics that say exactly what I mean.

For 'Acts of Service', my brain immediately goes practical and romantic at once: a home-cooked candlelit dinner where I handle the dishes, a surprise weekend where I’ve already mapped out each reservation and itinerary, or tackling a nagging chore (hello, deep-cleaning the garage) so they don’t have to. Gifts that show I’ve taken time to remove a burden matter more than flashy things. For 'Receiving Gifts', I mix meaning with delight — heirloom jewelry, a bespoke item engraved with a private joke, or even a subscription box tailored to their hobby, wrapped with a little explanation note so they know why I chose it.

'Quality Time' calls for undistracted presence: a day where phones are off, a cooking class together, or a simple picnic with a printed map of favorite spots. For 'Physical Touch', I think about cozy textures — a luxurious blanket to cuddle under, a massage appointment together, or a hand-knitted scarf. The trick is matching the gift to how they feel loved, not how I would want to be loved, and sprinkling it with things only we share — an inside joke, a remembered flower, or our song playing in the background.

How Can Therapists Use The Five Love Language With Clients?

3 Answers2025-08-24 01:54:02

There was a moment a few years back when a couple told me they loved each other but kept missing each other’s gestures — one left sticky notes, the other wanted long walks. That mismatch is the perfect place to bring in 'The Five Love Languages' as a practical, empathic tool rather than a prescriptive rulebook. I like to start by psychoeducating: explain the five languages (words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, physical touch), normalize differences, and show how they map onto attachment and communication patterns I’m already noticing in session.

From there I do a gentle assessment — a short questionnaire or a conversation-to-map exercise where each person names moments they felt most cared for. I pair that with experiments: a week of ‘acts of service swaps,’ a night of uninterrupted quality time, or writing a one-paragraph affirmation to practice words of affirmation. Homework is concrete: track what felt authentic, what felt performative, and how the receiver actually experienced it. I also weave it into other approaches I use: cognitive reframing when someone feels unappreciated, behavioral activation for consistent acts of service, or emotion-focused processing when a touch triggers past trauma.

I’m careful about limits — physical touch always needs clear consent and safety checks; gifts can create expectations; socioeconomic context matters. For single clients I explore missed childhood messages and rebuild an internal ‘affection bank.’ For parents, I translate languages into age-appropriate practices (extra lap time for toddlers, verbal praise for teens). The goal I hold is simple: make love languages a shared vocabulary, a set of low-risk experiments, and a way to practice noticing and asking for needs rather than a checklist that creates shame.

Are The Five Love Language Valid Across Cultures?

3 Answers2025-08-24 20:08:10

The way I see it, the five love languages — as popularized in 'The Five Love Languages' — have a kind of intuitive truth, but they don’t land the same way everywhere. I grew up in a household where gestures and shared chores said more than compliments, and later when I traveled I noticed friends in other places interpreted affection through very different customs. In some cultures, giving gifts is a primary social currency; in others, showing up and doing a task for your extended family is the highest form of respect. So the categories (words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, physical touch) are useful shorthand, but the way they’re expressed and valued shifts with norms, history, and even religion.

From a practical angle, I find the model helpful because it nudges people to pay attention — to notice how someone lights up. Yet there are pitfalls: the framework grew from a Western counseling context and sometimes assumes individual choice over collective expectations. For example, in places where public displays of affection are taboo, physical touch might be a powerful private language rather than public; in collectivist families, 'quality time' might mean involvement of many relatives rather than one-on-one. Also research is mixed on whether people neatly fit into one language — most of us are bilingual in emotional expression.

If I had to give one friendly tip, it would be to treat the five languages as a starting vocabulary, not a grammar. Ask, observe, and translate — and remember that cultural humility matters. I still use the idea to spark conversations with pals and partners, but I always try to learn the local dialect of affection first.

How Do Parents Teach The Five Love Language To Kids?

3 Answers2025-08-24 12:24:18

I get a little excited whenever this topic comes up because it’s so practical and oddly joyful to watch kids figure out feelings. I start by paying attention—watching how my kid lights up. Is it when I sit with them while they draw? When I praise a small thing? That cue is the teaching moment. I read 'The 5 Love Languages of Children' and treated it like a toolbox: each language has its own tool and you try them out in real life. For words of affirmation I keep a little compliment jar on the counter—every day we drop a note with something specific we noticed. It sounds quaint, but hearing “I saw how you shared your crayons” becomes language practice.

For quality time I made a one-on-one ritual: fifteen minutes after dinner where phones go away and we build silly Lego scenes or read comics like 'Bone' together. For gifts I teach meaning over quantity—small, thoughtful tokens like a paperback bookmark or a pressed leaf tell them how a gift can communicate, and I involve them in making gifts for others. Acts of service get taught by modeling: I ask for help with simple chores and point out how doing things for others is love. Physical touch is the easiest and the trickiest—hugs, high-fives, shoulder squeezes, and respecting their boundaries. I narrate it for them: “I’m giving you a hug because I’m proud” so they connect the action to the feeling.

I also coach them in naming preferences: we do a little quiz with funny options and a chart on the fridge. When discipline happens, I translate consequences into love-language-safe responses (a cooling-off cuddle isn't appropriate after a meltdown, but a calm sit-together or a note of encouragement is). It’s slow and messy, but when siblings start asking, “Do you want me to help you or should I just say something nice?” that’s the tiny victory I relish more than any perfect parenting moment.

Which Books Explain The Five Love Language In Depth?

3 Answers2025-08-24 11:22:33

I still get excited when people ask about this because the original framework is so simple but surprisingly useful. If you want in-depth reading on the five love languages, start with Gary Chapman’s classic, 'The 5 Love Languages' — that book lays out the five categories (words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch) and includes the quiz and lots of practical examples. Chapman’s follow-ups are aimed at specific life stages and situations: check out 'The 5 Love Languages of Children', 'The 5 Love Languages for Singles', 'The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers', and the 'Military Edition' if that applies. Each one expands the basic ideas with age-appropriate scenarios and exercises.

If you want the concept applied outside romantic relationships, I recommend 'The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace' by Gary Chapman and Paul White — it translates the model into professional dynamics and gives actionable techniques for managers and coworkers. For more emotional depth and scientific context, read complementary books like 'Hold Me Tight' for attachment-based couples therapy and 'Attached' for attachment theory; they don’t replace Chapman but they deepen the why behind relationship needs. Also, sprinkle in a few academic articles or meta-analyses if you want to understand empirical support and criticisms — Chapman's tools are popular and practical, but researchers sometimes find mixed results about how predictive the model is.

My practical routine: take the quiz from the original book, try the suggested exercises for a month, then read one of the targeted spin-offs if you need more tailored strategies. It’s a nice combo of easy-to-use tips and deeper reading, depending on how much nuance you want.

What Movies Illustrate The Five Love Language Best?

3 Answers2025-08-24 04:08:24

Some movies just speak love in ways that line up perfectly with the five love languages, and I love pointing them out when I’m curled up with tea and a movie list. For words of affirmation, I always think of 'Good Will Hunting' — that therapy scene where Ben Affleck’s character keeps saying, "It's not your fault," is basically a masterclass in how spoken words can heal. I actually cried the first time I saw it on a rainy evening; the dialogue lands like a hug.

For quality time, it's hard to beat 'Before Sunrise'. Two people simply talking and walking for a whole night — no dramatic plot machinery, just presence. That tiny coffee shop conversation or the train station goodbye makes me want to organize a full day of uninterrupted time for someone I care about.

Acts of service shows up brilliantly in 'Amélie' — she fixes small lonelinesses with tiny, secret deeds, proving that helpfulness can be a love language all by itself. Receiving gifts is handled sweetly in 'Serendipity', where keepsakes and fate around small objects become tokens of affection. And for physical touch, I keep going back to 'Call Me By Your Name' — the tactile, sun-warmed intimacy is cinematic and aching.

If you’re making a movie night around the love languages, mix these up and watch with a friend, partner, or even alone — sometimes the way a movie whispers one of these languages back at you is a reminder of what you actually crave.

Which Jobs Match The Five Love Language For Career Satisfaction?

3 Answers2025-08-24 10:59:43

Funny thing: I used to match coworkers to tasks like a DJ matches tracks — it felt oddly romantic, but for career satisfaction. If you feel most loved when someone praises your efforts (Words of Affirmation), jobs with regular feedback loops are sweet spots. Think of roles where communication is central — editors, teachers, community managers, stand-up performers, or salespeople who get constant validation. These places give you that steady drip of recognition, and small rituals (shout-outs in meetings, review notes, glowing client emails) become fuel.

If Acts of Service lights you up, you’ll thrive where doing for others is the point. Healthcare roles, social work, event coordination, operations, and customer support give tangible, immediate payoff: you see problems solved and people relieved because of your work. The daily checklists and “I helped fix that” moments are your love language in action.

Receiving Gifts maps surprisingly well to creative industries and roles with tangible rewards: product design with prototypes, retail buyers, artisan craftspeople, or corporate roles with meaningful bonuses and swag. Bonus points go to jobs where appreciation is materialized — commission checks, signed prints, or celebratory tokens. For Quality Time, aim for mentorship-heavy or collaborative roles: research teams, film crews, therapy and coaching, or any small-studio environment where deep focus sessions and uninterrupted collaboration are standard.

Physical Touch is a delicate one in careers because boundaries matter, but it’s essential to people who feel grounded by human contact. Physical therapists, dance instructors, massage therapists, athletic coaches, and some healthcare providers give appropriate, consensual touch that’s integral to the job. Whatever your primary language, look for cultures that speak it often — and don’t be afraid to pick a side gig or volunteer role to top up what your day job lacks.

How Do The Five Love Language Affect Long-Term Relationships?

3 Answers2025-08-24 13:43:22

Some nights my partner and I will hit a weird loop where I feel looked-over and they feel nagged, and the whole thing usually comes down to how we're trying to give and receive love. I've noticed over the years that recognizing someone's primary love language — the idea behind 'The Five Love Languages' — is like finding a map in a new city. Words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch are simple labels, but they reveal why the same gesture can light one person up and leave another indifferent.

When these languages line up, relationships feel effortless: a compliment fuels connection, holding hands calms stormy afternoons, and shared chores become quiet affection. When they don't, though, resentment creeps in. I once kept doing the dishes as my partner asked, thinking acts of service were obvious love. Turns out they wanted a six-word text in the day — words — and I was missing that deposit in their emotional bank. That mismatch made small frustrations snowball into big arguments.

What helped us was making it routine to talk about needs and creating micro-habits: a two-minute appreciation note, a weekly no-phone hour, or an ordinary touch goodbye. Also, love languages shift with seasons — parenthood, illness, career changes — so check in periodically. I try to treat the languages as tools, not boxes: they help me be creative with affection and avoid assuming my way of loving is the only valid one. It doesn't fix everything, but it gives me a language to practice when words alone won't do.