Bonded to Alpha Darius
Abi Gail O
Everything else, the network, the rooms, the policies, all of it, was built on top of that single thing: someone staying, long enough, for someone else to understand that the staying was permanent.
*I want to tell you something about staying that I did not understand at the beginning, when I first chose it on a bench in the rain with a woman who had not yet decided whether to trust me.*
*Staying is not passive. I thought, at twenty-seven, that staying meant simply not leaving, being present, waiting for something to develop. I was wrong about that. Staying, properly done, is active. It is a continuous choice, made daily, sometimes hourly, to remain present for someone even when the staying is difficult, even when the person you are staying for is not yet certain they deserve the staying, even when everything in the world is pulling toward movement and urgency and the ten other things that require attention.*