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I NEED HELP
I have discovered that a lot of people need help in relationships. My pastor was no different. He wants to settle down to marry but he is yet to come to terms with reality. The reality is his fiance is dead and can never come back again. He needs to be sure of the right one to take to the altar. I was musing how to help my pastor since it was becoming clearer that I can not marry him, I'm into his life to fulfill a particular purpose. I kept on wondering how to talk to him in a strong way to change. His ministry will be destroyed by women who have no destination, no goal, no purpose. They are to pull down and crumble the plan of God. They are in biblical terms called Delilahs, Jezebels. My eyes were just opened to see he was drifting to hell unless he changes. Having seen my role properly, the next step is to strategize on how to execute it. Having a relationship with another does not necessarily translate into a marriage. You may be a special instrument in the life of such person t
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It was not an easy task we embark on. I was now seeing why God chose me for this noble task. God can use anyone and anything. I suggested we should see some of our members he had slept with to appease their anger. We met one of our deaconess, a highly respected member of the Church, a leader of the women. She welcomes us Into her house with enthusiasm. She had been a widow for three years. Her husband was a committed member before he passed away. She married at age twenty-two. She is still very young but matured spiritually to lead the women. Pastor a little bit uncomfortable, started with an apology for misleading her. "I took advantage of your vulnerability, knowing you had just lost your husband, a dear brother, and friend to me. I betrayed your love and confidence in me. Find it in your heart to forgive me, please. " The pastor apologized. The Lady, our beloved deaconess broke out in weeping, shedding tears of repentance, "You were not to be blamed, pastor, I was the one that th
THE CONVERSION THE BLACKMAIL
I knew I was pregnant for my blackmailer. As soon as I discovered that I had taken in, I informed him immediately before my dear, innocent husband arrived. I met him in his office, I mean my pastor, my blackmailer." Good morning Pastor, I'm here to inform you that I missed my period sir" He replied in his usual arrogance, "And what is that to me? " I screamed at him "I'm pregnant for you! that is the meaning. You are a father a single one at that. When I was resisting you, you ignored and vowed to destroy my marriage and I had no choice but to comply because I never want to lose my husband." He laughed and told me to get rid of him. He left in deep annoyance. I had to devise a plan on how to get my husband to sleep with me. I made sure we were able to sleep together every day for almost two weeks. Turning to the pastor, she said "I'm glad you can know that my last child is your biological daughter, get that into your skull. You wicked man, you have no conscience at all,
THE CONVERSION SEDUCTION EXPOSED
Helena was a cute little angel, nineteen years of age still in the University. She is the only child of her mother and was born out of wedlock. Her mom had spoilt her silly. In her own words, with impudent face told me, when I asked her how she got involved with her pastor said," I'm a lady that gets whatever I want. I get whoever I'm interested in, including my pastor. I do not just strike at my victim, I look for a loophole even as tiny as my little finger,".Snapping with her fingers to drive home her point. I noticed that the pastor calls me his wife when we joined his Church years back. When I grew older he continued. Clocking eighteen, my mom took me to his house for prayers because he was extremely busy in the office but he gave us another appointment, telling my mom to bring me later in the day. My mom told me to go on my own, saying that I am of age. I got there and he prayed earnestly for me. I left, but on the way, I started developing a strong desire for my pastor. So I t
THE CONVERSION KNOW YOUR PURPOSE
The clergyperson is back on track spiritually and the next job for me is to help him get a good wife. I am taking it step by step. But you, Comfort will be wondering how I get into all the stories. It is to tell you to beware of relationships. Rob is just like the pastor, going about with so many ladies and causing a lot of havoc all over the place. You need to know the purpose of your coming as one. It may not be for marriage, not necessarily. It may be that you are to help in the life of the other. Ability to recognize the reason for coming together for a relationship is important to both of you. Having listened intently to my story, think deeply and decide what you are called to do in the life of Rob."Thanks, Debbie, you sure made my day. I never knew that I will learn so much from you kid sister. You are amazing. Rob is a no-go now. I will fulfill my purpose in his life. We can never marry at all." I told Debbie. Now looking back, I felt sad inside. I needed a
THE CONVERSION HELP ME
Comfort had gotten the message, there is a purpose for her relationship with Rob. He needs Comfort's help not as a wife but as a friend. She took up the challenge, though both of them wants to be together it's not the plan of God. "His transformation is my purpose." Comfort thought to herself. Rob was tired of his wayward life. He had hurt so many ladies and he wants to change, if only Comfort would accept his proposal, then he would change. Those were his thoughts. Man proposes, but God disposes is a true statement because Gods, thoughts are not our thoughts and his ways are quite different from ours.Rob called to inform Comfort that he was coming to Nigeria to see her. Comfort wondered why he wanted it. He sounded desperate on the phone. He landed and came to see her in her sister's house. They were excited to see themselves. Rob spoke, pleading with Comfort passionately."Comfort, please I need your help, my parents gave me an ultimatum to marry. They want to hand over
THE CONVERSION THE SEARCH
Rob found it difficult to give me five decent ladies. All his life, he had always attracted rough women. He was getting agitated about getting a decent lady to marry. He said at a time, "maybe my nemesis is catching up on me. It's pretty hard, you know. Women are many but not wife material. My pastor calls them, virtuous women are rare to come by. He was on my neck for my friends but I am scared of doing that. He came to my office one day and saw one of the Secretary who greeted him politely when he asked for me. " She looked modest and well composed too. Do you know her?" Rob asked. I told him, "Rob, stop being desperate, relax and pray for the right one. I do not know her enough but she is a nice lady that was jilted recently. I do not know if she will be ready for a serious relationship". He approached the lady, and asked her out, she refused him outright and became rude in the process. I encouraged him to ignore her sauciness. She may later agree if he persisted. One day,
THE CONVERSION FINALLY
I tried persuading Paul to wait for Emily but he was so discouraged that he felt it will be of no use. He told me to forget her, but rather look for another or pick from one of his numerous ones that are eager. Though not convinced, I had no choice but to look for another one. Rob kept on pestering me that there was no more time. I was able to calm him down because I got a lady I met at thesupermarket. I bumped into the lady Eunice. She is charming. She wanted me to recommend a good toothpaste to use for herself. She asked for my opinion as to that. I chose Colgate instead of Macleans. When she was about to go, I followed her and asked for her number. I invited her to a restaurant and told Rob to meet us there. Rob excitedly came over and exchanged pleasant greetings. I quickly excused myself to go to the restroom. Rob engaged her properly. They started a friendship and we're doing very fine together. I was going to the shopping mall to get some toiletries when I saw a Jeep
THE CONVERSION HICCUPS
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