Comfort came from a humble background. Her father was a thriving farmer with many wives. Comfort’s mother was the first wife. She had four children, two male, and two female with Comfort’s father.
In those days, farmers always strive to marry several wives because of their farm. The children born to them by their numerous wives are easy labour for the farmers.It was no oddity that Comfort’s father had several wives. The mother was a petty trader, she used the sales to support what her husband gives for her children. She did her best before she gave up the ghost. Her first child was a female. Labake completed her National Certificate of Education (NCE) she got married to a good man. The couple took custody of Comfort when they lost their mum.Labake became Comfort’s second mother, Comfort was a young girl of 5 years old. She was then in primary one because she started her schooling education early. Her schooling continued in her sister’s custody. She, being a brilliant girl was always topping her class. She was very much loved by the school headmaster and the teachers of her school.Comfort was the darling of everyone. She increased in wisdom and favour with men. Labake’s husband Barry loved this young beautiful girl called, Comfort especially. He pampers her with gifts. He never wanted the girl to feel the absence of her mother. By the way, I forgot to say that Comfort’s father had died in an accident several years back. Long enough before the mother passed away. He was hit by a trailer while coming from the farm. It was a hit and run, leaving numerous wives and many children behind. It was a great thing that Barry was taking good care of comfort. People praised him, always showering him with prayers. The relatives of Labake were always exalting his wonderful virtues. He was simply amazing. Comfort later entered secondary school years later, having passed the Common Entrance Examination. Labake wanted Comfort to go to the boarding school, but Barry felt she would suffer. It is better to be a day student to continue to take very good care of her. After a long argument, Labake later submitted to her husband’s suggestion, Comfort stayed and became a day student.She goes to school every day from the house. Though a day student, she was still topping her class to the surprise of her sister Labake. Barry of course was very proud of her “you have not disappointed me at all, I am simply proud of you. If you continue like this, I will take you to the best university in this nation. Face your studies and do not follow boys. Do you understand?”Barry said in deep satisfaction at Comfort’s performance. Comfort answered, “Yes, uncle Barry”. She uttered in excitement. Uncle Barry, as Comfort used to call him decided to take all of them to a five-star restaurant called “Sweet Sensation”, to celebrate the brilliant performance of Comfort. To also motivate the girl to continue to perform well. Labake, Barry, Comfort, and her two children went to the restaurant. Sweet Sensation is one of the best restaurants in Lagos. They do have branches all over Lagos. They have assorted meals including local meals. I remembered when I went to Lagos, to visit my elder sister her husband took us to the place. When you go there, you feel satisfied. Everything was going on very well with Comfort. She was quite satisfied living with them. You may wonder why the gap between Labake and Comfort were much. That is another big story. Did I ask Comfort why the age difference? I think it is about 25 years or so.She took her time to relate all to me. Labake’s mother who was then in secondary school met the young mechanic called Adio in a chemist. Her mother had sent her to go and buy some drugs for her headache. You know women and self-medication (not good though) she rushed to the chemist asking for Panadol when she discovered that this young dashing, boy was looking at her. She quickly removed her eye, and continue with the sales boy. When she was done, she dashed out to go home. On her way home, she realized the young man had been following her. He caught up with her and pleaded to walk her home. She told him to go back because he would put her into a serious problem with her mother. He bluntly refused. They continued to go home together, he got to know her name, school, and other things. One thing led to another. They became close. It came to pass that the boy was always hanging around the girl, especially after school. He was also a secondary schoolboy living with his parents. The parents rented apartment was within the same environment. Some few blocks away. The young innocent Aduke was drawn away by her lust. She later became pregnant, Adio impregnated her. Before Aduke’s mother discovered it, it was too late. She was several months gone, how? She was hiding the pregnancy until it could no longer be hidden. Aduke’s father heard and became furious. He insisted Adio must marry his daughter. Aduke delivered a bouncing baby girl named, Labake. Adio later married Aduke, they completed their secondary school. Adio became a cocoa farmer, the occupation of his father, he inherited the cocoa farm from his dad. He became rich, thereby marrying many wives, Aduke, was established as a petty trader. Adio’s numerous wives and children became a problem. He was no longer financially stabilized to take care of all of them.Aduke became a petty trader to sustain her children with the little Adio gives. Aduke gave birth to her second child who was a boy several years later. She had another boy again with several years gap. It took some years before Comfort finally came. When Comfort was five years old in Primary one, her mother passed on. That led to Comfort coming to stay with Labake, her sister with Barry, her husband. you can now see why the age difference was much.Comfort had grown to become a beautiful young damsel. She had completed her form5 with Grade 1. She took Joint Admission Matriculation Board Examination and did very well. She was billed to read Architecture in the then University of Ife now Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) she entered the University, doing very well. Everything was okay with her until one day.One fateful day, when she clocked eighteen years, she was in the University, part three when she received a special call from Barry her sister’s husband. Barry excitedly calls her, wishing her a happy birthday. She, in turn, asked of her sister, he replied that she was doing well with the children.He said, he would be coming from Lagos to pay her a visit for her birthday celebration. Eighteen is very special. She is now an adult. Officially, she is now regarded as an adult, she can vote and can also take responsibility for herself. She is now of age. Barry continued with his lecture. Comfort did not suspect anyth
Those times were extremely tough for Comfort. The pains were excruciating. The emotional trauma. The thought that her dreams were broken into pieces by a thief who stole in deceptively to take it by force. She kept on reliving the memories in her subconscious mind. She found it very difficult to sleep. Several times she had woken up screaming in pain.Terrible nightmares followed again and again. Her friends Toyin and Kemi woke her up and demanded an explanation for her sudden fear and screaming in the night. She had also withdrawn from them and often comes out moody. She thinks a lot and had lost her laughter, vigour, liveliness. What was wrong, they demanded to know “hmmm, it is nothing girls”. “Why are you so bothered about me. I tell you it is, nothing. It is just this nightmare. " It was clear they never believed her. They knew she was hiding a lot of things from them. They eventually became tired of asking and faced their own business. There was this time Kemi was ins
Kemi lives in Ibadan, I woke up the following day to go to Ibadan to visit my friend and at least escape the “Villian” at home; I meant uncle, Barry. I packed a few clothes and took the necessary items to go with me. I was quite excited to travel. The fun on the way, buying refreshments, and seeing different sights made me glad. I love adventure and was willing to explore the city of Ibadan. It used to be the third-largest city in Africa but later became the second-largest city after Cairo in Egypt “I was going to the second-largest city in Africa”. I said to myself, Lo! and behold, I landed in the city. It was fun to see numerous people streaming up and down. There was a mixture of old and new buildings. Some of the old buildings were giving way to the new. In the ancient city full of life and activities, I got to my friend’s house. She was excited to see me. We exchanged greetings and I was taken to my room. The parents came in much later in the evening because they were business
Comfort returns to the arm of her savior. She gave it all to Jesus Christ who loved her enough to accept her messed up life. She returned to school. She also started to fellowship on campus with (NIFES) International Fellowship of Evangelical Students. She made new friends in the fellowship, It was a new life for her. She always enjoys the fellowship. The praises, prayer, and the word of God. They became healing to her spirit, soul, and body. Her academics were becoming revived too. She was assimilating very well. She was tutoring her classmates as she used to do before."I made new friends but believe me, they were all female friends". I was a bit scared of really coming close to those brothers. Once we ended the fellowship, I rushed out immediately hardly greeting any brother apart from my female friends, I moved out quickly to go to the library to read before going back to the hostel.There was a time the fellowship president noticed me and decided to engage me in
My academics were going on well. I was on top in my department. My fellowship on campus was quite interesting. I remembered a particular incidence. One of our fellowship leaders was preaching passionately to all the members in the open field. The topic was “spreading the Goodnews”. His message was quite challenging. Although he was a stammerer, he was able to calm down and his words were coherent enough for everyone to understand. His words were soft and were piercing our hearts. Our hearts were being smitten by his strong and powerful words of wisdom. Suddenly, we discovered that almost everyone was crying for neglecting sinners on campus and leaving them to live a carefree and immoral life. No one to put them to shame, no one to touch their hearts to change their ways. We were touched and were crying. Our cries cause a stir on campus, passersby were wondering what was making us cry. We could care less, the burden for lost souls had taken us over. The more he was preaching, the mor
Toyin, please wait for me, I was unusually late that day. I was undecided about the type of cloth to wear, I never knew why I was confused. Eventually, I managed to put on a red top and a white skirt, we went to the campus fellowship. They had finished praying and were singing, in fact about rounding up the songs to hand over to the coordinator for the day, who in turn would bring in the speaker, when we got in.I was ashamed of myself, that day, I love to be punctual to the fellowship I hate to be irresponsible. I call lateness irresponsibility because others would have gone ahead to serve while I would be missing, then coming late to serve God. Whatever is worth doing, is what doing well. If you serve God, serve him well. The only reason I may justify lateness is if the circumstance is genuinely beyond control. If it is sudden sickness, then I know that is beyond my control.It was a prayer meeting that day. The brother coordinating the prayers led us powerfully. The p
“Even you brother Solomon, God will judge you”. I was weeping uncontrollably, “ you a prayer band leader did this to me, with impudent face as if it is nothing, this is unfaithfulness to God and to me. God will not allow you to go scot free”. I was completely broken down, shattered, I felt betrayed. If anyone had told me brother Solomon would betray my trust and befriending another lady, I wouldn’t have agreed”.“I do not know why you felt betrayed, I never told you, I would marry you, I told you we should start a relationship, I did not say marriage did I ?” “You are wicked, you are a sadist; cunning old fool; serpent” I kept on calling him names. I left his room in great anger. I kept on asking myself all sorts of questions what have I done to deserve this ill-treatment from this deceiver? He lured into a relationship. I thought he was a very good Christian. A leader in the fellowship. Though I never wanted a relationship with him, he seduced me. I fell for it. No wonder he sai
"Maybe he is right, who will ever believe me. He is a big brother in Christ in the fellowship. Highly respected and loved. Who will ever believe me? They may even say that I wanted to blackmail him."I left the place in anger to my hostel. I stopped going to fellowship. A regular member I was, committed, dedicated but suddenly stopped. Members came to visit me but I told them that I was not feeling fine. I kept all these to myself.Luckily, after a few days, four of the converts came to greet me. After all, we have all been mentored by brother Solomon, so they came for a solidarity meeting, checking on me. I welcomed them and told them that I am getting better. I told them that there was something I'll love to share with them, they should beware of me. They gave me their attention eager to hear me. I asked them, " Did brother Solomon promise to marry you but told you not to let others know? Has he not told you that if anyone asks, you should tell them you are b