THE QUESTIONELIAN'S POVLeo turns twelve the spring the adoption paperwork reaches its final stage, something neither of us expected to still be pending after all this time, bureaucratic loose ends that apparently needed tying off even years into him being, in every way that mattered, entirely ours.The lawyer explains it over coffee one morning, something about a final hearing required before the adoption is considered fully and legally permanent in every jurisdiction, a formality more than anything, but one that requires Leo himself to be present and, if he chooses, to speak."He'll be asked if he wants to change his name," the lawyer explains. "Legally, I mean. Some children keep their birth name entirely. Some take their new family's name. Some do a combination. It's his choice, not yours, by law and by good practice both."We brought it to Leo carefully that evening."You don't have to decide anything you're not ready for," I tell him. "Whatever you choose, it doesn't change ho
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