8 Answers2025-03-20
Many people resist the changes in language used to refer to sex, but it is an area that has evolved significantly over the past hundred years. Writers from the past often used euphemism, and were often restricted by the constraints of Victorian prudishness. Today’s writer has the opposite problem: such language can seem to be affected or even silly. So writers have reverted to using straightforward language to refer to sex in order to be authentic. The expression “Dick me down” is an example of this current. It is based upon a very recent, perhaps short-lived, part of the English language and thus is of interest to historians in order to gauge whether it will be found to be a temporary phenomenon or a permanent addition to the language.
9 Answers2025-03-20
So this is either about using secrets in fiction or in online discourse, and I can imagine that the former could easily be translated to the latter, but in stories, secrets generally function as plot points of high dramatic value. They are often the moment when the reader gasps and throws their hand up over their mouth. Secrets are just pure concentrated drama. In fiction, secrets are great because they make me so angry when they are revealed in the worst possible way and then I get to be so happy when the character seeks revenge. I love to hate when an author uses secrets this way because it instantly makes me care about the character and then I’m invested in their quest for revenge.
10 Answers2025-03-20
The internet is also a reminder of the worst aspects of language. You can be admiring a cute cat playing the piano on YouTube within minutes, and then spend hours scrolling through the worst of the worst on etymology of intensely sexist Jamaican cursing. Information is power. But the worst part is that once you have learned something, you cannot “unlearn” it. This particular “word” does not serve any positive purpose. Learning it does not make one a more complete or wise individual in any way. It merely provides another term for hatred that can be added to one’s vocabulary.
This word is one of nothing but harm to most people’s lives. It adds nothing good to the lexicon of someone who learns it. All it does is further pollute the vocabulary of the mind of someone who speaks it. Sometimes I wish that things were still the way they were. Such knowledge was kept within the community that had full comprehension of its power and evil. It was not disseminated to everyone on the planet to be further watered down. Not everything needs to be a Wikipedia entry. Some words are best kept local. They should have power and consequences that are understood completely by the speaker of that word or words. Not a trivia question for the rest of the world.
11 Answers2026-07-26
The tag also contains a lot of data that could be good to look at from a statistical perspective. For example, you could track shipping trends, see how a fandom is growing, or even see how certain canon events affect a fandom. For example, if you were to look at the usage statistics for the tag “ship” on Ao3 over time, you would probably see a spike every time a new episode of a show or a new game comes out, and then a slow decline as the episode or game is finished and the fandom is left to decay. Fans and even some academics use the data from tags on sites like Ao3 to chart the activity of their own communities. The term that is used to describe elements of a story that fans of a story use to ship characters from that story turns into a data point in the sociology of online culture.
7 Answers2026-07-29
The term ‘hip pop’ sits perilously on the edge of being able to be discussed respectfully and safely on forums, and being highly likely to attract complaints of sexual explicitness. While in discussions of dance, or LGBTQ+ history for example the term would be completely safe and proper, in general forums it would need to be used with extreme caution and would be sensible to avoid it unless 100% sure of the context and the history of the person posting. From a moderation point of view it is a complete minefield and therefore it is sensible for people to avoid using it wherever possible. If you are talking about the dance form then perhaps use the more formal term ‘hip pop’ or ‘pelvic pop’ to avoid any hassle. The best way to avoid trouble on forums and similar platforms is to have a good understanding of your audience, and the site’s rules.
12 Answers2026-07-28
I have two completely different sets of search results for “cockwarming” here. No help with industrial safety, thank you very much. Cockwarming is a practice (and a tag) found in a lot of contemporary romance and explicit fanfiction. It refers to keeping the penis in the mouth, vagina or anus of one’s partner for extended periods of time without movement. The practice is intended to give the partner doing the cockwarming a feeling of deep, constant, intimate connection with their partner. This can be to show a particular dynamic between characters, to build tension in a scene, to show the vulnerability of a character, etc. It is often used in slower-burn stories that are character-focused and the resulting smut is intense in terms of emotion as well as physicality. In fact, it is one of the most popular tropes in certain circles precisely because it allows for a focus on sustained presence as opposed to other, more energetic sex practices.
4 Answers2025-05-13
This also brings to mind the business side of things. Can authors on Patreon or SubscribeStar actually make a living by writing this very specific hyper-niche content? I would wager that at the top of the pyramid there are a few who can make a living at this, but the long tail theory comes into play as well. If you are able to serve a small and very passionate audience with work that they would otherwise have no access to, they will of course pay for it because you are their only option. The economics of micro-genres can be quite surprisingly viable when there is direct support for the creator involved. It highlights again just how the digital landscape has fragmented entertainment into thousands and thousands of very viable and even profitable micro-genres that would not have seen the light of day in a physical world.
7 Answers2025-08-21
This is especially core to fanfiction and shipping. If someone is writing a meta essay that analyzes a character or story and all the inconsistencies or subtext that the authors wrote and missed, fans will say that that essay “read the writers to filth” – it holds them accountable to their own narrative, or to the expectations that fans have of them. Meta reads can be dozens of pages long and be extremely thorough with abundant citation. It’s the same as saying that the reader exposed the subject for the mess of inconsistencies that it is – the “filth” that the writers left behind.
5 Answers2026-06-04
The number 18 has so much meaning around the world – in most countries, it signals the age at which a person gets new rights and can take on new responsibilities. So when we put that number in a media tag, we imply that reading/ watching/listening to that story is an adult act – and thus we expect the reader to have the emotional/ intellectual maturity to deal with what we’re publishing. That can mean very dark stuff, or very complex stuff, or even just really explicit stuff. So when we use “18+” as slang, we’re referencing both the legal minimum age and the assumed maturity that a community grants to someone of that age to consume said content.
6 Answers2026-07-29
A tool is a tool. Write a scene of intense physical passion in which the protagonist loses fine motor skills? “Buck” her hips. It’s not a polite phrase in isolation, but it serves a useful function in a scene that is trying to move quickly. A reader reads very fast in such scenes, and your ear for your own writing must recognize that “bucked” immediately conveys to the reader a physical image and the sum of its parts: that she has lost control. It is a workhorse phrase, and in its proper context, it functions beautifully. (This is a workhorse phrase, in fact. Workhorse.)