What Is To Be Done Novel

I just finished reading 'Done and Dusted' last week, and it’s definitely a standalone novel. The story wraps up neatly by the end, with all major plotlines resolved and no lingering questions. The romance between the main characters feels complete, and there’s no hint of a sequel or spin-off. If you’re looking for a satisfying one-off read with a mix of humor and heart, this is perfect. The author does a great job of creating a self-contained world that doesn’t rely on other books. For similar standalone romances, check out 'The Love Hypothesis' or 'Beach Read'—both deliver that same all-in-one package.

I get a little thrill every time I think about this line because it feels like a tiny, hard nugget of truth dropped into the middle of chaos. In 'Macbeth' the phrase 'What's done is done' is spoken to calm and steady — it comes in Act 3 when Lady Macbeth is trying to soothe Macbeth's frayed nerves after the terrible chain of events they set in motion. At face value it simply means the past is fixed: you can't unmake an action, so dwelling on it won't change what happened. It's practical, blunt, and meant to move someone out of paralyzing regret and back into action. But the way Shakespeare uses it is deliciously complicated. For me, watching a production years ago, that line landed as both consoling and chilling. Lady Macbeth is trying to hold things together, to convince herself and her husband that they can contain the mess they've created. Yet the play then shows the slow, relentless return of conscience — sleepwalking scenes, haunted visions, and a sense that some things refuse to be brushed aside. Later she even says, 'What's done cannot be undone,' which flips the consoling tone into a tragic realization: the past won't just pass quietly; it will gnaw. So the phrase is both a coping mechanism and, ironically, an early hint of doom. I also like how the line travels out of its original context into everyday life. People use 'what's done is done' when they want to stop ruminating about a mistake — on a forum, in a text to a friend, or even in a workplace after a screw-up. But Shakespeare’s usage reminds me to be cautious: sometimes moving on is wise, and sometimes the refusal to reckon with consequences simply lets problems fester. As a reader and theater-goer, I find the tension between stoic acceptance and moral accountability to be the most interesting part. It’s a short phrase with a lot of emotional baggage, and that’s why it sticks in my head whenever I’m weighing whether to forgive myself or fix what I can.

I love that little line — it feels like folklore now, but it actually comes from William Shakespeare. He wrote the phrase in the tragedy 'Macbeth', and the line appears in Act 3, Scene 2. In the play, it’s Lady Macbeth who utters the curt comfort "What's done is done" as she tries to steady Macbeth after they’ve both been pulled into murder and its fallout. The cool part is that the phrase is meant to sound decisive, but the play later dismantles that neatness: guilt keeps rising until sleepwalking and madness, which makes the line bittersweet rather than truly consoling. If you like dates and editions, scholars date the writing of 'Macbeth' to around 1606, during the early Jacobean period — Shakespeare was writing for a court that had fresh anxieties about regicide and power after the Gunpowder Plot of 1605. The play was first collected in the First Folio of 1623, but composition and likely early performances were a decade or so earlier. I find it neat to think about a packed indoor theater in London, candlelight and all, when that throwaway sentence landed and started echoing for centuries. It’s a tiny line with huge cultural life, and whenever I read it I imagine both the stage and the quiet aftermath where the real consequences live.

I get asked this a lot when I’m helping friends with translations or when a classmate quotes Shakespeare and we all groan about universal human guilt. The most direct, commonly accepted Spanish translation of "what's done is done" is 'Lo hecho, hecho está.' It’s short, punchy, and carries that resigned finality — like closing a book because you can’t change the last chapter. You’ll also see 'Lo hecho, ya está hecho' which adds a bit more emphasis with the "ya" (already). If you want something literal that sounds more formal or literary, try 'Lo que está hecho, está hecho.' That mirrors the English structure closely and works well if you’re translating a line from 'Macbeth' or writing something solemn. For everyday speech there are idiomatic alternatives: 'No hay marcha atrás' (there’s no turning back), 'ya está hecho' (it’s already done), or the colloquial 'a lo hecho, pecho' which carries a brash sense of facing consequences. Each option changes tone — formal, consoling, or bluntly pragmatic — so pick the one that matches the emotional weight you want. I tend to choose 'Lo hecho, hecho está' when I want that classic, slightly theatrical feel. If I’m texting a friend to calm them down I’ll type 'ya está hecho, no lo puedes cambiar' because it’s softer. Little context tweaks make the phrase fit a lot of situations, and that’s what I love about translation: tiny adjustments change everything.

On rainy afternoons I find myself thinking about why some short lines travel through centuries, and 'what's done is done' is a neat little example. It comes from Shakespeare's 'Macbeth' — a line with variants that pop up in more than one place in the play — and because Shakespeare's work has been read, taught, dramatized, and quoted nonstop for four hundred years, a handful of his phrases just seep into everyday language. But it's not only longevity: the phrase nails a feeling everyone recognizes — regret mixed with resignation — in just three monosyllabic words. That combo of emotional weight and compact phrasing makes it easy to repeat. I first ran into it in high school drama class when we read 'Macbeth' and our teacher pointed out how the characters use short, sharp lines to mask panic. Since then I’ve seen the line everywhere: editorial headlines, movie dialogue, a condolence card, and the occasional pithy tweet. Each time it shows up, it’s doing the same job — closing a topic, drawing a hard line under a mistake, or helping someone accept a reality they can’t change. The phrase's rhythm is part of the magic too; it’s almost a mini-epigram. People like lines that sound like they could hang on a wall, and this one fits that bill. Beyond Shakespeare, the phrase’s spread was amplified by modern education, translations, and performance. Plays get adapted into films, lines get clipped into headlines and social posts, and those tiny echoes reinforce the phrase in public consciousness. Also, there’s a strong human need for neat moral endings or little rituals of closure — whether you’ve screwed up an exam, broken up with someone, or finished a long project, saying 'what's done is done' is a way to move on. I still find myself muttering it at the end of projects I’ve botched or messy conversations I can’t fix. It’s not profound therapy, but it’s a pocket-sized permission slip to stop obsessing and start behaving like tomorrow exists.

There’s a quiet line between fatalism and acceptance, and I like to think of them as cousins who look similar but behave very differently. For me, fatalism carries a kind of heaviness: it’s the voice that says, ‘Nothing I do matters, so why try?’ Acceptance, on the other hand, feels lighter and bracing — a clear-eyed recognition that something is true, followed by a choice about how to respond. I often notice this distinction in small things: when a train is delayed, fatalism makes me slump and stew, while acceptance lets me pull out a book or send a text, using the time rather than surrendering to it. Philosophers I’ve skimmed in late-night reading — like 'Meditations' or 'The Myth of Sisyphus' — helped me spot that difference in bigger life moments too. A few years ago a close friend lost a long-term job, and watching them shift from one mood to another taught me a lot. At first they sounded fatalistic: ‘That’s it, my career’s over.’ Weeks later, after we’d mapped out small steps, they were practicing acceptance: acknowledging the loss but also updating their resume, talking to former colleagues, and trying freelance gigs. The actions felt possible because acceptance doesn’t erase pain — it names it but doesn’t let it dictate every next move. Clinically, you can see echoes of this in techniques like radical acceptance from DBT: accept the facts of a situation without approving of them, then choose a value-aligned response. Practically, I separate the two by asking myself three quick questions: Can anything realistically change this? If yes, what small step can I take right now? If no, what’s the thing I must grieve or adapt to? Fatalism tends to shut down that second question; acceptance opens it. Tiny rituals help me shift toward acceptance — writing for ten minutes, making a plan with three micro-tasks, or telling a friend the truth about how I feel. Those rituals reintroduce agency. I don’t pretend it’s easy — sometimes I still slip into fatalistic thinking, especially when I’m tired or overwhelmed. But treating acceptance like a practice rather than an outcome has helped. If you want to try it, pick a trivial annoyance first (a canceled meetup, a spilled coffee) and experiment with the three questions. It’s surprising how often acceptance leads not to resignation, but to a clearer, calmer kind of action.

Scrolling through Twitter or a Discord server, you quickly notice that 'what's done is done' mutates like a meme—some versions are graceful, some are snarky, and a few are downright tragic-comic. There's the classic stoic line 'it is what it is' which people sling around when they want to acknowledge reality without getting into feelings. Then there are folks who prefer the old proverb 'no use crying over spilt milk'—cheekier, a little patronizing, but cozy in its folksy wisdom. I often toss a 'water under the bridge' GIF into a chat when someone brings up an old fight; it’s softer, more about forgiveness than finality. Online you also get shorthand and emotions: '¯\_(ツ)_/¯' for resigned indifference, 'F' for paying respects to irreversible mistakes, and 'we move' or 'onward and upward' for the folks who turn acceptance into momentum. Literary-minded people still quote Shakespeare's 'what's done is done' from 'Macbeth' in earnest threads, while others remix it—'what's done cannot be undone', or the legalistic 'res judicata' when the conversation tips toward final decisions. I switch between these depending on tone: a friend needs comfort? I pick 'let bygones be bygones'. Someone trolling? '¯\_(ツ)_/¯' and a meme do the trick. There's also multilingual flavor: Spanish speakers say 'lo hecho, hecho está', and Japanese chats sometimes use the proverb '覆水盆に返らず' (spilled water won't return to the bowl) for a poetic, resigned touch. I love how these variations reveal community vibes—some spaces prefer humor, some prefer stoic closure, some want the poetic. It’s fun to watch culture and platform shape the same human truth into a hundred small, distinct phrases.

I got into tattoos the same way I fall into fandoms — impulsively curious, then obsessively researching. A quick yes/no: you can absolutely use 'what's done is done' as a tattoo phrase, but whether you should is a much richer question. For me, the phrase hit different after a messy breakup and a botched move: I scribbled it on the inside of a journal page and wore a temporary decal for a week to see how it felt. It was honest, sometimes heavy, sometimes quietly freeing. That personal trial revealed a few practical things I want to pass on. First, consider what the line means to you. On one hand, it's a compact statement of acceptance — a daily nudge to stop fixating on regret and to move forward. On the other, it can sound resigned or even fatalistic if you read it as shrugging off responsibility. I like bringing up 'Macbeth' here, because Lady Macbeth's use of 'what's done is done' complicates the sentiment: acceptance doesn’t erase guilt. If you lean toward empowerment, maybe frame it visually or pair it with imagery (a phoenix, loose brushstroke) to tilt the interpretation toward growth rather than passivity. Second, think about the literal wording and punctuation. Tattoos with contractions can be tricky: apostrophes sometimes blur over time, and artists who do fine-line scripts may interpret the mark differently. I once sat with an artist who suggested the fuller 'what is done is done' for clarity, or trimming to 'done is done' for a minimalist vibe. Placement matters too — on wrists it becomes a public statement; on ribs or behind the ear it reads as a private mantra. Try it out with a temporary decal, wear it for a few weeks, and ask friends what vibe they get. Finally, personalize it. Languages, scripts, or even a line break can change everything: 'what's done is done' versus 'what's done is done' creates pauses that alter tone. If you're tempted by a foreign translation, double- and triple-check meanings and cultural context to avoid accidental appropriation or awkward phrasing. Above all, treat it like a long-term relationship: test the phrase on your body and in your life for months, then find an artist whose style aligns with the emotion you want to carry, not just a neat font online. I still like seeing mine fade a little each summer — it keeps the story living and, somehow, less finished.