How Long Has Matt Shadows Been Married To His Wife?

As a longtime Avenged Sevenfold fan, I’ve casually followed Matt and Valary’s relationship over the years. They tied the knot in 2010 after dating for a while, so they’re hitting 14 years soon. What stands out is how private they are—no oversharing on social media, just occasional glimpses of their life. It’s a rarity in today’s oversharing culture, and I respect that. Their wedding was small too, very 'them,' not some over-the-top celebrity spectacle. Valary’s Instagram is mostly her baking projects and kids, which feels oddly wholesome for a rockstar spouse. Makes me think their marriage thrives because they keep it real, not performative.

Digging into celebrity relationships isn’t usually my thing, but Matt Shadows’ marriage is an exception because it’s so… normal? Like, he and Valary have been married since 2010, and they’ve built this quiet, steady life amid the chaos of touring. They met way before Avenged Sevenfold blew up, which probably helped—she knew him as a person first, not just the stage persona. I read an old interview where Matt said she keeps him grounded, and you can tell; he’s never been part of those messy rockstar scandals. Their dynamic reminds me of those rare couples in 'Your Lie in April'—supportive but not clingy. Also, they named their son River, which is such a chill, artsy name. Makes me wonder if they bonded over manga or something.

Matt Shadows, the lead vocalist of Avenged Sevenfold, has been married to his wife Valary DiBenedetto since July 17, 2010. That means they've been together for over a decade now—pretty impressive in the rock world where relationships often fizzle out fast. I love how low-key they've kept their marriage too; no tabloid drama, just genuine partnership. They even have two kids together, which adds such a sweet layer to their story. Whenever I see fan pics of them at events, they always look so relaxed and happy, like they’ve nailed that balance between fame and family life.

What’s cool is how Valary supports Matt’s career without being overshadowed by it. She runs her own business, and they seem to respect each other’s independence. It’s refreshing compared to some celebrity couples where one person’s identity gets swallowed by the other. Their longevity gives me hope that rockstar marriages can work—if both people are willing to put in the effort. Plus, Matt’s lyrics in songs like 'So Far Away' (a tribute to their late friend The Rev) show how deeply he values connections, which probably extends to his marriage.

Matt and Valary’s 2010 wedding feels like forever ago! It’s wild how time flies—they’ve survived album cycles, parenthood, and the general madness of fame. I once saw a fan comment that their marriage 'has the vibes of a side character couple in a slice-of-life anime,' and honestly? Spot-on. No theatrics, just two people growing together. Their anniversary posts are sweet but never sappy, which I appreciate. More couples should take notes.