Should You Try Being Friends With An Ex Who Hurt You?

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Piper
Piper
2026-04-17 12:16:16
After my worst breakup, I read all those articles insisting mature adults stay friends with exes. So I forced smiles through coffee meetups while my ex 'casually' mentioned their new partner's job promotions. Big mistake. That hollow feeling in my chest wasn't fading—it was festering. Then one rainy Tuesday, I canceled our usual catch-up to binge-watch 'The Bear' with my sister instead. Best decision ever. Sometimes walking away isn't failure; it's recognizing your heart deserves better than leftovers. These days I measure friendships by how they make me feel lighter, not by some arbitrary 'should.'
Zachary
Zachary
2026-04-19 17:38:17
honestly, it's a messy emotional labyrinth. My ex and I had this intense connection, but they really shattered my trust with some shady behavior. At first, I thought staying friends would prove I was 'mature'—like, look at me, rising above the drama! But every time we hung out, I'd catch myself analyzing their texts to mutual friends or feeling my stomach knot up when they mentioned dating someone new. It wasn't friendship; it was emotional parkour. What finally clicked for me? Real friendship doesn't require you to swallow resentment like bad medicine. These days, I channel that energy into my pottery classes—less heartache, more wonky vases.

That said, I have one friend who successfully transitioned to a platonic relationship with their ex after two years of zero contact. They both did serious self-work during that gap. But unless both people are genuinely at peace—not just pretending—you're probably just keeping the wound open with nice bandaids.
Emma
Emma
2026-04-21 03:24:50
Ugh, this question hits close to home. Last year I tried the 'friends with an ex' thing after they dumped me out of the blue. We shared the same friend group, so cutting ties completely felt impossible. Bad move. Every group hangout became this exhausting performance where I'd laugh too loud at their jokes while secretly cataloging every way they'd wronged me. The final straw? They started dating someone new and kept oversharing details 'as friends.' Spoiler: I cried in a Target parking lot that night.

Here's the messy truth nobody tells you: sometimes love doesn't 'turn into' friendship—it just fizzles into awkwardness. These days I cherish my ride-or-die friends who never made me question my worth. Life's too short for emotional gray zones.
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