81 Novel Terkait dengan Setting Boundaries Quotes

Go for the person who treated you in a way you haven’t treated. We attract the same person who hurt us because it became natural for us. And we meet the someone who love us different, and treat us right, and we tend to push the person because we don’t used to that kind of treatment. If someone doesn’t respect your boundary, walk away; it’s a sign, a red flag. Do you think anger is bad? It’s a healthy one becuase you’ll be aware of your boundaries, and what to tolerate and is not. It feels better that self love is a prioritize and becoming normal.

“It’s Holiday break, Tim. My family personally wanted me to come. And besides, you’re not paying me any dime for me to prioritize it rather than my resting days. Give me a break, Tim. Let me know what you guys talked about. Thanks.” Agad niyang pinatay ang kanilang usapan. She’s kind… but doesn’t have enough patience to deal with bullshits in life. As much as possible, pinipilit niya ang sariling maging mabait. We don’t know what’s on their plate, so have to be kind at all times. But sometimes, people take advantage of those who are kind. Kaya naman nagse-set siya ng limit at boundaries.

Tuluyan ng isinuot ni Cain ang kaniyang helmet. _________________________________________________________________________ Magkasama ng naglalakad sina Zacky at Axel. Hindi nila alam kung saan ang tungo nila. "Strong woman don't have bad attitudes. They have standard, boundaries and limits. Don't be confuse." "I have boundaries, Axel. You know that."

“Wala akong pakialam kung OA ako. Basta’t ikaw ang usapan, I won’t share you.” Humagalpak siya ng tawa, pero halatang naaapektuhan. “Hindi mo kailangang mag-alala. Wala akong balak tumingin sa iba. Pero gusto ko rin na alam mong may boundaries. Hindi ako pwede basta mag-walk out sa clients.” “I know,” sagot ko. “Pero next time, kahit isang text lang. ‘Busy ako, huwag ka mag-alala.’ I won’t panic that much. Hindi 'yung parang nawala ka na lang bigla.”

“Eh di naman po ganoon ang nangyari. Nagkausap lang po kami, nag-open up lang.” “Pero basta linawin natin ito, ha. Hindi ako gusto ng ganoong eksena.” Tumango ako, naisip ko na sa mundo ni Julian, hindi pwede basta-basta ang mga bagay-bagay. May boundaries na kailangang sundin, lalo na pagdating sa personal. Pagkalabas ko ng office, napaisip ako kung gaano siya ka-protective. Hindi lang sa akin, kundi pati na rin sa mga tao sa paligid namin.

“Mahal na mahal ko siya. Hindi ko siya ipagpapalit. Lalung-lalo na sa ‘yo.” Kita ko ang pamumuo ng luha sa mga mata niya. May bahaging nakaramdam ng awa—dahil minsan din kaming may pinagsamahan—pero mas nangingibabaw ang galit at matinding pagod. At sa sandaling iyon, alam kong tama ang ginagawa ko. Kahit masakit. Kahit may masasaktan. “Respect my boundaries,” mariin kong sabi. “Kung hindi mo irerespeto ‘yan, hindi ko alam kung mapapatawad pa kita.”

“Labanan mo ako. Tumayo ka sa lugar mo. Kasi ‘yan ‘yung dahilan kung bakit ka pa rin nandito.” It should’ve sounded like a challenge. Pero hindi. Parang respeto. I exhaled. “You’re infuriating.” He smirked. “I’ve been called worse.” “I’m sure.” Tahimik. Two stubborn people, one impossible tension. Then I turned to leave. “If I’m going to keep working for you,” I said, not looking back, “then this—whatever this is—needs boundaries.” “Boundaries,” he echoed. “Understood.”

Aniya sabay yuko. "If you know the path you've chosen isn't going to be good for you, or if the future is uncertain, you may need to set a boundary to avoid being hurt badly. Setting a boundary isn't a crime; it's just like... a little prevention for you not to be drained by the agony." Payak akong ngumiti at isinandal ang likod ko sa upuan. "Nasaan ka no'ng mga panahong kailangan ko nang ganiyan advice?" Biro ko na ikina-angat ng tingin niya.

sabi niya, “hanggang saan ka handang umabot?” “Kahit saan,” sagot ko agad. “Kahit masira ang pangalan mo?” tanong niya. “Oo,” sagot ko. “Mas kaya kong mawala ang reputasyon ko kaysa sa anak ko.” Natahimik siya saglit. “Then you need to stand your ground.” “Paano?” tanong ko. “Set boundaries,” sagot niya. “Hindi mo siya pwedeng palaging saluhin. Kailangan niyang magdesisyon para sa sarili niya.”

Nabibigyan nila ito ng buhay. "I am not here to fight you," I said. She stared at me and down to the crest I was wearing. "A royalty? I see. Kaya pala malakas ang loob na maglakbay mag-isa," She said. So, most of the people here knew about us, huh? Akala ko ay hindi nila ako makikilala since nasa labas naman na sila ng boundary namin. "Hindi naman ako naghahanap ng gulo," I said.

ani ko at lumingon sya sa aking direksyon, halos nanlamig ang aking buong katawan, parang siya nga iyon. Unti unti syang lumapit sa akin at bumulong sa aking tainga at sinabing, "Wag kang pupunta sa boundary...." nagulat ako sa kanyang sinabi at biglang may malakas at nakakairitang tunog ang sumira sa paligid nang parang salamin.

Nakuha niya naman ang ibig kong sabihin dahil tumango siya sa akin. “I’m fine with it. I’ll serve you with all my might and utmost strength for one month,” maangas niyang wika, hindi pa rin mawala-wala ang ngiti sa kanyang mukha. Napabuntong hininga na lamang ako at sinubukang ikalma ang sarili. “Let’s have a rule, then. Let’s set first things first. Let’s set boundaries to avoid incidents in the near future. I have three simple rules here,” I suggested but even if he scowls at me, I will insist to set rules between us.

Anong nakakatawa? "Akala ko tulog kana?"pang-aasar niya. Hindi ko siya pinansin, nilagay ko ang isang unan ko sa pagitan naming dalawa. "Ano 'to?"tanong niya sabay turo sa unan na nakapagitan samin. Tinaasan ko siya ng kilay. "Boundary 'yan. Bawal lumagpas diyan ang kamay mo"pinandilatan ko siya ng mata saka komportableng humiga.

sige pagbigyan na ba natin ang isang ito kasi mukhang hindi naman siya gaanong maingat or maybe because lalaki nga pala siya at hindi niya kailangang mag-ingat tungkol sa mga ganitong bagay,babae palagi ang kailangang mag-ingat at maging conscious. "You are supposed to put anything in between different species so they won't get mixed"ang simple ng eksplanasyon ko pero mukhang mas hindi niya gets. "I mean ,we are not supposed to be beside each other lalo na ,we are going to sleep.That is a major no and shouldn't be happening right now but we both don't have a choice so that is the simplest thing i can think so you will know your boundary" Tzvi smiled pero pagkatapos no'n ay nakikita ko na siyang tumatawa ng medyo may kalakasan.

“But for Grade 7, kakayanin mo naman. As long as huwag mo muna silang pakitaan ng sobrang kabaitan. Set your boundaries agad.” “Like strict agad?” tanong ni Clyde. “Not necessarily strict,” sagot niya. “Pero dapat klaro sa kanila kung hanggang saan lang sila. Kapag nasanay sila na maluwag ka, mahihirapan ka nang kontrolin.” Dire-diretso ang paliwanag niya—he looked so professional. He's so cool. Para bang lecture lang ang lahat, parang wala akong kinalaman sa eksena.

She messaged him again: Thea: Thank you… Mr. Castillo. Uuwi na po ako. The dots appeared again. Pero unlike kanina, hindi ito agad nag-reply. She was already walking toward the exit when her phone vibrated. Bash: Have a safe trip home, Thea. And… Don’t be scared of the boundaries. I’m proud of you for setting them. I’ll keep my distance. Just don’t disappear. She stopped walking. As in, literal na tumigil ang mga paa niya sa mismong gitna ng lobby entrance.

Pero lalo niya lang akong hinapit, sa puntong ramdam ko na ang umbok niya sa ibaba, dumikit sa tiyan ko. Napigil ko ang hininga ko. Napatingala ako sa kanya na nagmistulang mabangis na hayop na handang lapain ako. “Sa ginagawa mo ngayon, sino ang lumalampas sa boundary?” Umangat ang sulok ng labi niya. “You’re the only one with boundaries. I have none… I can do whatever I want.” Inilapit niya sa akin ang mukha niya, parang hahalikan ako, pero bago pa lumapat ang labi niya, lumipad na ang kamay ko sa pisngi niya.

Mas bumaba ang boses nito. “I’m not trying to tell you that you were wrong.” Bahagyang natigilan si Janella. Nanatiling kalmado Vernon habang nakatingin sa kanya. “Ang sinasabi ko lang… matuto kang humawak ng tao.” “Kapag masyado silang naging malapit sa’yo, makakalimutan nila ang boundaries. At kapag may masama silang intension baka hindi mo na kayang protektahan ang sarili mo.”

“But… if I stop, won’t they think I’m selfish?” “Selfishness is different from self-respect. Setting boundaries doesn’t make you less kind. It makes you wise. Hindi mo kailangang hayaan na abusuhin ka para lang masabing mabuti kang tao. Real kindness comes with balance… you help, but you also protect yourself.” …

“You tell me to just stop? To act like nothing happened?” “Start by setting boundaries,” sagot niya. “Distance. Space. We need that.” Napangiti ako nang mahina. “So lalayo ka?” tanong ko. Hindi siya agad sumagot. “That’s the only way,” sabi niya sa wakas. Masakit. Pero expected. “Fine,” sagot ko, pilit na matatag ang boses ko. “If that’s what it takes.” Napatingin ako kay Mom.