Julie closed her eyes and gathered every ounce of courage she had “yes you do!” she demanded of Mj and noticed that the woman tucked her hands up further into her chest and had them clasped together in tight fists. “Mj you are three years old” Julie said demandingly and watched as Mj’s face contorted with the struggling memories “no I-” Julie cut Mj off “YES Mj you are three years old!” Julie waited for Mj’s body to settle before she continued to push her “Mj where is your safe place?”