Step one is admitting it. So yes, I admit I can't wait for this day to arrive.
Step two is facing it. Yes, I'm currently facing him. Not facing him like face to face but yeah, I'm standing at a corner while looking at him with his supermodel-like girlfriend.Step three is to accept it. After two weeks of harrasment from Toffer and May, I have finally accepted that I'm still not over him. Verbally, not just in my mind. Step four is to move on. So this is where it gets tricky. How do I move on if I'm still not over him? Do I listen to Toffer? Try again, get him to deflower me (urgh that word) then finally move on if it really doesn't work.But he has a girlfriend, silly."Does Eva knows you dated him before?" Charlotte asks when I'm still watching the happy couple from a distance."Not sure. Maybe not.""Yeah why should he, right? It's in the past. Everybody knows it's a bet anyway," she gives out a small laugh as I fake some, just to throw a reaction to her condensending words.Fine, he dated that chubby girl out of a bet. But we lasted 6 years, even with countless break ups in between but still, 6 years. And he fucking proposed me eight months after we broke up! He's gotta have some real feelings towards me to actually want to make me his life partner.Though he did fuck girls during our brief break ups.Yes, plural. Girls. Break ups.Sigh. I still don't understand why he never wanted to sleep with me, he didn't even make any advances or suggestions into it. Is it because I was too fat?Or he was with me just for the bet? But it's six long years! Nobody stays in a relationship that long for a bet. And nobody is 'that' out-of-their-mind to propose someone if it's just a bet."Honey," Edward, Christian's best friend as well as Charlotte's husband approaches us and calls his proud wife. He's the only reason all of us tolerate this petty proud girl."Hey, I was just chatting with virgin Mary," she giggles as I reluctantly smile. Ha. Ha. Funny. Still the mean girl from high school. That's probably why Edward is head over heels with her. She's one of the popular mean girls- pretty, sexy, and stupid."Sorry, Nina," he whispers before both of them leave. I nod, it's a pity actually for him to keep apologizing to us whenever his proud wife throws hurtful remarks.***"Okay, if let's say he breaks up with his supermodel girlfriend," Toffer puts a hand on my thigh as he manouvers the steereng, we're on our way to May's first kid birthday party, "would you ask him out for a date?""Nope.""Whyyy?" He sounds dissapointed."It's been 10 years. And last time we met, I rejected his proposal. I'm not gonna eat my shit, there's a reason for that rejection.""Because you wanted to win."I scoff hearing his matter-of-fact statement, "Because I wanted to win?""You told me yourself. He dumped you, then 8 months later when he comes back to propose you, you dumped him back. You, rejected him, because you wanted to win.""No," I shove his hand off my lap, not wanting to have any skin contact with him. He's throwing accusations again regarding my relationship with Christian.Christian and I met in high school. He attended a private school with the others while I went to a public school. We met at a party, a month later he asked me to be his girlfriend. It's a bit weird considering I was always bullied for my plump body but I thought love was blind.But no, love was indeed not blind. A year after we got together, Edward admitted it was a bet between the guys to date an unattractive girl from the public school.I didn't ask for a break up even after I knew, because I liked it so much, the idea of having a solid-ten boyfriend who's attending the private school. I didn't mind, even when May told me he screwed girls during our brief break-ups. Because I was too caught up with the idea of having a boyfriend. To want people to know I'm wanted, despite my unattractive figure.We stayed together for six years, when he finally dumped me on the third year of my bachelor degree, right on my birthday, which was also our 6th anniversary, via text. I was so heartbroken I lost 50 lbs.Eight months later he came back, not asking for another chance to be my boyfriend but instead, proposed for a marriage. I was 22, just a few months away from graduating.Maybe Toffer's right, maybe it's a revenge, to win, that I rejected him even if he's the only guy I ever imagined to be married to. Up till now."Ready?" He asks once he parks the car. I nod, unbuckling my seat belt while he reaches out for the birthday present at the back seat.This circle of friend, Edward-Charlotte-May and everyone else are actually Christian's friends from his school, the private school for the rich kids. He brought me with him every time they hang out and that's how I got so close with them.It was weird to hang out with them after we broke up -for real, not the mini break-ups when he screwed girls- but he was pursuing medicine in UK so they assured me they're more than happy to continue including me in their little group; we're still friends after all. Sure bros-before-hoes but at that point, I'm like one of them, even without Christian. So I continued hanging out with them until now, only dissapeared every time Christian's back for his summer breaks.Two years ago I started bringing Toffer when I hang out with them, only a few times though, when I needed a ride and he was free to provide one."Hey man, what's up!" Allan comes and greets us as Toffer releases his hand from my back, fist bumping him."Haven't seen you for a while," Roland joins us as he hands a beer to Toffer."Nina," suddenly May comes and grabs me from the boys, acting all excited, "guess what?""What?""They broke up!" She squeals as my eyes widen, "What?"Shit, Christian broke up with his supermodel girlfriend? Really?"He told me they ended it two months ago!" It's been four months since I last saw him during the gathering at Edward and Charlotte's but, "Really?""You guys are meant to be together." She nods repeatedly, grinning from ear to ear."Who's meant to be together?" A hand curls around my waist as I feel his hard abs pressing my arm. Toffer smiles wickedly with a beer on the other hand."Looking good, big guy!" May hugs him as she giggles, whispering something on his ear. He nods a few times, with a few small laughs passed at her."Yeah, you should totally check that out. Now or never, Nina." Toffer finally says once both of them are apart again. So May was whispering about Christian being single again."It's time you finally get some." Both of them laugh out loud as I roll my eyes. Sex again. Duh."You're doing good?" His deep voice throws me out completely. I turn to the side, at the guy who used to love me. Used to? Did he ever, actually? Was it just a bet? But it was six years. Six long years. "Pretty good. What about you?" "Excellent." He smiles as he takes a seat next to me. "So that's Christopher? Toffer?" He asks while his eyes point towards my best friend who's playing slides with the kids. I nod, "Yeah." "You guys are together now?" I laugh as I shake my head, "No, we're just friends. Roommates." "Oh you two are living together?" "Yup, since the past two years. I actually rented his apartment four years ago but he moved in two years later when he broke up with his girlfriend." Maybe too much info? God, he still makes me nervous. And when I'm nervous I vomit words. Unnecessary details. "So you're back for good?" I immediately ask him, wanting to divert the topic
"At least 5ft 10, blonde, blue or green or whatever captivating eye colour it is, outgoing, slutty in bed but classy on the street, and an hourglass figure." I'm basically listing the qualities that Lauren has. Well actually, the quality of all his ex girlfriends slash flings slash one-night-stands. "Tall with abs, muscles, rich, handsome, a little bit French-" I wanna stop him at 'a little bit French' but he beats me at it when he continues, "and a fuckboy." "A fuckboy? Really?" I roll my eyes as he laughs, "You're the one who told me he fucks every time you guys broke up.""We're listing the criteria of the one that you and I want to date, not describing an ex! Which by the way, get your facts right. Jason wasn't a fuckboy.""No need for the pretence, I can read you like a book, Nina. We are definitely talking about that Frenchie fuckboy, not your softie ex."I roll my eyes again. Fine, when he mentioned the firs
I drop by at the new bakery again for another slice of cheesecake. Correction, another slice of heaven-on-earth. No, correction again, another slice of heaven-on-mouth. Mhmmm yums. As usual, instead of just buying the one that I aim to buy, I somehow managed to purchase a few other treats considering Toffer's not gonna have dinner with me tonight so I might just eat all these sweet stuff as dinner. A glass of wine, or maybe two, and a whole bag of dessert. What a life! I go to bed as early as 9 to ensure I have enough sleep before Toff comes home from his date, and keeps me up all night with his night activity. I did complain to him which the following week I was gifted with a pink limited-edition Bose noise-cancellation headphone. Yes, it's very helpful. But I still can't sleep with those giant headphones on my ears thats why I opt for sleeping early and covering my ears with the headphones once I got woken up by the screaming and slapping and so many kinky stuff I have yet to und
I'm not sure is it because I'm a bit reserved, or the girls are too expressive, or he really feels that good because seriously, I can't wrap it in my head of how loud those ladies-during-the-day-but-loud-during-the-night are. As of tonight, Cassie is seriously screaming like she's in pain. ... is she? I've known Toffer since I was 18 when we attended pre-uni together. We got closer during the second semester and had spent so much time together up until now. All those time, he is one of the most gentle-men I've ever met, on par with my exes. He can't be torturing them, can he? So tell me, how, or what the hell is he doing that makes Cassie and other previous ladies he brought home scream like that? Begging, weeping, screaming, you name it. I feel like they're making porn together. Hardcore porn. Oh shut up, I watch porn so what? I'm an adult. A fucking thirty year old adult. Yeah I'm a thirty year old virgin but
Instead of serving coffee for the ladies in the morning after a whole night of fuck fiesta, I always choose to sleep in if it's the weekend. So today, I choose to sleep until 1, not even bothered that I miss lunch since I'm gonna go to Mom's around 3 to stuff myself with dinner and leftover lunch. Chicken pie, yums! "Princess, are you up?" I yawn listening to the hoarse voice next to me. He must be sleeping here again. Every Friday night he'd fuck until morning, have breakfast with the lady knowing I'm not gonna be up to serve them hot beverage, send them home, then come back and sleep in my bed until late afternoon. "Hmmmm." I hum as a reply. "What time are we going?" "Three." "Can we go at five?" I open my eyes to find him spread wide beside me, eyes closed with no shirt on, just his boxer. "Did you promise Susan you'd go at three?" He's still talking with eyes closed, "ah n
Perhaps he's being considerate, or Cassie is away for the holiday, but they haven't fucked since last Friday night. The night that I complained she was too loud."Are you reading those smut stories again?" He asks while putting a bottle of wine on the coffee table, along with two empty glasses."Girl's gotta learn, buddy." I grin, now focusing on him instead of my online romance novel."Instead of reading, you can just ask me. I'd like to think I'm an expert in that field." He pours the wine while looking all smug."Do you know that that's how the stories always start? The male lead offering the female lead sex, showing 'the right way' of how it's done. Then BAM! Th
I don't remember when did this tradition start, either the first year or the second year of our bachelor degree, but every Christmas Eve, Toffer and I would spend it together at Mom's. Then after dinner, we'd go to his parents' house for the Christmas party. Every year, without fail, Toffer's parents would organise a full-blast Christmas party. All of their family members and close friends would gather until midnight, drinking and dancing as if they're a bunch of teenagers.Though we too hadn't acted our age with the infinite shots and embarrassing dance moves so I can't comment much; we're all peas in the same pod! One thing for sure, I really, like reaaaally enjoyed myself that I'd have to stay the night there since it would be a reckless behaviour to brave through the extreme weather while being drunk. Truthfully, I stayed because the next morning, all of the family members would sit under the tree to open the presents. I've been joining them without fail every year, even during
“Are you going to the wedding?" May asks while we drink another serving of champagne. We occasionally hang out here at my house instead of hers since we can't be loud there; kids equal early bedtime equal good, exemplary behaviour instead of this inappropriate drinking habits."Whose wedding?" "Oh," is all she says then she drinks again. A decade of knowing this lady, I absolutely can sense that she has mistakenly asked the question. And now she's trying to cover it up by drinking the alcohol. "Very well, I'm going to pretend you didn't ask that." I conclude, too tired to drill her since we've been at it since the past three hours. Though we weren't talking about me or her but gossiping about our friends instead. "Alright, last item on the agenda," she finally looks at me, "when are you going to end your dating strike?" "Why would I?" "You're gonna be thirty in three months!" "So?” I roll my eyes, finishing my drink. Think we should call it a night. I'm almost drunk and she's t