No one prepares you for how undignified scattering ashes is. Of course, it sounds like a lovely ceremony, letting the wind carry your loved one to their final resting place, but in practice, dad and I were washing out a plastic bag that was full of mom in the ocean and debating on what to do with said bag. We couldn't litter in the ocean, should we throw it out? What if it still had parts of mom in it and she ends up in some landfill in bumfuck North Carolina?
"I don't think she'll mind," dad said, reading my mind and gently placing the bag in the park trash can.
"She doesn't," the ancient voice came from behind us. Dad and I turned slowly towards a woman who looked to be in her 80's or 90's.
"Actually, I'm 103," she said, reading my mind. Now she had my attention. "Child, you look just like her," she continued. "Your mama needed an adjustment too so she could cross paths with him." The old woman nodded towards my dad, who, like I, must have looked visibly shaken because a younger man, perhaps a companion, stepped in.
"Mawmaw, I told you, don't go reading energies of these poor strangers," he turned to us, "Please don't mind my great grandmother, she was raised by voodoo women in the marsh and thinks she can see through space and time." He began to wheel her away, when she stuck out her knobby hand and clasped mine tightly.
"Your mate calls to you," she said.
"My husband must be getting impatient at the hotel," I laughed nervously.
"Your husband is most certainly not your mate, child. I know you can feel that in your bones. But he is out there, searching for you. Dream sharing is common among soulmates. You need an adjustment, a course correction. Just like your mama," she again nodded to my dad, who was looking increasingly more befuddled.
"And how do I find this man?" Divorce had already been on my mind, I may as well figure out some path to happiness and if anyone had answers, it was an ancient woman raised by voodoo ladies in the marsh.
"You've been mated to him for a millenia, dear," she explained as though she were talking to a toddler who wasn't understanding. "You've likely encountered him in this lifetime, and felt the connection almost instantaneously."
"So I need to kiss a bunch of frogs to find my prince?" I asked.
"The connection is emotional as well as physical. Being in his presence will bring you peace. He will feel familiar even if you think of him as a stranger" I knew as soon as she said the words that my husband was most certainly not my soulmate. "Like your mama, you're destined for a course correction. She also had to travel to this realm to complete her timeline," Mawmaw said.
"So is death a course correction?" I asked.
"Not necessarily," Mawmaw replied. "Adjustments happen all the time but very few notice it. Deja vu is simply an adjustment to your timeline. You might notice something is off or that you've experienced it before. But recalling the memories you had or you think you had is difficult, isn't it." I was captivated by this woman. The deep lines etched in her face were illuminated by the orange sunset, her chocolate eyes twinkled with ancient wisdom.
"If you notice your adjustment, don't retrace your steps, child. This is a special chance, a gift from the universe. The feeling of deja vu will wane as you further deviate from your original timeline. Run, run, run towards your destiny, child." As soon as she released my hand from her grasp, her eyes turned gray from cataracts and her expression catatonic. Dad and I glanced at each other.
"Thank you, Mawmaw. Enjoy the evening." I wasn't sure of oracle etiquette.
Dad and I continued to make our way down North Lumina Avenue towards the hotel, our shared silence a sign of our close bond. "She'd want you to be happy, too," dad said quietly, "Justin isn't the guy for you." After Mawmaw’s encounter, I was ready to ask Justin for a divorce. I felt too stuck and too unhappy and was just gifted with a rare seal of approval to start a new life from a seemingly random stranger. With each step, my mind became more and more made up. For the first time in a long time, I felt the resolve to make some changes in my life and make it completely my own. My ears were ringing with anticipation of what could come next for me.
"Isn't this where that old cottage was? The one we stayed in the summer before you left for college?" We stopped and stood before an $8 million monstrosity that stood where one of the most magical little cottages once was. The Broadfoot Cottage had so much charm and was nothing like the austere stuccoed villa before us. The ringing in my ears was getting louder and louder. Those little floaties danced in my vision, getting more and more dense by the second. I’d experienced seeing a lot of floaties the night my mom passed away and had read that seeing them meant that a veil between two worlds was briefly lifted.
I looked down and kicked the gravel a bit. I looked down and saw a manhole cover that said, "Broadfoot." Feeling like I was about to lose my balance, I bent down to take a closer look and…
My ears were ringing loudly and my stomach had dropped like I had just been on a roller coaster. I blinked my eyes open and looked down to see my square-tipped French manicured hand atop a manhole cover. It was dark outside and the faint din of party noise was in the background. "Cabrey, you alright?" I looked up and saw my friend Alexis. I hadn't seen Alexis since my freshman year in college and here she was, dressed in a pink ruffled mini skirt and a bedazzled Bebe baby tee. She stumbled a little as she bent down and grabbed my arm. "Up you go, there are cops following us." I froze. I had been here before, albeit 16 years ago. I bounced to my feet and looked around. I was in Wexford. There was no mistaking the worn out college town in the mountains. I quickly surveyed myself. Abercrombie army cargo pants were slung low around my flat, toned stomach. My top was a brown suede tie back. I gasped at the realization - I was about to be arrested. The trajectory of my life had changed i
Walking across campus, I felt excited to break free from my parent’s control and had wanted to push the boundaries. I had a firm 11pm curfew throughout high school and mom kept tabs on me at all times. It was a blessing phone tracking wasn’t available, so she couldn't see I was getting alcohol poisoning in a random field somewhere when I had said I was at a "lacrosse sleepover." I had felt a change within myself so I didn't feel an urgent need to go drink questionable punch in a dirty frat basement. My shift in priorities left me curious as to what else Wexford had to offer. I pursued the different club tables that lined the quad, beckoning freshmen to join their various activities. “Hey Ya” by Outkast blared from the speakers of one table while other freshman girls, sweating in their Juicy Couture tracksuits in the August heat of Southwest Virginia signed up for rush events. My introverted self hurried past the sororities and I curiously stopped at Wexford Outdoors. The university wa
I found myself seated in a computer lab at the registrar's office, armed with a course catalog. I decided to knock out some of the general education requirements to assuage my mother’s objections to my deviation from the nursing track but my encounter at the study abroad table reignited my interest in art. I signed up for an intro to graphic design course and added beginner’s yoga as my physical education requirement. I left feeling excited about the future, rather than burdened with the weight of fulfilling a dream that wasn’t my own.On my way out, I spotted Alexis from the night before hanging out with one of Luke's football teammates and one of my friends from high school, Ryan. "What happened to you last night?" Alexis asked, "I should have followed you, I got a fucking ticket for underage possession." Having no explanation for what could have compelled me to run, I just told her I had stomach problems and needed to book it back to my dorm. "Heard you dumped Luke so you could b
I glared at my alarm clock. "Do you always moan in your sleep," Krystal was awake, looking down at me. I was definitely a sweaty mess, my body still alert from the dream. "I was just restless, being in a new place and all," I replied. She shrugged and sat down at her desk to do her makeup. There wasn't a single scholastic item on her desk; she had a full, lighted mirror with more makeup than a Sephora. Some evangelical snake oil salesman was playing on the TV that I’d bought from home. "I'm meeting the campus pastor for morning prayer," she said, dowsing herself in Victoria’s Secret Love Potion body spray.I smiled, throwing my legs out of bed. They still felt like Jell-O from the dream. If Colin could turn my legs to Jell-O in my dream, what was he capable of in real life? The prospect felt enthralling. "Is he hot?" I asked."He is a married, Christian man," Krystal snapped. Right. Because I'd do a full face for a married, Christian man at 8am on a Saturday,too."Do you need to use
Monday morning came and I dressed in a cute graphic tee from Hollister and low slung Seven jeans, and stashed my notebooks in my multicolor Louis Vuitton tote. I pulled my perfectly straight ponytail through a Von Dutch trucker hat, popped on my oversized rimless sunglasses and had my earbuds in. Modest Mouse's “Float On” wafted through the headphones as I started out across campus to fetch myself a coffee before my first class of the day.I was totally that girl for walking into Psychology 101 a minute late with a Starbucks. The professor rolled his eyes at me and waved me in. I went to slide into a seat near the back when I heard a familiar voice:"Cabrey, over here," Colin whispered. I quickly sat in the empty lecture chair next to him. He reached over and took a sip of my coffee, like we'd been married for years and it was the most normal thing in the world. He didn't seem to notice my surprise. We actually had to take written notes in a notebook during the lecture. I had forgott
That Friday after classes were done for the day, I packed my dirty laundry and dismissed the guilt over bringing home my laundry by being even more disgusted by the communal washers and dryers in my dorm. We were only a week into the semester and the machines already had the stink. I wanted to be comfortable for the ride but look cute at the same time, so I sported my PINK yoga pants with the multicolored logo waistband and a too tight Wexford tee shirt. I ironed my hair into a bouncy ponytail and applied light makeup for a natural look that still made my eyes pop. Colin pulled his old Bronco into the Dominion Hall parking lot and got out to help me with my luggage and I sheepishly handed him my hamper while he handed me a coffee."Thought you'd like a latte for the ride," he said. He had remembered my Starbucks order. I took a sip, purposefully getting foam on my upper lip and smiled back."That was too sweet, thank you," I said. I noticed his hamper in the truck. "I see you packed
The next morning, I decided to quell my hangover with some retail therapy. A PINK store just opened locally and I had wanted to check it out. If things kept going well with Colin, new panties wouldn't be a bad idea. An Auntie Anne's lemonade and pretzel set me straight as I went to pick up my mom's order from Nordstrom. She’d pre ordered these boots called Uggs and got me a pair to bring back down to school. I grabbed a black North Face fleece while I was there and then continued to American Eagle for jeans and camis, Abercrombie for a few polos and graphic tees, Old Navy for cute jammies and flip flops. I stopped in Wet Seal to find a few 'going out tops' and cheap hoop earrings I wouldn't mind losing. I finished the trip at the Lush store and got too many bath bombs despite the fact I lived in a dorm without a tub.Back at home, I busied myself with laundry and getting ready to work my dinner shift at the pub. A few friends who went to school locally still worked there and I was exc
Mom immediately teased me for how flushed I was when I got home that night. She was still awake, watching SNL and cuddling with Zippy. I breathlessly plopped down on the oversized couch next to her. “So do we like like Colin?” she teased. I giggled and nodded. “I want to grab brunch with you before you go tomorrow, do you want to invite him so I can get to know my future son-in-law?” I got out my phone and texted Colin and he immediately responded by saying he’d meet us at my favorite bagel spot at 10AM.The next morning, I slipped into a pink floral Free People sundress that mom had gotten me and a pair of platform flip flops I’d gotten while at the beach. I was tall but Colin was taller so he’d still tower over me even in wedges. I french braided by side swept bangs and pinned them back with a butterfly clip then scented my collarbone with Ralph by Ralph Lauren. Mom was already in the garage, putting the top of the Jeep down. “It’s a gorgeous morning,” she said, clipping it into p