Three months after Lila was born, Izzy got a job offer.A marketing firm downtown wanted her to lead its digital strategy department. The salary was excellent, the hours flexible, and they offered full benefits."I don't know," she told Sophie over coffee while Alex watched Lila. "Going back to work feels impossible right now.""Because you don't want to, or because you think you shouldn't?""Both? I love being with Lila, but I also miss having something that's just mine.""So take the job.""What if I'm a terrible mother for wanting to work?""Then every working parent in history is terrible. Which is ridiculous." Sophie sipped her latte. "You're allowed to want both, Izzy. Career and motherhood aren't mutually exclusive.""Alex hasn't gone back to the foundation full-time yet. If I take this job, we'll both be working.""So you hire help. A nanny, daycare, whatever works.""That feels like admitting we can't handle it ourselves.""Newsflash: nobody can handle it themselves. People w
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