Nadia's POVWe didn't hire a planner.That was the first decision. No coordinator, no vendor list, no one whose job was to make it look like something. Julian said it, and I agreed immediately because a planner would have turned it into an event and we didn't want an event.We wanted an afternoon.The planning happened in pieces over two weeks.Not scheduled planning sessions. Just conversations that started in the middle of other things. Julian mentioning the location question while making coffee. I was working out the guest list in my head during the subway to work and texting him the final names at eleven AM on a Tuesday.Twelve people.Elena. Priya, Marcus, and Diana. Jamie, Thomas, and Vivian. Richard. Jo. Dr. Osei, who was in New York in November for a working session, said yes immediately. Linda, because she'd written Julian's Columbia recommendation without being asked, and that meant something.And Elise. Obviously Elise."Twelve adults and a ten-month-old," Julian said. "She
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