Vivienne's POVShe asked me to arrange it.Not immediately after my meeting with him. Two weeks later. When she had thought about it in the way she thought about significant things, carefully and without rushing the thinking toward a conclusion before the conclusion was ready.She called me on a Tuesday evening.She said, "I want to meet him."I said, "Alright."She said, "Not for reconciliation. Not for anything he can give me. I need to say something that I have been carrying for thirty years and I need to say it to the person who needs to hear it because saying it anywhere else is not the same thing."I said, "I understand."She said, "Can you arrange it."I arranged it.---I was not there.This was not my meeting to be present for. My mother had been present for the things that belonged to me across this entire year, in courtrooms and galleries and doorways and kitchens, with the specific steady presence of a woman who showed up when showing up was what was needed.This one belon
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