Dana Osei married a doctor named James Mbeki on a Saturday in January — a winter wedding, deliberately chosen because Dana had always said winter weddings had a specific quality that summer weddings aspired to and rarely achieved, a quality of warmth made more significant by the cold outside.She asked Zara to speak at the reception. Not a toast — Dana had said, specifically, *not a toast, something real*. Which was the instruction of someone who had watched enough performed toasts to know the difference between what people said at weddings and what they actually meant.Zara wrote it over two evenings. She wrote four versions, which was more than she wrote for any legal document, because the legal documents had fixed elements and this had only one requirement: that it be true.She stood up at the reception with the paper and then put the paper down because the words were hers and she knew them."Dana called me after every significant thing that happened in the last fifteen years," she
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