WHAT HE SHOULD HAVE SAIDDominic is sitting in his therapist's office and he's talking about the night he stood in the rain outside Nora's apartment building and he's articulating all the things he should have said to her if he'd been brave enough and vulnerable enough and authentic enough to speak them instead of just standing there pleading silently for her to open the door and let him back in. He tells his therapist that he should have told her that she was right about him and that she was right about his patterns and that she was right that he needed to change fundamentally and that he couldn't change just by saying he was going to change he needed to actually demonstrate it through action and consistency and time."I should have told her that I'm sorry," he says, and his voice contains the weight of months of regret and understanding and acceptance. "I should have told her that I understand now that love isn't a transaction and it's not something you win by maintaining control and
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