Vanessa's lawyer called on a Wednesday.The sentencing was Thursday morning. She was requesting a final meeting. No lawyers in the room. No mediators. Just the two of them, one last time, and she had something she needed to say before the court took away the last of her choices about where she was and what she was doing.Nathan told me not to go.He said it plainly, the way he said the things he needed me to actually hear, not as advice wrapped in softness but as a direct statement from a man who had watched me make enough poor decisions to know the shape of one when he saw it approaching. "She has nothing left to lose, Damien. A person with nothing left to lose is not coming to that room to make peace. Do not go."I heard him.I went anyway.Because I still believed, even then, even after everything, that people deserved the chance to say what they needed to say. That sitting across from someone and receiving whatever they had to give, even if it was ugly, even if it cost you somethi
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