“I can’t sign it. I keep staring at the paper, and I can’t make myself sign it.” Daniel said it quietly, sitting across from Bianca at her kitchen table, the medical directive documents Folake had prepared spread between them, his hands visibly unsteady despite his attempts at composure. “What’s stopping you specifically?” Bianca asked gently. “If I sign this, I’m agreeing to follow her wishes exactly as written, even if some future version of me desperately wants to fight for more treatment than she’s asked for,” Daniel admitted. “I keep imagining being in that room someday, watching her decline, and having to actually honor what this paper says instead of doing everything possible to keep her alive longer.” Bianca considered this seriously, recognizing genuine, complicated grief rather than simple resistance. “I think that’s exactly why she wants it documented now, while she’s still capable of being clear. So you don’t have to make that decision alone, in the middle of genuine cr
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