For the first month after the divorce, I still found myself checking my phone every afternoon at four-thirty.That was when Yale got out of school.For years, Yates would send the same message around that time:[I picked him up. Just wait at home.]Even after moving to Santara, I kept wrapping up work early and returning to my empty apartment as if I still had somewhere I needed to be. It wasn't until one evening, standing alone in the elevator, that it finally occurred to me.No one was expecting me to wait anymore.The company offered counseling to employees on overseas assignments. During one session, the therapist asked me, "When was the last time you told someone no?"I thought about it for a long time and couldn't remember.Whenever Yates frowned, I lowered my voice. Whenever Helen sighed, I was the one who gave in. If Yale started crying, my first instinct was always to wonder what I'd done wrong.I was twenty-two when Yates and I started dating. One day, a torrential storm shut
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