How Does '28 Summers' Portray Long-Distance Relationships?

I've been completely drawn into the way '28 Summers' captures the bittersweet reality of long-distance relationships. The novel doesn’t sugarcoat things—it shows how love can persist across miles and years, but also how distance wears people down in subtle ways. Mallory and Jake’s annual summer fling is the heart of the story, and their connection feels so authentic because it’s built on anticipation and absence as much as passion. They’re never fully in sync; one is always leaving while the other stays behind, and that cycle of reunion and separation becomes its own kind of intimacy. The book nails the little details: the way they memorize each other’s voices over phone calls, the ache of missing milestones, and the quiet jealousy that creeps in when imagining the other’s daily life with someone else. It’s not just romantic; it’s painfully human.

What really stands out is how the distance shapes their choices. Jake builds a career and a family elsewhere, while Mallory stays rooted in her beach house, as if waiting. The novel suggests that long-distance relationships demand sacrifices, but also create a space where love exists outside routine—a fantasy that’s both sustaining and unsustainable. The annual weekends become a ritual, but rituals can’t replace shared daily life. Hilderbrand doesn’t judge their arrangement; she just shows how it works until it doesn’t. The bittersweet ending underscores that time and distance aren’t kind to love without commitment. It’s a portrayal that lingers because it’s honest—full of longing, but also the quiet understanding that some loves are meant to be fleeting.