4 Answers2026-07-25 06:03:31
Seriously, just Google it. The top result will tell you. This isn't the 'Chronicles of Narnia' with competing reading orders.
6 Answers2026-07-24 01:26:22
I think the confusion might come from people seeing 'Starts' and thinking 'beginning.' But it's not the beginning of the story; it's the beginning of the next phase of the story. The real beginning is 'It Ends With Us,' where we meet Lily and learn her history. That book contains the true origin story for all the characters.
So the chronological order of events in Lily's life is also: Book 1 (past and present), then Book 2 (future).
2 Answers2026-07-24 18:29:31
Look at the copyright dates. 'It Ends with Us' came out years earlier. The sequel was written in response to its massive popularity. Narratively, it continues the story fans asked for. So in every sense—publication, narrative, marketing—it's Book 2.
4 Answers2026-07-24 05:15:55
Let me break it down like I did for my book club. Book 1: 'It Ends With Us' (2016). This is Lily's story with Ryle and her reconnection with Atlas. Full stop. Book 2: 'It Starts With Us' (2022). This picks up right after the first book's epilogue, following Lily and Atlas as a couple. There are also flashback letters from teenage Atlas woven in. Do not, under any circumstances, read the sequel first just because part of it is set earlier in time. Those letters are meant to be discovered after you've already fallen for Atlas in the first book. They provide depth, not introduction. The order is clear and purposeful.
3 Answers2026-07-24 14:55:22
Okay, I had this same confusion last year. The core series is just two books: 'It Ends with Us' followed by 'It Starts with Us'. That's the chronological order for Lily and Atlas's story. A lot of people think there's a third main novel, but that's it. You can absolutely read the first as a standalone if you want; the second is a direct sequel that picks up right after the end of the first book.
Some folks recommend reading 'November 9' as well, since it exists in the same universe and has a very brief crossover character appearance, but it's a completely separate story and not necessary for understanding the main duology. The reading experience is perfectly complete with just those two in order.
4 Answers2026-07-24 06:50:30
I work at a bookstore, and we get this question daily. The official series order is 'It Ends with Us' (Book 1) and 'It Starts with Us' (Book 2). We shelve them together in that order.
Sometimes people see 'Starts' and think it's a prequel because of the wording. It's not. It's a sequel. The 'It' that starts is Lily's new life and relationship, which only begins after the 'It' (the cycle of abuse) ends in the first book.
It's a direct continuation, so please read them in order. You'll be deeply confused about character motivations otherwise.
8 Answers2026-07-24 01:23:41
Consider the reading order a journey. 'It Ends With Us' is the difficult, transformative path. 'It Starts With Us' is reaching the destination and learning to live there. You can't appreciate the destination without the journey.
6 Answers2026-07-24 07:25:23
Okay, hot take: you could technically read 'It Starts With Us' alone and follow the plot of a couple getting together, but you'd be missing the entire point. The point isn't the 'what', it's the 'why'.
The first book's intense exploration of cyclical violence and difficult choices is what gives the second book's domestic bliss its meaning. Without that background, the sequel reads like a fairly generic romance. The power is in the contrast, so please do yourself a favor and read them in order. It makes the hopeful ending of the duology actually feel earned.
5 Answers2026-07-24 12:32:15
I'm always team publication order for any series, and this is no exception. 'It Ends With Us' (2016) then 'It Starts With Us' (2022). The gap between publications is huge, which actually mirrors the character's journey in a way. You get the intense, traumatic story, then a long pause, then the hopeful 'what comes after' story. Reading them in quick succession now is a different experience, but still effective.
4 Answers2026-07-24 01:14:08
I'm not a crier with books, but 'It Ends With Us' got me. 'It Starts With Us' didn't make me cry; it made me smile. That emotional sequence—tears then smiles—is perfect. I wouldn't want to smile first and then cry. The release of tension flows in one direction.