What Is The Main Message Of 'You Should Smile More'?

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Zoe
Zoe
2025-11-18 07:54:09
The phrase 'You Should smile More' often pops up in conversations about societal expectations, especially regarding how women are subtly (or not-so-subtly) pressured to perform happiness for others' comfort. At first glance, it might seem like harmless encouragement, but dig a little deeper, and it unravels into something more insidious—a demand for emotional labor that’s disproportionately placed on certain groups. I’ve seen this play out in everything from workplace dynamics to casual interactions, where someone’s neutral expression is interpreted as 'unapproachable' or 'unfriendly,' and the solution is always to 'just smile.' It’s exhausting, honestly, because it reduces complex emotions to a performative act, as if our faces exist to decorate someone else’s day.

What resonates with me most about critiques of this phrase is how it ties into broader themes of autonomy. Books like 'rage becomes her' by Soraya Chemaly or even fictional works like 'The Handmaid’s Tale' explore the idea that suppressing 'unpleasant' emotions—especially anger—is a way to maintain control over marginalized voices. Smiling becomes a social contract, one that’s rarely questioned until it’s weaponized. I remember watching an anime like 'Psycho-Pass,' where characters are literally policed for their emotional states, and it struck me how art mirrors these real-world pressures. the message isn’t just about smiling; it’s about who gets to demand it, who benefits from it, and what we lose when we comply without reflection. Sometimes, not smiling is the most honest thing you can do.
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