How To Start A Romance Novel

Starting a romance novel is like lighting a fuse—you need that initial spark to set everything in motion. I always begin by figuring out the core dynamic between the leads. Are they enemies forced to work together? Childhood friends reuniting after years? Strangers thrown into an absurd situation? That first encounter is crucial—it should crackle with tension, whether it’s witty banter or a collision of conflicting goals. The key is making readers feel something immediately, even if it’s just curiosity or secondhand embarrassment.

Setting matters too, but not in the way you’d think. A coffee shop or office romance can work if you inject freshness into it. Maybe the barista spills a latte on the CEO’s thousand-dollar suit, or the rivals are stuck in an elevator during a blackout. Stakes don’t have to be life-or-death, but they should matter deeply to the characters. I obsess over small details—a character biting their lip when nervous, or the way sunlight hits the other’s hair—because those moments make the emotional payoff land harder later.

The worst mistake is info-dumping backstory upfront. Let the characters reveal themselves through actions. If the heroine avoids hospitals, show her fainting at a blood drive, don’t just state she’s traumatized. Romance lives in the gaps between what’s said and unsaid, so I weave in subtext like hidden threads. A gift given grudgingly, a hand almost touched then withdrawn—these tiny gestures build anticipation. The best openings make you lean in, wondering how these two idiots will ever admit they’re perfect for each other.

Romance novels live or die by their first chapter. I dive straight into a scene where the protagonists’ chemistry—or lack thereof—is undeniable. Maybe they’re arguing over the last croissant at a bakery, or one’s rescuing the other from a disastrous blind date. Physical descriptions can wait; what matters is capturing their energy. I sprinkle in quirks—perhaps he always carries a lucky penny, or she hums off-key when nervous. Conflict doesn’t need to be dramatic, but it should hint at deeper layers. If she’s a by-the-book lawyer and he’s a chaotic artist, show that clash in how they handle a mundane problem, like a missed train. The goal is to make readers think, 'I need to see where this goes.'