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Sixteen years old spoilt brat, with weird quotes from her diary, Katherine Amelia Jones is being stripped off her position as the only child when her Dad remarries a woman with five children, who she develops this sudden hatred for. From being bullied to getting wanted and longed for, by her bully, her step brother.Things takes a sullen turn when she finally lets her guard down and gets involved in a proscriptive relationship with the eldest male of her step siblings.***A mind blowing story filled with suspense. Totally worth reading.

8.9

34 Chapters

The Alpha's Hated Slave Mate

“You have to choose between death or becoming my slave. Either I give you a death sentence now, or your life becomes enslaved. I have given you the liberty to choose.” On the night of her 18th birthday, the time came for princess Alexa of the Blue Scorpion pack to meet her mate. This particular moment was everything she’d hoped for, but in the end, what happened was not what she'd expected. She found her mate, alpha Logan of the Red Lotus pack, the youngest, most charming and most desired alpha in all the realm, also happens to be her enemy. That night, Logan was bent on achieving his revenge against Danister, the Blue Scorpion alpha. He wasn’t going to let anyone get in the way, not even Alexa. That same night unlocked a new life for Alexa, not only was her pack taken into captivity but she, the high-held princess, was also taken into slavery at the hands of her mate. For the trauma her father caused him in the past, Logan plans to do so many things to Alexa. He wants to hurt her, to make her pay for all his suffering, he wants to make life as miserable as possible for her, till the point she begs for death. Now, there’s only one problem standing in the way of his plans; the mate bond they share won’t let him. Instead, it draws him closer to her; it makes him yearn for her in the most unimaginable ways. Find out where this love story between Alexa and Logan will lead in The Alpha's Hated Slave Mate. Book 1 of the werewolf mate series Book 2- The Beta's Unexpected Mate For updates on character reveals and quotes, including all my books, follow my Facebook page, Eyitee's library.

9.3

246 Chapters

The Beta's Unexpected Mate

"I used to be the well-respected Lady Kara. Everyone feared me! No one beneath me dared to so much as look me in the eye or remain sitting whenever I walked into a room, but now, I've lost everything! My life, my status, my man, all gone! I've become a nobody all because of that bitch who suddenly came and stole everything from me. I hate her so much!!!" It seems the battle she fought so hard for had been lost by Omega Kara, and she is now left to rot and suffer in a cruel world full of people just like her former self. But does the goddess give second chances? Is it possible for the darkest and evilest of hearts to turn a new leaf and become pure and white as snow? With all of her past behaviours, Kara was deemed the devil herself; now it's time for her to pay for her crimes and receive her dose of the same pain and suffering she caused others. But what will happen when the moon goddess decides not just to give her another chance to mend her ways but also an unexpected mate? The man whom she hated the most. Another adventure awaits in The Beta's Unexpected Mate (Book 2 of the werewolf mate series). Book 1- The Alpha's Hated Slave Mate Book 2- The Beta's Unexpected Mate For updates on character reveals and character quotes, as well as all of my books, follow my Facebook page, Eyitee's library.

109 Chapters

Sinful Temptation

"Where will you hide, doll?" His deep raspy voice resonated in an empty, dark classroom. Her heart thudded in her ears. Her feet involuntarily moved back, shoulders shrinking in fear as he took threatening steps towards her like a predator. "N-no..." She stuttered, chin-wobbling, lips trembling. The certainty of her being alone in the presence of this beast-like man had her legs going jello. Emma was scared. So damn scared. "You can't deny me, Belle. I'm your mate. You're fucking mine!" He growled. * Emma Belle Richardson is a 17-year-old nerd who dedicates herself to schoolwork and books rather than socializing. She doesn't have any friends and is an outcast. She has more to her than anyone can imagine. She prefers to stay under the radar, but what happens when she'll catch the eyes of the man who will cause catastrophe in her peaceful life. Xander Colt is a 27-year-old mysterious man with extremely good looks. There was nothing known about him. The Greek God-like man with sharp green eyes, and dark tattoos, who could easily be considered a top-notch model or a beast-like warrior came as a mathematics teacher in the middle of a semester. Strange wasn't it! Naive girl Alpha male Erotica Hot Romance Student and Teacher Werewolf Warning ️ 18+

9.2

102 Chapters

Warning: My Mommy is A Savage!

On their engagement day, her fiancé cheated with her sister, and pushed her down the stairs even though she was pregnant!Five years later, Charmine Jiang made an impactful return, rooted with a deep hatred for scumbags. She was cold-hearted, ready to fight for the family money, eyed to become a supermodel. She was ready to stun the world.Although she was determined to make her own money for revenge, hordes of men still insisted on helping her, spoiling her.“Who offended my lady? Get the gears ready!”“AK999 ready, I’ve got the scumbags! Dad, Mom, please bring me a little sister!”

9.1

1964 Chapters

Alpha Nocturne's Contracted Mate

“Fuck, Ada…”“Brad...oh, fuck... deeper... harder!” Ada’s shrill voice begged between breathy moans.The banging of the headboard against the wall intensified as Ann froze. No... it couldn’t be!Ann took a deep breath and nudged the door a little more. Her chest felt like it would explode as she held her breath whilst the crack widened.When it revealed her sister lying underneath her husband-to-be, her hands flew to her mouth to stifle the gasp of horror as her heart shattered instantly.As Brad roared his release inside her sister, Ada turned her head towards the door with a smirk.An icy chill descended over Ann as if a bucket of ice water had been thrown over her and she stood and stared, her eyes wide and mouth slightly open in disbelief.Ada lifted her hand and waved in Ada’s direction with a smug smile plastered on her face as Brad collapsed on top of her, kissing her neck tenderly.Is there anything you can do if your mate had sex with your sister?

9.7

302 Chapters

What Are The Most Famous Quotes In The Enchiridion By Epictetus?

3 Answers2025-09-03 09:48:50

Flipping through 'Enchiridion' always feels like discovering a pocket-sized toolkit for getting through a rough day. Epictetus hands out lines that double as life-cleanup instructions, and some keep looping in my head whenever something goes sideways. A few of the most famous ones that I keep returning to are: 'Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of them,' 'Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens,' and 'It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.' Those three form a kind of backbone for Stoic practice — control your judgments, focus on action, and accept what you can't change.

Another cluster of lines I quote when I'm trying to be braver: 'If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid,' and 'First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.' There’s also that theatrical image: 'Remember that you are an actor in a drama of such sort as the author pleases to make it.' I like it because it makes responsibility feel like a role I can play rather than a burden I must carry alone.

I often pair these sayings with small, daily rituals — a short walk, writing three tiny tasks, or letting one irritation pass without comment. The quotes are short, but they spark routines that stick. If you’re dipping into 'Enchiridion' for the first time, start by noting one line that lands and try living by it for a week; you’ll be surprised how loud these old phrases can get when they start changing choices I make.

Where Do Epictetus Quotes Appear In The Discourses?

4 Answers2025-08-27 09:51:55

I get asked this a lot when people are trying to track down a favorite Epictetus line, and my go-to explanation is simple: Epictetus's sayings are sprinkled all through the four books of Arrian’s notes we call 'Discourses', and many of the short punchy lines people quote are also collected in the little handbook 'Enchiridion', which was compiled from those same talks.

If you want to be precise, the best approach is to look up the phrase in a searchable translation of 'Discourses' (or in 'Enchiridion') — translations differ in wording, so the exact phrasing you remember might show up in one place in one translator’s version and somewhere else in another. Arrian recorded Epictetus’s conversations as four books of 'Discourses', so any well-known Epictetus quote likely has a place in those books, often repeated in the 'Enchiridion' as a concise formulation.

Personally, I like reading a line in 'Enchiridion' first to get the distilled idea, then hunting it down in 'Discourses' to enjoy the fuller context and the back-and-forth that surrounds it. That deeper context often changes how I interpret the quote, which is half the fun.

Which Epictetus Quotes Are Easiest To Memorize?

4 Answers2025-08-27 12:51:26

My apartment is full of sticky notes—tiny philosophy anchors—and Epictetus lines are the ones that stuck the fastest. Short, punchy, and practical is the sweet spot for memorization. Lines like "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters," "Some things are up to us and some are not," and "Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants" are compact and emotionally resonant, so they lodge in my head after a few repeats.

I usually pick one for the morning and one for the evening. I put one on my mirror, one as my phone lock screen, and whisper them while making coffee. Repeating a phrase aloud while doing a simple task turns the quote into a habit. If you want a starter set: try "Control what you can," "Desire nothing excessive," and "First say to yourself what you would be; then do what you have to do." Those are short, image-friendly, and easy to tuck into daily life, which is honestly the best trick for remembering anything.

What Are The Key Quotes In The Handbook Of Epictetus?

4 Answers2025-09-03 15:04:09

Flipping through 'Handbook' feels like finding a pocket-sized coach who speaks plain sense. One of the lines that always sticks with me is: "Some things are up to us, and some things are not up to us." It sounds simple, but when I catch myself worrying about traffic, other people's moods, or the stock market, that sentence cuts through the noise. Another bite-sized gem I keep in my head is: "Don't demand that things happen as you wish, but wish that they happen as they do." That little reframe has saved more coffee-fueled panic sessions than I can count.

I also lean on: "Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens," and the tougher, humbling one: "If you wish to be a writer, write; if you wish to be a brave person, face hardships." Epictetus nudges you toward action and acceptance simultaneously. I often pair these lines with a sticky note on my monitor—practical, blunt, oddly comforting. If you like, try reading a few pages aloud; the cadence makes the advice feel like dialogue rather than a lecture, and it seeps into how you react to small annoyances.

How Do Epictetus Quotes Influence Modern Therapy?

4 Answers2025-08-27 09:45:25

Late-night scrolling led me to an Epictetus quote that felt like a lamp in a fog: 'It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.' That line kept popping up in my notes and then in conversations with friends who were navigating breakups, layoffs, and parenting meltdowns. I started using those lines like little scripts—teaching someone to pause and name what they can control felt less preachy and more human.

Over months I noticed a pattern: the quotes sit at the crossroads of philosophy and therapy. Cognitive-behavioral techniques repackage Stoic ideas into practical tools. When I coach someone through an anxious spiral, I lean on the 'some things are up to us, some things are not' distinction (from 'Enchiridion') to help them map controllable actions. That one tweak—separating events from responses—turns rumination into a task list. On a personal note, I keep a sticky note with a short Epictetus line by my desk. It doesn't fix everything, but it reroutes my attention, and that's often the beginning of change.

What Epictetus Quotes Address Dealing With Anger?

4 Answers2025-08-27 00:29:49

I still get a little thrill when Epictetus lands a line that feels like a warm slap — in the best way. One quote that always calms my impulse to snap is 'People are not disturbed by things, but by the views they take of them.' It’s almost a checklist for that moment when heat rises: notice the impression, don’t immediately agree with it, and give yourself a beat. Practically, I take three deep breaths and ask what story I’m telling myself about the other person.

Another one I go back to when I’m stung is 'When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger.' It’s deliciously subversive: instead of fueling rage, you look inward, find your own blind spots, and the insult shrinks. Over time this habit turned lots of flash anger into curiosity — why did that trigger me? — and that curiosity did more for my relationships than any perfectly timed retort ever could.

Which Epictetus Quotes Inspire Productivity For Students?

4 Answers2025-08-27 03:13:26

Some Epictetus lines turned into little sticky notes for my brain when finals roll around — they’re weirdly practical and calm at the same time.

One that I lean on is 'Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.' To me this translates to: plan the tonight/this-week tasks that you actually control (reading, practice problems, sleep) and stop spiraling over grades or curve anxieties. I write a tiny to-do list with only 3 things and treat the list like a contract.

Another favorite is 'First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.' It nudges me from daydreaming straight into action. Instead of obsessing over an ideal 'straight-A me', I picture the next small behavior — open the textbook, do one page, set a 25-minute timer. Over time those tiny choices build momentum. If you're juggling distractions like notifications or roommates, these lines become a steady voice reminding you that productivity is less about magic and more about choosing controllables. Tonight I'll use them to resist doom-scrolling and actually finish that problem set, and I swear it feels better than caffeine.

How Can Epictetus Quotes Improve Leadership Skills?

4 Answers2025-08-27 01:53:22

When I started leading small teams, I used to panic when things went off-script; Epictetus slowly rewired that habit for me. I keep a few lines from 'Enchiridion' pinned above my desk—things like the dichotomy of control—and they’re more than mottos. They shape how I structure meetings, assign responsibility, and set expectations. Instead of reacting to every upset, I train myself to separate what’s within my influence from what isn’t, which makes my feedback clearer and less emotional.

Over time that clarity turned into a calmer culture. People pick up on steady leadership: they take risks when they know mistakes won’t be weaponized and they see struggle as learning. I also use short quotes from 'Discourses' during one-on-ones to nudge reflection—asking, “What’s in your control here?” forces actionable thinking. It’s practical: fewer drama explosions, faster pivots, and a work rhythm that rewards ownership. If you’re trying to be the kind of leader people trust, start by practicing the small mental shifts Epictetus recommends and watch language and behavior follow that lead.

Which Epictetus Quotes Best Teach Resilience?

4 Answers2025-08-27 05:04:26

I still pull out little Epictetus lines when life throws a curveball—like the time a project I'd poured heart into collapsed at the last minute and I felt that sinking, punch-in-the-gut disappointment. What cuts through that fog for me is the simple sting of truth in 'It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.' That one reminds me that anger and blame are optional responses; resilience is a choice.

Another quote I keep taped to a notebook is 'Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.' It's practical, a kind of mental triage: separate what I can fix (my effort, my attitude) from what I can't (other people's actions, random setbacks). On hard days I combine that with 'First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do'—it pushes me from pity into concrete steps, even if they’re tiny. If you like tiny rituals, try writing one of these on a sticky note and reading it before bed; it softens the panic and gives you something to act on.

What Epictetus Quotes Summarize Stoic Control?

4 Answers2025-08-27 19:13:45

A few Epictetus lines have quietly reorganized how I react to messy days, so I keep returning to them like bookmarks.

My favorite, punchy and simple, is from the opening of the 'Enchiridion': "Some things are up to us and some are not up to us." That little distinction is the core of Stoic control — focus energy on what you can shape (your choices, judgments, effort) and let the rest be background noise. Another one I put on the fridge is, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." That’s permission to choose my response even when the circumstance is ugly.

I also love: "Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of them," and "Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens." Together they feel like a practical toolkit: narrow your attention, adjust your interpretation, act where you can, and breathe through the rest. Whenever I’m stressed about deadlines or traffic, repeating one of these lines resets my headspace and my priorities.