Double Bossed

I scrolled through the comments on my latest I*******m post, forcing that big smile I always wore for the camera. “Bella, you’re a goddess! Those curves are everything!” one girl wrote. Another dropped heart emojis and said, “You make me want to rock my body too. Thank you queen.” The likes poured in, notifications buzzing nonstop. To them, I was Isabella Torres, the plus-size fashion influencer living her best life. Bold outfits, confident poses, body positivity speeches. If only they knew the truth.

I tossed my phone onto the kitchen counter and tugged at my loose black top. It hid the soft rolls around my middle, but I still felt every inch of them. The house was quiet except for the hum of the fridge. Another lonely afternoon. Marriage was supposed to be different. Better. Not this.

The front door slammed hard enough to make me jump.

“Bella!” Ryan called out, his voice already edged with irritation.

“In the kitchen,” I answered, stirring the pot of soup I had going. Nothing heavy. Just something light, like he always wanted.

He stepped in, loosening his tie with one hand while setting his laptop bag on the table. Ryan looked good, as usual. Tall, sharp features, the type who turned heads at the office. Back when we first met, he’d pull me close and tell me how much he loved my body. Now? He barely glanced my way.

“How was your day?” I asked, trying to keep things normal.

“Exhausting. Non-stop calls.” He opened the fridge, grabbed a beer, and popped the cap. His eyes finally landed on me, scanning from my chest down to my hips. The look wasn’t that of desire. It was disappointment. “You posting more of that stuff again? Parading around like everything’s fine?”

I swallowed hard. “Just a try-on haul. The new dresses from that brand. People seem to like them.”

He let out a short, bitter laugh. “Of course they do. All those girls lying to each other that being fat is beautiful. You’re really buying into your own hype, huh?”

“Ryan, please.” My voice came out quieter than I wanted. “It’s my job.”

“Job?” He took a long drink from the bottle, leaning against the counter. “Sitting on your ass taking pictures isn’t a job. Look at yourself, Bella. You’re getting bigger every damn month. It’s disgusting. I can barely stand to look at you.”

The words landed like punches. I felt heat rush to my face and blinked back the sting in my eyes. “I’ve been trying. You know that. I watch what I eat most days.”

“Trying?” He stepped closer, voice low and mean. “You waddle around the house in those giant shirts. No wonder I don’t touch you anymore. Who the hell wants to sleep with someone who lets herself go like this?”

I gripped the spoon tighter, staring down at the soup so he wouldn’t see my face crumble. “Can we just have dinner together tonight? I made this light recipe. We could talk.”

“Nah, I’m not in the mood.” He waved his hand like I was bothering him. “Order me something grilled. Low carb. And don’t come to bed early. I’ve got an early start tomorrow.”

He didn’t wait for me to reply. Just grabbed his beer and headed to the living room. The TV clicked on a second later, some loud football game filling the house with noise. I stood there alone, the steam from the pot rising in front of me. My hands shook a little as I turned off the stove.

Why did I put up with this? We’d only been married fourteen months. The wedding had been perfect, big smiles, dancing, his hands on my waist like he couldn’t let go. Then came the routine. My content blew up, brands reached out, and Ryan climbed higher at his finance job. Somewhere along the way, I became the problem.

I plated his food when the delivery arrived and carried it to him without a word. He muttered a quick “thanks” and kept his eyes on the screen. No hug. No real conversation. I ate my small portion at the counter, tasting nothing.

Later, I went upstairs to our bedroom. The mirror caught me as I changed into my biggest sleep shirt. Thick thighs, full belly, arms that jiggled when I moved. I used to call this power. Now it just felt heavy. I posted a quick story before bed, me holding a cup of tea, with a caption saying “Self-love starts at home.” Then I turned off the lights.

Ryan came up eventually. I heard him brushing his teeth, the bed dipping on his side. The space between us felt miles wide. I lay there staring at the ceiling, listening to his breathing even out. Sleep didn’t come easy. My mind kept spinning.

The next morning, sunlight hit the curtains early. Ryan was already dressed and downstairs. I checked my phone first, more comments, a few brand DMs, one girl saying my post helped her wear a swimsuit for the first time. That part felt real. Good and even.

Down in the kitchen, Ryan was eating toast and scrolling emails. I poured coffee and sat across from him.

“Can we talk about something?” I asked carefully.

He looked up, eyebrow raised. “What?”

“I’ve been thinking. Maybe I should hire a personal trainer. Private sessions, here at the house. To help with…you know, losing some weight.”

He paused, then actually smiled a little. Not warm, butxinterested. “About time. Yeah, go for it. Use the joint card. But don’t waste money, Bella. I want to see actual results. No more of that body-positive nonsense if you’re serious about fixing yourself.”

His words hurt, but I nodded fast. “Okay. I’ll find someone today.”

“Good.” He finished his coffee, grabbed his keys. “Text me the details. I mean it and make it count.”

The door closed behind him. I let out a long breath and opened my laptop. Searching “personal trainer private home sessions” brought up plenty of options. One profile stood out: a guy named Marcus with strong reviews, serious photos showing his muscular build, and a note that he was married and professional. Safe. I sent a message before I could second-guess myself.

“Hi, I’m looking for private training at home to lose weight. Plus-size client. When are you available?”

His reply came within the hour. Straightforward and polite. We set up an initial consultation for next week.

The day passed in a blur. I filmed a short video about confidence, edited photos, and answered fans. Alone at lunch. Alone in the afternoon. When Ryan got home, he seemed in a slightly better mood.

“So, you found someone?” he asked while eating the chicken I prepared.

“Yeah. Marcus. He does home visits. He will start soon.”

“Perfect. Hope he whips you into shape.” He reached over and patted my arm, but it felt more like checking on a project than touching his wife. “Portions were decent tonight. Keep that up.”

I smiled through the comment. Inside, my stomach twisted.

That evening, my phone rang. Lauren, my best friend since college. I picked up right away, stepping into the bathroom for privacy.

“Hey, you,” she said. “You sound off again. What happened?”

I sat on the edge of the tub and told her everything. The insults, the cold bed, the way Ryan kept me hidden away from friends and nights out. “I feel like I’m disappearing, Lauren. He makes me hate looking at myself.”

“God, Bella. That’s not love. That’s control. You’ve built this whole platform celebrating curves, but he’s tearing you down every day. You need to do something for yourself.”

“That’s why I hired the trainer. Ryan actually agreed because he wants me smaller.”

Lauren sighed. “Good start. But do the sessions for your strength, not just to please him. You’re beautiful, girl. Thick, curvy, powerful. Don’t let him make you forget it.”

We talked longer. She told me about her new apartment, the guy she went on a date with. Normal stuff. It felt like fresh air. By the time we hung up, I had a small spark of hope.

But later that night, after Ryan fell asleep, I locked myself in the bathroom again. The tears came fast and quiet. I slid down the wall, knees to my chest, shoulders shaking. The cold tile pressed against my back. Why wasn’t I enough for him? What happened to the man who once carried me to bed laughing?

I whispered to my reflection, “Maybe if I lose some weight he will finally be able to touch me.”

Downstairs the TV was still on from earlier. Ryan had laughed at something during the game. I stayed on the floor a while longer, letting the quiet hold me. Tomorrow I’d start fresh. Search for workout clothes that fit right. Prepare for the sessions.

Deep down, though, I wondered if fixing my body would fix the marriage. Or if it would just open the door to something else entirely.

I wiped my face, stood up, and went back to bed. The gap between Ryan and me stayed wide. But for the first time in weeks, I felt a tiny pull toward change.