Because of her lovely actions alone I may even make her my Chief bridesmaids on my wedding day with Richard.
She loves and understands my man just like me.
Because of that she may get to be my right hand Lady on my wedding day.Finally, the day came. My birthday arrived just like I looked forward to.
I have already booked down an event hall for that.
I woke up early and took my time to get dressed.My friends were calling to wish me a happy birthday and also wanted to know where the big event is taking place.
Since I have already told almost all my friends that is birthday plus proposal from Richard.I have already started getting alot of congratulations
Me and Ella and also Anita talked about the engagement.
They wanted to know if Richard will be proposing with a diamond ring
They cheer as we talked about the ring and few other things.
Richard has the money for an expensive ring but anyone he chose to purchase is okay for me.
All that matters is that I will be spending the rest of my beautiful life with him.
I specifically purchased a beautiful dress with shoe and a hand bag.
My hair was properly made and I was ready to go and party.
It was my party.I have been getting calls from different friends wishing me well except from Richard.
I didn't really bother much because he probably wanted to feel like he forgot my birthday so that he will show up at the event surprising me with the ring.
My parents even prayed and wish me the very best as I left that morning to the event place.
Everything was set, decorated with red roses just for picture purposes.
My friends were arriving and within a short period of time almost all my friends were present.
JoJo called that she was driving down to visit her Mom who begged her to come down.She apologized for not being able to make it down to my party.I understand and asked her not to worry we can always celebrate together at her place when she returns.The birthday party began in style, the DJ was hitting up the place with lively music making everyone to be on their feet.
There was enough to eat and drink for everyone.
As the party was going on I couldn't concentrate.
My eyes was looking at the door way and outside every second for Richard.It was time to cut my cake, I asked them to wait untill Richard arrives.
I try calling him but his phone was switched off.
I began to wonder if it was part of the surprise.
Time was going and yet no sign of Richard.
I finally bow to pressure to cut the cake.And when I was about to do that he drove in.
I became lively and happy again on seeing him.
And JoJo who said she was visiting her Mom also drives in immediately after Richard.She whispered to my ear that she needed to hurry up with what she was doing Just to come down because she couldn't miss my birthday for anything.
I was the happiest person alive on seeing both Richard and JoJo almost at same time.
Pictures were taking as they gathered around me and I cut my cake.
Richard apologized for coming in late and said his Dad sent him on an important errand since morning, he forgot his phone at home and has to stop by to see me.
He said he can't stay to the end of the party because he needed to run back to his father before he gets so worried.
He promised to make it up to me another day.
I was waiting and thinking is all a joke but her started leaving.
"Why today that is my big day, what of the surprise proposal? The ring? What I'm I suppose to tell my friends, my parents and co workers who are already aware of the engagement?
I asked Richard as I followed him outside.
"Becca, we will talk about that. I need to run baby. I will make it up to you my love. Go back and party on... I didn't want you to feel bad or feel disappointed today that was why I risked it and drove down...
And with that he blew me a kiss, got into his car and drove off.
I felt like crying but my dear friend JoJo, who followed me outside asked me to brighten up because is my day.
She said if I don't get the ring today maybe he has another special plans for me.
She asked me not to rush him because Richie is a sweet man and doesn't need rushing.I felt disappointed but I still brightened up Just like JoJo suggested.
I told my friends that cares to know that something came up for Richard and he needed to Leave which means we will postponed the engagement party and Just enjoy the birthday.
And that was all we did.
As JoJo went to drop me home that night, I began to worry again.
As she kept on singing "Richie" like a song to my ears I was busy thinking of my parents and what to tell them.
They are looking forward to seeing me with an engagement ring and pictures of when Richard will be on his knee asking me marry him.They are looking forward to many things that never took place and I didn't know what to do.
I only had my birthday party, spent so much money for It with the hope that their will be a proposal and now I'm deeply worried on what to tell my parents tonight.
As I walked into the house with the birthday gifts I received from my friends, all packed in my hands, I began to count my every step.None of the gifts really matters much like the most important one I expected from Richard.He came late for my birthday and still couldn't stay for it to be over before he ran off again.I wish he had stayed and most important I wish Richard proposed.I had high hopes, I broadcast it out. I told every of my friends about the supposed proposal and it was a big embarrassment for me.Some may even talk behind my back, they will think i was acting desperately and came up with the whole engagement idea.But I saw the clear signs in Richard, he told me within a short time we will start talking about marriage. I assumed he planned to ask me to marry him on my birthday, which was a special day for a proposal.My high hopes was cut short and yet I still love him and ready to wait until he is ready.The problem is what will I tell my parents.If Melinda finds ou
Monday came and work starts, I continued my usual routine acting like nothing happened but deep down I feel empty and pained.Richard called to apologise again he even took me out, buy me gifts as he try to make up for everything.I later visited him over at his place and noticed a lady's make up kit and ear rings in his room dresser.That was strange and I guess he did not notice it before then.The ear rings looks familiar but I can't remember who I saw it with.I was sure I have seen something like that on a Lady but couldn't figure it out.I quickly asked Richard about it and he was speechless at first before saying is probably one of his male friend and his girlfriend that visited and passed a night. he said is probably his friend's girl that forgot it.He collected the items and said he will inform the guy about it.I quickly waved it off and did not give it a thought.Most ladies wear look alike of things, I probably saw a passer-by wearing it and it began to ring a bell when i
I came in and saw him waving over a table.I doubled up my steps and almost kicked down a chair that was on my way. I was too much in a hurry to get to him and receive the great news.I was almost out of breath when I got to the table.He was not looking so bright, he curve his mouth into a smile as I sat opposite him, so excited.There was a bottle of wine and two cups.He was gradually sipping his own and later poured some for me in the second glass cup.He asked me if I care for anything to eat, I could have said yes on a normal day because is my favorite eatry and their food tastes so good.But i was filled up with excitement and told him that I'm okay with the wine.I Just wanted him to quickly get it all done.I placed my two hands on the table so that he can see that I'm fully ready.He cleared his throat, look straight at my beaming face filled with smile and said."Becca, I love you and you know that... we have being together for three years now. Three months ago completed it
"Becca, listen to me. Is not my good wish that we should go our seperate ways. I never wanted to hurt or break your heart this way but my happiness matters. Three years is nothing... don't make it seem like a big deal. I know some friends that dated for five to ten years before going their separate ways. So, three years is just like yesterday, move on with your life and stop holding onto that because nothing will make me consider you Becca. Recently you have become too desperate, going around telling everyone that we are getting engaged... that I was going to propose to you when I never for once thought of such. It was all your idea and you thought you can make me settle for less, never. I'm sorry Becca but this is the end of the road for us. Richard stood, took his glass of wine, he gently hit my untouched drink with his cup and said "cheers Becca to another new begining for us...it was nice knowing you. Goodbye and enjoy the rest of your life because I'm going to do the same"He l
The strange Lady took me home that night. As we stopped in front of my gate, I was reluctant to get down. She was talking to me after handling me a card.“…This is my business card, just in case you need someone to talk to. My name is Lydia. I live with my family…my husband and two sons close to the restaurant where I work. Listen to me, this is not the end of life….i understand how painful and thorn you are right now but give yourself time, you will be fine. You are beautiful and will get over all this. Is his loss not yours, don’t blame yourself for any of this. He was blind not to see the good woman in you. I can lead you inside if you want… I told her I was alright, I got down and walk into my gate. The heel shoe I wore was beginning to annoy me just like everything was annoying me.I removed the shoe, carried it in my hands and walked barefooted.It was after the security man opened the gate and I entered I heard Lydia driving away.The security man was saying something, probab
I even forgot I was supposed to be at work today, I would have called to inform them if I can’t make it down but I was carried away with my present trouble and did not remember work.I picked up and explained to them that I was not feeling well. I apologies for not calling earlier before the call ended.After the office call, I try calling Richard again, after the phone rang twice he did not pick I tried the third time and he picked up.“Hello Rich, Good morning… I greeted him and hoped that yesterday was a mix-up. I was even ready to let go of whatever he said. I just want him back, I can’t afford to lose him, how will I even live without Richard. He was my happiness and ever since yesterday I have being so sad that I forgot what happiness feels like. But listening to his voice will bring back the lost color to my life.“Becca, why are you calling me? I told you that it was over between us yesterday and there is nothing you will do or say that will make us come back together. I have
I later spoke with Anita, I told her about my break up with Richard and how difficult it has been for me.I also asked her about the earrings and how the information concerning my boss friend got to Richard after Jojo told her about it.Anita denied of ever getting such information from Jojo, Anita said she did not borrow any ear rings from her either.“Since you are not the one…then who else? Jojo told me that…Anita quickly interrupted me.“Forget about whatever Jojo said to you Becca, or you can still choose to believe her if you want. The last time I saw Jojo has being over two weeks, we had a quarreled over something and I stopped going to her place ever since and focused on my life. She did not say anything to me concerning your boss or his friend and she cannot even tell me because I detest her. I know you will believe her over me, is your choice, I won’t tell you what to do Becca. Jojo wears long ear rings, I don’t… except during a party or I’m attending an event. I work from
I asked Jojo what really happened between her and Anita but she beat around and did not tell me the exact problem.Anita has been with me for the past two weeks voluntarily. She has being very helpful and we stay together every weekend or go out if we have anywhere to go. I don’t have any reason to suspect Anita and I did not want to bridge my friendship with Jojo.I have other of my friends who comes around to visit. Ella comes and sometimes Rina stop by with her little daughter to say hello.I value all my friends and don’t want to hold on to anybody’s fault.I have already let go about Richard and how he got the information and also the ear ring. I am not depending on that again.I enjoy Anita’s company and Jojo shouldn’t dictate for me on who to be friendly with all because she was not in good term with Anita. I told Jojo that whenever Anita want to leave she is free to do that. Jojo said she will stop coming to my place because of Anita and I told her to do as she pleases.Ella