“Are you sure about this, Anak?” My mom, Estella, asked, her voice tight with worry as I started getting ready for my flight to Manhattan, New York City.After living being a dependent woman to my parents for two decades, I finally came to a piercing realization: I did not enjoy being pampered with expensive designer clothes, luxurious bags, shoes, and accessories. That life was a gilded coffin. I knew the general expectation—being born from a rich family meant you had to enjoy all the good things you received—but that expectation had died inside me three years ago. Maybe when I was younger, my sister Illyria and I loved being spoiled, having grand birthday parties, and getting all we wanted without a hassle or begging our parents with cute little puppy eyes. Just a simple, "Mommy, I want that toy," or, "Daddy, I want to eat ice cream," and then bam! We got what we wanted.But that spoiled girl is dead.Today, my goal was to become an independent woman, and staying here in the Philippi
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