Dominic has been in his study for three hours.I can see it in the way he's moving. The specific tension in his shoulders. The way he's been typing and deleting and typing again. He's working on something that matters and it's hard in a way that work usually isn't hard for him.I don't ask about it. I've learned that Dominic will tell me when he's ready. He'll share what he's working on when the moment feels right. Pushing doesn't help. It just creates resistance.But I watch him move through the evening with the weight of whatever he's carrying.Later, after Alexander has gone to bed, Dominic comes to find me in the living room."I've been writing something," he says. Just like that. No preamble. Just the statement of fact."I know," I tell him. "I could see you working on it.""It's a letter," he says. "To my father."I set down the book I've been reading.His father is someone we don't talk about much. Dominic's relationship with him is fractured in ways that go back decades. His f
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