The building Adrian had mentioned to Ethan was, as it turned out, excellent.Two floors of a 1930s conversion in a neighborhood that had good coffee shops andreasonable structural integrity, according to Ethan, who had researched the building’shistory before I had even confirmed we were looking at it. It had good light, a properworkspace, enough room for Ethan to have a corner that was his, and a kitchen that didnot feel like a hotel kitchen, which had become my primary criterion for anything I wasgoing to live in for the foreseeable future.We signed the lease on a Thursday.Ethan was at school. I called to tell him when he got home and he said: “Good. I alreadymeasured the corner for the model table. I’ll need a second shelf unit.” He paused. “Didyou check the load-bearing capacity of the floors?”“The building inspector did,” I said.“I would have asked different questions,” he said, but acceptingly, the way he acceptsthe limitations of people who are not structural enginee
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