POV Kristen Derrick visit. Derrik sat on the floor without being asked.That matters more than it sounds. The first visit, he sat in the chair ..... the adult choice, the elevated position, the seat that keeps a child at the periphery of your attention rather than at the center. This time he folded himself down to the kitchen floor before Eli could redirect him, before I could observe the hesitation, before any of us had to navigate the distance between a grown man's instinct and a three-year-old's world. He sat down. He opened the puzzle. He laid the pieces out between them.I went to the doorway.Not the kitchen ..... the corridor just outside it, close enough to hear, far enough that the visit had its own air to breathe. This is the arrangement I decided on after the first visit present but not hovering, available but not inserted. Eli knows I am there. Derrik knows I am there. Nobody performs for nobody.The puzzle was forty pieces. Farm animals, bright primary colors, the kind
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