When A Guy Notices Your Clothes

Glen Powell steals the scene as the big-hearted guy in the romcom I just watched, and I couldn’t stop grinning through half the movie. He plays the kind of 'nice guy' who’s effortlessly earnest — not syrupy, just genuinely considerate and funny in the way that makes romcom chemistry click. His banter with the lead lands, and he brings that twinkly charisma he showed in other roles while keeping things grounded. There are moments when he leans into classic romcom timing and then flips it with a slightly modern, self-aware wink, which I loved. If you like a romcom that blends old-school warmth with a touch of cheeky contemporary humor, his performance is the main reason to watch. Personally, seeing him carry both the silly and tender beats made the whole film feel like a cozy night in — I walked away smiling and a little head-over-heels for the character.

Scrolling through late-night rec lists, I keep finding the same comforting pattern: the truly great 'nice guy' fanfics don't just parade virtue, they examine it. The best ones make me root for a character whose kindness is real, sometimes brittle, sometimes stubborn, and often tested. I like stories in the 'gentle!character' or 'slow burn' vein where patience and small, honest moments do the heavy lifting. In fandoms like 'Sherlock' and 'Harry Potter', that usually means quiet scenes—tea on the kitchen table, a bandaged hand cleaned without comment—that say more than grand speeches. What I tend to recommend to friends are fics that avoid the entitled or manipulative 'nice guy' trope; instead they reward empathy. Look for tags like 'redemption arc', 'found family', or 'supportive!partner' on sites like Archive of Our Own. For 'Marvel' readers I often point people toward domestic, healing Steve Rogers stories where heroism is everyday kindness. For 'My Hero Academia', there are lovely Izuku-centric fics that focus on mentorship and steady emotional growth. If you want re-reads, pick fics with consistent character voice and a balance of conflict and cozy payoff. Those small, believable character beats are what stick with me most, and I always come away softer for having read them.

I get that question a lot at my book club, and honestly the phrase 'nice guy' pops up in different places, so there isn’t a single, universally recognized novel series titled exactly 'nice guy' that everyone points to. What usually happens is people mean one of three things: a self-published romance series using 'Nice Guy' as a subtitle, a fanfiction/web serial that adopted the name on platforms like Wattpad, or they're mixing it up with the movie 'The Nice Guys' (screenplay by Shane Black and Anthony Bagarozzi). If you’ve seen a cover, the fastest route is to check the back cover or the title page for the author, or plug the exact title into Goodreads, Amazon, or your local library catalog. Self-published series can be tricky because multiple indie authors sometimes use similar series names. I’ve tracked down a few of those myself by searching lines from the blurb in quotes — that usually leads straight to the author page. It’s a little detective work, but I kind of enjoy the hunt.

I still smile whenever I hear that opening riff — it hits different. 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' was tracked during the sessions for 'Billion Dollar Babies' at Morgan Studios in London, with Bob Ezrin producing. The studio take is the one you hear on the single and LP; it’s tight, theatrical, and has that glossy early-'70s rock sheen that made Alice Cooper's band sound huge without being overblown. Live, the song was rolled out on the 'Billion Dollar Babies' tour soon after the record was finished, and its public debut was in London at the Hammersmith venue (the classic Odeon/Hammersmith Apollo space where so many rock premieres happened). Hearing it in that cramped, raucous theater for the first time, people reportedly flipped — the chorus was tailor-made for singalongs. For me, mixing the studio polish from Morgan and the raw punch of those Hammersmith nights captures why the track still feels alive; it’s studio craft and stage chaos braided together, and that contrast is part of its charm.

Reading 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' was like getting a wake-up call I didn’t know I needed. The book really digs into how trying to be overly accommodating can backfire—like when you prioritize everyone else’s needs to avoid conflict but end up feeling resentful or invisible. One big lesson that stuck with me is the idea of 'covert contracts,' where you do things for others expecting something in return without ever communicating it. It made me realize how often I’d fall into that trap, silently hoping people would just 'get' what I wanted. Another key takeaway was embracing authenticity instead of seeking approval. The author argues that 'Nice Guys' often hide their true selves to avoid rejection, but this just leads to shallow relationships. Learning to set boundaries and express needs openly felt terrifying at first, but it’s been game-changing. Now, when I catch myself slipping into people-pleasing mode, I ask: 'Am I doing this because I genuinely want to, or because I’m afraid of disapproval?' Still a work in progress, but way more freeing.

If you're a fan of 'Ice Guy and the Cool Female Colleague,' you'll be thrilled to know there's actually a decent amount of merch out there! From acrylic stands to keychains featuring the adorable main duo, there's plenty to choose from. I recently snagged a cute chibi-style pin of Himuro-san, and it’s honestly one of my favorite pieces in my collection. The art style translates so well into merch, especially with those icy blue tones they use for Himuro. For those who prefer practical items, there are also clear files, towels, and even collaboration cafés in Japan that offer limited-edition goods. The café merch tends to sell out fast, though—I missed out on a themed coaster last time, and I’m still kicking myself about it. If you’re looking for something more unique, some fan artists on platforms like Booth or Etsy create handmade items inspired by the series. Just be sure to support official releases too!

It can be a little unsettling when someone looks down at your body, depending on the context. If it's someone I know well, I might feel flattered or appreciated. But if it's a stranger, it can feel intrusive. I believe it’s essential for everyone to respect personal space. Acknowledgment should come from shared connections, not just physical appearances. It’s all about the vibe. If someone takes that time to know me beyond what’s visible, that’s more appealing than any gaze. After all, deeper connections resonate so much more!

I got an email once right before a weekend road trip that changed how I treat recall notices forever. For me, reading Volkswagen recall notices is most critical anytime there’s a direct safety implication — think airbags, brakes, fuel system, steering, or anything that can cause a fire or sudden loss of control. Those are the notices that make me stop and schedule a dealer visit immediately. I’ve had the nagging, low-grade anxiety of driving a car that might suddenly cut out on the highway; that feeling vanished the first time a recall repair put my mind at ease, and now I treat every safety recall like an appointment I can’t miss. Another moment when I’m hyper-alert is right after buying a used VW or borrowing one from family. I always check the VIN before I hand over cash or accept keys, because recalls don’t care about who owns the car — unresolved safety recalls stay with the vehicle. I also pay attention after noticing odd symptoms: an unexplained dash light, strange smells (especially gasoline or burning), sudden stalling, or funny noises from the steering column. Those are the little breadcrumbs that often mean a known defect could be the culprit. If a recall mentions a component that lines up with what I’m experiencing, I don’t wait — I call the dealer and book the fix. Beyond the obvious emergencies, I’ve learned to take notices seriously before big trips, when kids or elderly passengers are on board, and whenever new software/feature updates arrive. Software-related recalls for infotainment or driving assists can feel less urgent until they cause false warnings or misbehavior while driving. I also keep an eye on broader campaigns because parts and systems are shared across model years; a recall for a 2016 Golf could impact a 2018 Jetta if they use the same module. Practical steps I use: sign up for VIN alerts on the manufacturer and government safety websites, document recall repairs (keep the receipt and repair order), and push for a loaner if the fix will take days. Once, a quick recall repair actually prevented what could’ve been a much worse breakdown; it’s a small time cost for peace of mind, and honestly, now it’s part of my pre-trip ritual.