Why Do I Hate Being Touched But Crave Touch At The Same Time

2025-03-18 12:25:47 195

4 answers

Kian
Kian
2025-03-23 09:32:07
Feeling a mix of desiring and rejecting touch is quite the dilemma. In my mind, touch represents intimacy and connection, but it also makes me feel vulnerable. When it’s someone I trust, I crave that warmth and comfort, yet when it’s from others, it feels overwhelming. It’s like my brain is at war: one side longs for affection, while the other wants to build walls. I guess it's a balance between wanting closeness and needing my personal bubble intact. Navigating through these conflicting feelings can be tough, but understanding them is a big part of my journey. What I really strive for is finding the right people and moments that make me feel safe enough to embrace both sides. It's all a process of learning to enjoy the good aspects of touch, without feeling like I'm losing control.
Weston
Weston
2025-03-24 11:47:19
There's this peculiar dance happening within me. I often long for a gentle hand on my shoulder or a warm hug when I’m in a good place emotionally. It brings comfort and a sense of security. At the same time, there’s this layer of anxiety that repels touch when I’m feeling off-kilter. I think it comes down to the nuances of how I relate to people. When I feel scarce on trust or control in a situation, touch can feel invasive, almost like an intrusion. It’s fascinating and complex, being wired to crave connection but also fighting that instinct. Finding the right balance where touch feels comforting rather than violating is an ongoing adventure.
Ivy
Ivy
2025-03-21 04:56:49
Touch is confusing for me. I love hugs but sometimes they just feel too much. The idea of feeling connected and close to someone is appealing, yet at times, I just want my space. It’s like a craving for warmth that clashes with a need for independence. It's awkward. Understanding how to navigate this is a work in progress.
Uriah
Uriah
2025-03-19 01:18:48
The desire for touch brings comfort, yet the feeling of being overexposed can trigger anxiety. I appreciate the warmth of a friend's hug but can’t handle it when I’m stressed or unsure. When I’m relaxed, touch signifies belonging, but at other times, it's like stepping into the spotlight and I just want to hide. Finding the right moments matters.

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