Novel & Cerita Lived Experiences Meaning

Ganoon siya kapag tumitig sa akin. “Alam mo kasi Khaye, naniniwala kasi ako na by experience, mas madami tayong matutunan na lesson sa buhay. So kung ayaw mong mag-try, anong experience ang mapagdadaanan mo? Paano mo malalaman yung tama at mali, yung dapat at hindi at yung masaya sa masakit?” “Ang experience kusang darating. Hindi naman iyan basta tina-try lang. Daratind din naman ako sa puntong ganyan. Hindi pa siguro ngayon.”

"That's the only experience I've ever had. At least it happened just once, with one person—and then nothing after that... does that count?" Napaubo siya na tila ba nasamid nang sarili niyang laway, bago kalmado pa ring nagsalita. "Sexual experience is different from work experience." "Why? Don't you have any training or seminars for newly hired employees before deploying them? Or is experience something you expect them to figure out alone? After all, experience can be learned, gained, and earned anytime, anywhere." Gusto kong palakpakan ang sarili ko sa puntong ito, pero halatang hindi na talaga siya natutuwa.

What we did remember, on the other hand, were the events that had the greatest impact on us. The experience of being abused, whether physically or psychologically, was one that could truly be understood only firsthand. We could all imagine how it might feel to be in such a situation, but understanding this sort of reality was beyond our capabilities. It’s very difficult to fully understand another reality without ever accepting it as your own.

Kahit masakit sa akin ang nangyari ay pilit ko na lamang inuunawa dahil alam kong pare-parehas lang naman din kaming ginagawa ang lahat ng aming kaya para mabuhay lang. “Wala namang masama kung ito nga ang una kong beses na makapunta sa ganitong klaseng lugar, Lebby. Iba’t ibang klase naman kasi ang buhay nating lahat, kaya sana huwag mong pagtawanan ang mga karanasang hindi ko pa nararanasan dahil lamang mas nauna kang maranasan ‘yon.” wika ko sa kaniya. Hindi naman ako galit, gusto ko lang na maunawaan niyang iba-iba ang buhay na mayro’n kaming lahat.

Mabilis siyang nag-iwas ng tingin at nagkunwaring may tinitingnan sa kung saan. “I know that my experiences are nothing compared to yours, Ma, but I have learned a lot from my experiences. Doon ko po natutunan na minsan, sa buhay natin, hindi po maling maging mahina. Na hindi po mali ang ipakita sa mga tao na nasasaktan tayo. We’re still human. And to feel pain is necessary for us to feel alive.” Right at that instant, a tear fell from her eyes and it rolled down her cheek. Mabilis lang itong nawala dahil agad niya ‘yung pinalis gamit ang isang kamay.