Sundays are my self-care/ self love days. That means no boyfriends, no commitments and most definitely no best friends. It is a day all about me, for me; I take the day to do what I want to do. I do what makes me happy.
That can be anything from taking a long nap, to getting my nails done or going people watching in the park.
Today I am going on a solo picnic date. I have my grilled chicken and ham sandwiches packed, in my basket. I also have a nice fruit bowl situation going on. And to drink I have my mother’s famous pink lemonade, all I need is a nice strawberry shake for desert. I love strawberry shakes, I’m not too picky about where I get it, as long as it’s the flavor I like.
I am driving to the nearest McDonald’s in my area. The picnic spot I want to go to is 44 minutes from Pretoria. And I don’t want to waste time driving around Pretoria. I am going to Bronkhorspruit Dam for my solo date, I’m so excited. It’s so beautiful and peaceful out there.
I drive up to the drive-through at McDonald’s and wait for my turn to order.
“Good morning welcome to McDonald’s may I take your order please” A lady says on the when it’s my turn.
“Hi, may please have one strawberry shake please.” I say to the mike.
“Okay, would you like anything else?” She asks after a beat.
“No, that’s all” I declare.
“Okay, please drive to the next window. Thank you” She says and I drive to the next window.
I get there and pay for my shake and drive on to the pickup window. When I look up to take my shake, my eyes collide with Leo’s. He’s staring at me stunned, recovers quickly when I look at him. He hands me the cup through the window.
My hand freezes halfway through to taking the shake from him. I feel my heart beat faster. I almost don’t want to make contact with him, suddenly something as simple as taking a shake from a window has become an impossible task. I take a deep breath and reach out the rest of the way and take the drink.
“Hi” I finally say. Why do I feel like this? I’ve known him for over 5 years and I have never felt this way. Why am I shaky around him all of a sudden?
“Hi, have a great day.” He says when I place the drink in my cup holder.
“You too” I say driving away.
40 minutes later I arrive at the picnic spot; I am feeling happy and renewed. All my stress and tension gone. It feels so good to be in nature and switch off.
I park my car and get my stuff out of the car. I look around at the beauty that is around me. I am in awe of the amazing mountain in front of me and the vast water stretching beyond. I smile happy I did this; it is so beautiful out here.
The smell of the water and the warm touch of the sun make me so happy. I walk toward the water to find a nice spot to lay out my blanket and relax.
I find a great place under a tree. There is just enough shade to be cool. I lay out my picnic blanket and set up so I can get comfortable.
I lie down and enjoy the view. There are families, couples and singles like me taking advantage of the good weather.
I lie on my back and close my eyes for a moment. I smile softly. I feel good. I let my mind drift and the first thing that pops into my mind is Leo’s smile.
I let myself explore that. Why am I thinking about him?
Leo
“How are you feeling my guy?” Zach says smiling at me from across the kitchen island. He’s in a particularly good mood.
He called me this morning before I left for work to tell me he’s coming over tonight. He said he wants to spend some quality time with his best mate. Me.
I got home 2 hours ago, I’m busy making the kids dinner and this fool is sitting across from me acting weird.
“I’m good, you seem extra good today.” I say smiling because he has this stupid, cheesy smile on his face.
“I am, indeed I am feeling extra good.” He says and taps me on the shoulder.
“What the hell, are you going to tell me what’s going on?” I ask, I can’t take his weirdness.
“I my friend found out that Super man is indeed afraid of kryptonite.” He says and actually has the nerve to look thoughtful.
“What?”
“Cole, the school clone/ Mr universe/ Mr everything perfect, is not so perfect.” He says and my heart skips at the mention of Golden’s boyfriend.
I know where this is going. I made the mistake of telling Zach that I have a crush on her once and he has been trying to get me to ask her ever since.
“Oh!” I say and move away from the kitchen. I make sure the kids sit down and eat, before I take a deep breath and head back to Zach. I hand him a plate of food and get my own.
“Oh! That’s all you have to say?” He says actually looking hurt.
“What do you want me to say?” I ask and not really interested in the answer.
“Well I was hoping you would be a little more interested to know that our “it” boy is very insecure about his relationship with Golden.” He says proud of the information he’s giving me.
“Okay and what’s that got to do with me?”
“That means you have a chance man.” He says his voice getting louder.
I laugh shocked at his declaration. I laugh from the deepest part of my stomach. I haven’t laughed like this in a long time.
“Wow, bro. I knew you had mad love for me but I didn’t know it went this deep.” I say laughing even harder at the thought of what he just said.
“You laugh but I know what I’m talking about. All Cole has is popularity and his parent’s money.”
“And all I have is problems” I say when the laughter finally subsides.
“You have a great heart, you work hard and you are one of the best people I know.” He says a serious look on his face.
“Thank you for the vote of confidence my friend but Golden is not for me. ” I say the words breaking my heart but it’s true.
Later in bed
Zach’s words ring in my head. I have had a crush on Golden for over 4 years now and I never allowed myself to imagine what it would be like to actually share space with her. I can barely look her in the eyes, I can’t imagine going on a date with her.
“Zach is crazy” I say into the darkness.
LeoI walk on the school property not really ready to get into the grind of the coming week. I am tired as usual, it’s a miracle I woke up this morning.. I get to the parking lot where all the popular kids hang out. Their car doors open and music blasting from their speakers. I know if I look straight ahead I’ll see Golden. She’s with her friends leaningZach’s words filter into my head uninvited. I look straight ahead and Golden is looking in my direction. I quickly look down my heart in my throat. I look behind me maybe there’s someone there, a bunch of 8th graders are leaning on a wall. But they are not looking in her direction, they are staring at a phone.I look back up at Golden and she’s still looking at me. I look away and take deep breaths. Was she looking at me? Why would she be looking at me? Am I tripping?I need to get my head straight there’s no way in hell Gol
Golden “What was that all about?” Amara asks, me when I walk back to them. “Nothing” I say hoping she’ll let it go. “That didn’t look like nothing” She says looking at Leo and his friends. She has this disgusted look on her face. She always makes that face when she feels someone is beneath her as if she has the authority that decides who is worthy. It’s been like this since eighth grade. She would pick on the less fortunate kids because she was born rich. The older we get the older her attitude gets. Or am I getting old? I’m realizing I have less tolerance for her nasty side with each passing day. “This is about me and I say it’s nothing. Will you let it go please.” I say looking at her straight in the her eyes so she knows I’m serious. “Well, I’m just looking out for you. I don’t think Cole would like it if he saw you talking to boys like that.” She says pointing to Zach. I feel myself getting angry all over again why should Cole decide who I talk to? He’s not my keeper. “Let
I watch Mina walk toward us her interest peaked. Her eyes are focused on Golden; she walks next to me and looks at me for a long time. As if she’s asking me what the hell bro? She sits down next to me and looks at Golden for even longer. I can see her little mind working over time. I open my mouth to say something but she beats me to it. “Who are you?” she asks Golden still looking at her intently. “I’m Golden.” Golden says extending her hand to Mina. My little sister looks at her hand and then she looks at me. I smile and she looks back at Golden’s offered hand. She looks Golden in the eyes and then finally decides to accept her hand shake. “I’m Mina.” She says. “Nice to meet you.” Golden says looking unfazed. “How do you know my brother?” Mina asks still curious. “We go to the same school.” Golden says looking intently at Mina. I guess she’s not backing down. “Okay” Mina says and then turns to me. “I’m going back to play.” She declares, she waits for me to nod and then she’
Golden I’m sitting with Cole and his friends at a park; we’re just lying around doing nothing really. Everyone is listening to one of Cole’s stories. He’s the center of attention, where he likes to be. Everyone is so engrossed in whatever he’s saying not really contributing anything. I have nothing against him being in the center, it’s just that it’s gotten so old. This is all we do, sit and listen. I tune out thinking about where I really want to be. It’s been about a month since I spent time with Leo and his crew. I wish we could hang out with his siblings and Zach again. Mina and Jon are barely old enough to spell their names but they have more fun than this lot. There really is magic in being a child, maybe that’s why I’m drawn to Zach. He has this fun free spirited, child like quality about him. He doesn’t mind being dumb. Why do I want to spend time with Leo? He seems so mature. I like he doesn’t feel the need to speak just because. He’s comfortable with silence; we live in
I can’t believe Golden is standing in my house, in the same kitchen I make myself food. I see her here but my brain can’t make sense of it. After we had ice cream she walked with us back here. I told her a it’s a long walk hoping she’ll change her mind and go home instead but no. The whole time we were walking I was in my head trying to figure out what’s happening, why does she want to be here with me? I figured maybe she’s curious, a fact that makes me uncomfortable. I wonder if she’s trying to get close to me, find out all she can about me and then expose me to the whole school. I feel like I’m being too trusting, she shouldn’t be here. But there isn’t much I can do now, she’s here. Looking around my house. “We’re going to play.” Mina says already pulling Jon to the door. She doesn’t wait for me to say if they can go or not. “Only for a little while.” I say behind them as they slam the door shut. I move from the kitchen to the bedroom window. From there I can watch the kids play
“So, you hung out with Golden? That’s a development.” Zach says talking too loud for my liking. I look around us to see who’s listening. We’re on the school field to have our lunch, the closest person to us is the school grounds keeper and he’s on the other side. But still, you never know who’s lurking. We’re kicking it alone today because I had to tell someone about spending time with Golden or I’m going to burst. “She didn’t really give me a choice and can you not talk so loud,” I say speaking softly. “What do you mean she didn’t give you a choice?” He asks making a face at me but he lowers his voice. “We had ice cream and she came back home with us. I didn’t invite her, she sort of walked along with us until we got home.” He smiles at my explanation and I already know where this is going. “She was in your house, wow dude. You guys are moving fast.” He says smiling a very sly smile. He wiggles his brows over and over, I cringe inwardly at that. “Not like that. Don’t say that.
“I can’t believe you and Cole broke up.” Amara says sitting across from me, at her favorite restaurant. She wanted to take me out for lunch since I’m going through a tough time. She called me last night telling me to get ready to go out today because she wants to cheer me up. I finally had the courage to tell them that Cole and I are on a break, for two weeks I let them believe that we were working through a small fight. But after 14 whole days of him ignoring me and pretending I didn’t exist at school I had, had enough. I sent Amara and Gina a PSA text and here we are. They are both distraught and concerned for my well-being. “They didn’t break up Amara, they’re on a break,” Gina says a little too loudly. The couple in front of us turns and looks at me with so much pity, I almost feel sorry for myself. I could ask Gina to speak quietly but what’s the point? It’s out there now; the strangers in the restaurant might as well know my business too. “But what does that even mean?” Amara
“I have a favor to ask.” Zach says across from me. I look up at the Ms Swan our English teacher. She doesn’t like talkers in class. She has her back to us but everyone knows she has supernatural hearing. She can tell you who’s talking without even seeing them. It’s like a mutant power, don’t understand what’s so important that Zach can’t wait until lunch. I give him a look to let him know I don’t want to talk right now. He raises his brows at me in question and then he gives me a shoulder shrug. What’s wrong with this dude? Did he forget where we are? Miss Swan doesn’t play. “No,” I say as quietly as possible. I want to tell him we can talk about this at lunch but that’s too many words and Ms Knight will definitely catch me talking if I say anything more than that. “What do you mean no? You don’t even know what the favor is.” He says whispering back at me. Of ‘course he thinks I’m saying no to his request for a favor and not to talk in Ms Swan’s class. I look at him hoping he can