The change was not a crisis.This was the thing I needed to hold onto from the beginning, the thing Tristan said when he told me, the specific clarification of someone who understood that the first words mattered and had chosen them carefully. He said: it is not a crisis. It is a threshold. She has crossed into a different stage and we need to understand what that means.Catherine had been slower for two years.The slowness had been gradual in the way of things that announced themselves by increments rather than all at once, the pace in the garden that had been decreasing by small degrees, the way she came to the Sunday table now with the specific careful quality of someone who was managing more than she showed. She had not complained. Catherine did not complain about herself, had never complained about herself, had organized her entire life around the understanding that her function was to be present for other people rather than to require presence from them.But the October morning
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