Nora came eleven days early.I woke at 3 a.m. to the specific pressure that meant things were moving faster than the due date had planned, and I sat up in the dark and said: "Okay. Okay."I called Caleb.Second ring. He had not been asleep either."It's time," I said."I'm coming." No pause. No hesitation. "Fifteen minutes."He was there in twelve, with my hospital bag in his hand — from the closet by the door, where I had told him it would be, weeks ago, which meant he had been paying attention to things he would previously have delegated to me.He looked at me and said: "How are you?""Afraid," I said. "Excited. Can we please go?""We can go."Labor lasted nine hours. I will not say it was beautiful in the way that certain narratives insist on making it. It was hard and long and there were moments deep in the middle of it where I said things to Caleb that were not kind and he absorbed every one without flinching, saying: "I know. You're doing so well. I'm right here."He held my han
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