In the spring of the second year after my divorce, I got promoted to department head. My salary went from 13,000 dollars to 22,000 dollars a month.When HR handed me the new contract, I read it three times. Going from 13,000 dollars to 22,000 dollars meant a 9,000-dollar raise—and 9,000 dollars was a big deal to me.That was close to what I'd needed when my mom was in the hospital, when I couldn't pay and had to borrow 10,000 dollars from a coworker.It was more than what I'd been missing when my dad turned 60, and all I could give him was a cake. It was enough to buy two of the coats I'd wanted last year but couldn't bring myself to splurge on.I moved out of my rental and bought a small apartment near work that had two bedrooms and a living room.I went alone to sign the contract. When the agent asked whose name to put on it, I answered, "Mine."I handed over my ID, and when my pen touched the paper, my hand didn't shake one bit.After signing the contract, I sat alone in
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