Samantha Sand
At my mom's 50th birthday party, the host suddenly invites my adoptive sister, Megan Fraser, and me onstage to take part in a "Who Knows Mom Best?" quiz.
All the relatives assume it is a special segment my mom has arranged to officially introduce me to everyone as her biological daughter.
The first question is about my mom's favorite flower. I write down "lily", the flower she always keeps in her study.
Megan, on the other hand, holds up her board and says, "White camellia. Mom said it was the first flower Dad ever gave her."
My mom nods and says, "Megan remembers it better than anyone."
The second question asks what my mom takes for her stomach problems. I write down the medication her doctor prescribed.
Megan writes down the soup my brother, Josh Fraser, makes.
"Kathy, you've been back for three years, and you didn't even know Mom hates taking medicine?" Josh mocks.
After that, Megan correctly answers questions about my mom's usual size, the opera she listens to when she can't sleep, and her favorite perfume.
One by one, the lights beside me—symbols of our supposed bond—go out.
The last question is who my mom wants to give the family heirloom brooch to.
Megan doesn't write a word. Instead, she slips her arm through my mom's and says, "Mom would never let me lose."
As laughter fills the room, my mom personally lights the final light for Megan.
Then she looks at me and says, "Just because you're my flesh and blood doesn't mean you truly know me. We'll talk about acknowledging you as my daughter another time."
I walk straight off the stage and send my lawyer, Peter Richmond, a message.
"Proceed as planned. I'm leaving tonight."