Okay, I feel like this question was made for my bookshelves. My absolute top pick has to be Tana French's 'The Likeness' – Cassie Maddox is such a fascinating, layered character, a detective who goes undercover posing as a murdered grad student. It's less about the whodunit and more about her psychological unravelling as she inhabits this other woman's life; the tension between her professional duty and the eerie, addictive intimacy she develops with the victim's friends is incredible. The romance is a slow-burning, complicated thread woven through the main mystery, and it feels earned, not just tacked on.
For something with more of a bite, I'd throw in 'The Last Thing He Told Me' by Laura Dave. Hannah Hall is this incredibly pragmatic, methodical woodturner who has to piece together her husband's disappearance while bonding with her resistant stepdaughter. Her strength is quiet but relentless, grounded in craft and logic rather than physical prowess. The central relationship driving the plot is the evolving one between the women, which I found way more compelling than any potential romance with a new guy.
And I can't leave out Simone St. James' 'The Sundown Motel' – dual timelines with two determined women, separated by decades, investigating murders at the same creepy motel. The 1982 protagonist, Viv, is a total force of nature, fearless and cunning in a way that feels authentically gritty for the era. The supernatural suspense element is handled so well, and the romantic subplot for the modern-day character is satisfying without overshadowing the core mystery. These are all books where the woman's intelligence and grit are the engine of the story.