"The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared."
~Lois LowryWe step into the house and we are barely through the door when Julian captures my lips and softly kisses them, his tongue snaking into my mouth while his hand holds me tight around his waist. He takes my lower lips and delivered a wonderful worshipping with his mouth and lips and I moan out and grab hold of his shirt, pulling him deeper and closer to me.
"We are really doing this?" I ask, breathing heavily and staring into his eyes once I pull away.
He is also trying hard to catch his breath, "It's all about what you want, Alex, we are doing this only if you want us to."
I kiss his lips deeply before pulling away and I make my way into the kitchen to get water to drink. I ask myself if I'm really about
“The fact is, there is no foundation, no secure ground, upon which people may stand today if it isn’t the family. If you don’t have the support and love and caring and concern that you get from a family, you don’t have much at all. Love is so supremely important. As our great poet Auden said, ‘Love each other or perish’,”~Mitch AlbomZander is sitting on a couch in the parlour and when he sees me coming in, he gets up to his feet and approaches me and his eyes are careful as they stare at me like I was in some form of bondage when he saw me earlier.I open my mouth to speak but he beats me to it and says, "Lauren called me," he explains, "according to her, you've been low the past few days and I felt guilty for leaving and came to visit today. I saw the car parked in, but when I checked your room, you weren't there."I sigh deeply, "I'm fine Z, as you can see, nothing to worry about."
"The conflict between the will to deny horrible events and the will to proclaim them aloud is the central dialectic of psychological trauma."~Judith Lewis HermanRogue's POV"When are you going to be done?" Groans Lare loudly from the bedroom.Lare whine from outside the bathroom where I currently am, trying to get my hair into its perfect form. Lare came in a while ago and insisted that I come with him to his restaurant/bar which is officially opening today and though we've discussed finance and responsibilities of owning and running many months ago, I lost track of how far they'd gone after my life went to shit many weeks ago. I am delighted that Lare is archiving one of his many dreams and when he came in to invite me to the formal opening earlier, although not really in the mood, I had to show support to my dear friend and also because I knew he
"Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."~Steve Maraboli.Flashback..."From the very beginning," Kemi said without hesitation and I stared unbelievably at her, she may have been cool and calm, but something told me she was enjoying having me expose my past to her.'I can bet you that she doesn't want to help, she just wants you to bare yourself to her and she, in turn, will add you to the list of men who have crumbled before her, remember five years ago? You did exactly that. The truth is she can't help you, no one can.' my inner voice surfaced to say.My eyes closed and my head bowed slowly, "I can't do that.""Why did you say that?" She asked, her voice curious but calm and I didn't know how she manag
"If everyone just accepted you the way you are, then, probably, you'd still be the way you were. So for anyone who didn't accept you at one point, just give 'em a smile in your heart and say, "Thank You"~Ufuoma Apoki"I didn't think you'd come back after our last session. You were angry and barely looked back when you were leaving." Kemi says as she sees me at the door and further opens it to let me in.I roll my eyes and step into the office "I didn't want to, I don't care what your degree in human psychologist is, you are still a stranger opening up to you is going to take more than a smile and cheerful spirit.""Ever heard the saying the best person to tell your secrets to is a stranger?"I glance at her and when I see she's serious, I rolled my eyes, "No, I haven't and
"Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love."~Bell hooksFlashback"Rayyan!" Ms Darcy Franco, my sixth grade teacher called, waking me up from my sleep and I looked up at her stern expression and I swallowed hard. The last thing I needed now was to be put in the naughty corner or worse laughed at by the rest of the kids in their class. I already had my hands full of misery."Ms Franco," I responded, my eyes already weary as they stare at her.She strode authoritatively towards my desk, her expression was pensive and crude. She was wearing a long yellow gown that was above h
" Often in their adult relationships, these men act out again and again to test their partner's love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother's love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him, unconditional love."~Bell HooksI said nothing as Lorenzo came to the car, got in and drove us home and I silently anticipate the worse for the day. He was also silent and I knew that I was in for it today.When his car came to a stop in front of the house, he steps out and I did the same, still being as silent as ever. We walked into the house and I didn't know how long we were going to remain silent, but something was sure, I wasn't going to survive whatever was going to happen today.I bit my lips slowly and I did not dare to look at him, "Today was a hectic day, R," Lorenzo began with a rather
This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant."Bell hooks"Rayyan!" I heard the terrified and loud voice call as I was about to let go of the railing bar, this made me open my eyes and turn around and there I found Mrs Angelica standing not too far away from me, holding the most dread-filled face I'd ever seen. "Rayyan what are you doing?""It's okay, I'm okay. I just need to do this and it would all be okay, Mrs Angelica.""Please, Rayyan, don't do that, you're going to die if you throw yourself off, don't you get that?"I nodded, a wide smile spreading over my face, "Yes, that's what I'm hoping to do, you d
"Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart."~AnonymousAlexanders POVThis is the third time we've come out since last week and the first was seven days ago when Julian took me to the park and although it ended up bad because some cameramen saw us together and tried to make a scene when securities told them no photo in the park and Julian had to get me out of there as fast as he could.It was almost a week since Julian's arrival and he'd done more for me than anyone else had done since the last eight weeks and we've tried out a few things too, grilled fish, chicken suya and my favourite the grilled gizzard. We bought them four days ago when we went to the park and since then I haven't been able to get enough of it. Julian who is an amazing soul got them for me. Whenever he's coming home from work would buy and bring them over.