POV: Nora The court-ordered co-parenting session had been on the calendar for three weeks before it actually happened, scheduled as part of the six month review the original custody determination had required. I had assumed it would be procedural, a box to check, twenty minutes of a counselor confirming we could communicate about Aria without incident. It turned out to be a full hour, weekly, with an actual therapist who had opinions about how we were doing it wrong. Her name was Dr. Patel and her office had two chairs angled slightly toward each other instead of facing directly, which she explained on the first visit was deliberate, designed to reduce the confrontational quality of direct eye contact while still allowing connection. Elias sat in his chair with the careful posture of someone used to controlling a room and finding himself in one he couldn't. "Tell me how communication has been going," Dr. Patel said, looking between us. "Functional," Elias said. "We coordinate sc
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