Luna Maris
After I started college, my mother announced that she would be giving me my living expenses in installments.
"Hank, you're grown up now. To teach you how to manage your money, I've decided to give you your living expenses in installments."
At first, I assumed she meant she would send my allowance once a month. At worst, maybe once a week.
But on the day I checked in, she walked around the cafeteria, then transferred $6.80 to my bank account.
I stared at her in confusion. "Mom, you sent the wrong amount."
She shook her head with a smile. "Silly boy, that's your lunch money for today. I already picked out the cheapest meal for you. Just get the set lunch from that place. From now on, you can apply to me for the cost of each meal based on this amount."
I was completely stunned.
So when she said "installments," she did not mean monthly or even weekly. She meant every single meal.
But by the third day, I was standing at the breakfast counter, struggling to come up with the $1.50 I needed for an egg.
When I asked my mother for money, she refused. Instead, she simply said, "I paid for your brother's house in full yesterday. I don't have any extra cash on hand right now. Missing one meal won't kill you, will it?"
The cafeteria lady looked at me with surprise and pity. That look burned a hole straight through my already fragile pride.
That day, I held the egg the lady had given me and searched for a part-time job.
Yet, when I no longer needed my mother, she was the one who panicked.